What is life, how to live?

Each person, each subject has its own unique definition, even if they live a similar life, there will be different definitions, then you can also use a vague and general definition - before death is called life, it can also include work, illness, and often said practice. Some descriptions include the meaning of life and the way of life in life, which is tantamount to planting their own calls, suggestions and emotional definitions. So why ask the question? The fish asks in the water, what is water? What is breathing? With what do you swim? To feel the water? To breathe? If you ask questions to someone you are curious about or admire, and you use the "Zhihu" question and answer procedure, who are you asking? How can people who do not know each other understand, analyze, judge and make suggestions? Especially for such an abstract and vague question, what are the criteria for judging whether the answer is useful or not? Do you want to know the answer itself, or do you want to show your feelings or opinions? Have you considered the respondent's feelings? Maybe that was a little harsh. Excuse me. Many years ago, I also spontaneously led the design of questionnaires in campus self-practice, and found that even if it involved very specific and practical questions - such as "Can you settle for the questionnaire we make you may not like the way to remain as responsible (responsible for your future) as possible?" And explain whether the answer represents your true psychological mood or proportion?" Also take into account the accuracy of the question itself and the degree of ease of answer, the degree of desire of the person asked, how can you make the other party not perfunctory answer but smell the question and happy, feel that "finally someone asked this question", then know to ask a good question is even more important than the answer itself, unless your problem is only realistic quantification, Like -- your height? What's her weight? Therefore, the conclusion is drawn that the survey itself already represents the quality, sincerity, rationality, responsibility, comprehensive analysis and understanding and comprehensive design ability of the question makers. The questionnaire was originally intended to stimulate and promote the follow-up products, but only then did it become clear that the questionnaire itself is already a commodity, which needs to be accepted and felt sincerely and communicated effectively. It also involves making the implementors understand the purpose and meaning of the trip and should be explained and carried out responsibly, because we do not want to be ineffective and waste our lives. The question itself is already a comprehensive assessment of the questioner itself, and even affects the thinking direction and role orientation of the questioner, affecting their ability to bear and confidence and enthusiasm. Because everyone likes high-quality, effective and sincere questions, questions are sometimes far greater than material incentives, which may make the interviewees admire, moved and actively invested. In recent years, I have seen a lot of news and comments first described in a subjective arrogant logical confusion attitude, and then felt that the content is not finished or the truth is very far-fetched, the author will panic and ask a question - what do you think of this situation? Welcome to comment Yunyun. Every time I see it, it's like seeing a big lump of sewage on the road that can't be avoided. If the author is already trying to express, even if it is possible to tread on sewage, you can continue to learn and improve it; If you can make an effort to express yourself clearly, but because of the idea of self-protection and claptrap ideas and follow a vulgar format, like blindly imitating famous people pick up the microphone and say "thank you," back the guitar to make a noise about the world, this is boring. Thought to say, feeling, digress. So, about the broad public understanding of life itself and the narrow individual perception, about how to understand, invest in and pursue the goal of life, to manage and build their own life, to find the inner meaning of reality and ideal, to be the most authentic and free self, to silently and diligently bear those who should bear, brave and strong to withstand the test, Learn and feel the good things as much as possible in different rules and alternative ways, share the good things you have with others, keep expectations, and respect yourself and others. This is the attitude I would like to recommend.