When Your Time Is Up!

When love has an expiration date it will fall on death ears, we as women will ignore the warning signs even though red flags have been obvious to us we pretend that we don't see it and somehow will go away. So we run from the truth because we do not want to be wrong about this relationship. In hope of some miracle to happen when in fact it's a total disaster and we know it. Why do we stay for the pain? And why haven't we've checked out? Because it looks like they have. And when we allow this type of behavior they seem to do more and more damage and cause more and more pain.

But ladies we must admit we attract these no good men and that is because of some trauma that we harbored in our personal lives that we have never dealt with. Or could it be the way our lifestyles were at that time in which we were living? And that definitely played a major role. You will only be attracted to men who hurt, use, and abuse you. And that is because you yourself were hurt and maybe you still are and you allowed that behavior. It is time we start loving and appreciating who we are first because if we don't then they will treat us as we treat ourselves.

We no longer have to accept any kind of negative behavior just to be in a relationship with a man. We must truly understand what is it we want in ourselves in order to be in a happy and healthy relationship. It is vital to our being that we do not allow anyone to treat us with disrespect and make us feel less than who we are. If we can’t love and nurture ourselves effectively then we are doing ourselves an injustice and our significant other.

Being in a healthy relationship is the most important thing to strive for. Without it, you will surely lose all respect in and for the relationship. Love will soon fade and the need for a sexual desire will shift to someone else and you will no longer have those strong feelings for your partner that you once had. You began to look in other places searching for true love and reciprocity. Once you have allowed yourself to stay so long in that toxic relationship the more you feel stuck and can not move, so you spend years living in pain and agony when all you have to do is walk away. But is it really so easy to just walk away? You made yourself believe that you were in love and so you convinced yourself that it was true and that this is what happens in relationships.

And so you go through the motions until you finely give up and walk away. When you tell yourself I can’t believe I stayed so long what was I thinking. Well, I am so glad that I have gotten out of that toxic relationship that truly did not serve me at all. So in my attempt to encourage all women who may be in a toxic relationship to examine herself, check your worth, and determine if staying in toxicity worth it. Just remember ladies you are strong and you deserve to be happy at no cost. And you should always be treated with the utmost respect. You are truly a queen and should be exampled as one. Self-love is the best love so put you first, love you first so that the man of your dreams will reciprocate that love And love you as you see yourself.