What kind of good affection is the affection world

In social communication, emotions have two polarities, good emotions make people happy, bad emotions can harm people. People want to express or feel good emotions, so what are the factors that make people feel good emotions?

In social interactions, people usually like to be close to others. Limited by the social circle of activities, "physical proximity" makes people only look for friends around them, because people outside the circle of activities and distant people have no chance to meet. People who like to be near have strengths and weaknesses. Strengths are that people can quickly find friends around them. This is also the reason why classmates, fellow villagers, comrades and colleagues are easy to become friends. Deficiency is limited by the social space, the range of friends must be limited, affecting people's vision, will make people feel that only around the best friend relationship, such as young people after lovelorn, often feel very painful, love to death, feel that the world is no better than her (he). In fact, there are plenty of fish in THE sea, people in a new environment, "like the nearest people" principle, will make people quickly find new friends. With the passage of time, people's communication space continues to expand, and the consistency of social attitudes and views makes it easier for people to become friends. The communication in language, writing and thinking between peers will break through the narrow circle of activities, and they can find like-minded friends at home or even abroad.

A good personality can make people feel good. Psychological research has proved that there are good and bad personalities. Some are welcome and others are unacceptable. Such as female gentle, considerate character, easy to produce good feelings. A popular song goes: "There is a girl called Xiao Fang... Thank you for giving me the gentleness, this life will never forget." Indeed, a gentle personality is unforgettable. Discipline, honesty and frankness of respected personality, such as during xinhai revolution in 1912, national politics, university funding difficulties, many schools close because of this, jiaotong university principal Tang Wenzhi lead cut in half, staff pay each year in February, he and sharing between teachers and students, adhere to the school, the school from closing, won the love between teachers and students. Anderson says desirable traits include honesty, reasonableness and trustworthiness. Unpleasant characters are dishonest, selfish, mean, etc. American scientist Franklin thought that a good virtue or character is: temperance of desire, self-control, less nonsense, orderly, firm confidence, economization of expenditure, diligence, loyalty and honesty, treat people justly, keep clean, open-mindedness, prudent words and actions, modesty and politeness.

A man of good appearance is liked. This emotion comes from the halo effect, in which attractive people attract the opposite sex and make the same sex jealous. TV program hosts, detectives in detective films and so on choose the dashboard of beautiful male and female characters as partners, is to cater to different people's appetite, increase the attraction of the program, film. In THE U.S. presidential campaign, candidates should design speech shots like actors, and conduct rehearsal videos for many times, in order to win viewers and votes from appearance and demeanor. American social psychologist Walster research found that if the marriage is introduced through watching photos, then the woman's charm is the first factor that men decide whether to date. Although the person who likes appearance has obvious epistemological deficiency, but the aesthetic sense often makes one have to obey. The love of beauty is always there. This is the reason why announcers, program hosts, and actors become popular with the public. In addition to their personal efforts, they all lack natural beauty.Similar tastes make it easy to fall in love with each other. The so-called "wine and friends thousand cups less, more than half a sentence", "orangutan cherish orangutan, hero cherish hero" refers to the production of good feelings between each other, from the interest of congenial. In practical exchanges, for example, when they have the same interest in painting, music, movies, sports, travel, collection and cultural relics, or when they have similar political, economic and academic views, they will be happy and get along well with each other. On the contrary, casting pearls before swine and having no common interests, communication will not be sustainable.

Have a soft spot for people who think highly of themselves. In social communication, self-actualization always hopes to be recognized or appreciated by others. Once recognized and highly evaluated by others, self-actualization will have a good impression on the evaluator and even pay back with life. When Liu Bei visited the cottage three times, Zhuge Liang vowed to "spare no effort to do his duty until death".