Throw away these four things around

For many moments in life, we will always be disturbed by the clutter of information, uninvited guests, and other people's instructions annoying.

To be calm and concentrate on their things, we must learn to open the "shield mode".

Block out all kinds of things that interfere with us, life will be more and more relaxed.

01

Blocking spam, filtering negative energy

Drucker, the father of Western management, said:

"The most inefficient thing in the world is to do a most useless thing with the highest efficiency."

In the noisy and bustling world, we passively receive a huge amount of information every day.

Among them, a large number of disorderly, unhelpful information in life learning, encroaching on the brain space, the brain is too late to digest and understand, and it will become information garbage. When the load capacity of the human brain is exceeded, it will affect the mood and attention, and even seriously interfere with people's ability to judge, and over time will also cause harm to the human nervous system.

A girl named Lili planned to have a fulfilling day.

But when she arrived at work and started to reply to work emails, a coupon push from a shopping platform popped up on her phone.

She immediately clicked on the message, looked for a while, found no want to buy, and then open the short video, a brush to forget the time.

When Lili remembered to deal with the work, it was close to noon closing time, the work had to be left until the afternoon.

But in the afternoon, there is not enough time to complete a full day's work, the rest of the work had to be left until the next day.

Zhao, who is in the same group, wakes up in the morning, listens to a book and makes a nutritious breakfast for himself, and then goes to work clean and fresh.

After arriving at the company immediately reply to work emails, work by the plan in an orderly manner throughout the day, but also use the fragmented time to read, after work to seize the movement, home can also be comfortable after the shower, nestled in bed to watch a movie.

Over time, Lilia's career stagnation, and depression, not to mention the promotion and salary.

And Zhao's work status is getting better and better, in just months was promoted to team leader.

When the brain is simply too late to digest and understand a large amount of complicated information we receive every day, the useless information becomes information to garbage, interfering with our attention and turning into negative energy.

Too much information, instead of bringing help, can disrupt concentration and affect judgment.

Therefore, we need to weed out junk information and focus our energy on meaningful things.

Blocking junk information and keeping our mental focus high will enable us to do everything efficiently and spend each day in a fulfilling way.

02

Block ineffective social interaction and focus on self-improvement

British philosopher Bacon said, "Friendship multiplies joy and halves pain."

Everyone is happy to make good friends. But maintaining friendships does not mean that you need to keep socializing.

Good socializing makes people happy, while ineffective socializing is not only a waste of time but also exhausting.

Fang Z and Wang Yong are a pair of good friends.

Fang Z is a good drinker, but his family is under "strict control" of his wine for his health. Wang Yong often needs to invite clients to socialize, although he knows that Fang Z's family does not allow him to drink, but for the sake of business, Wang Ha still "helps" Fang Z to find excuses to let him come out together to socialize, and Fang Zi is always happy to go.

Wang Yong always ordered Fang Z's favorite dishes, and when customers wanted to exchange glasses with Wang Yong, Fang Zi blocked the drinks for his brother every time.

Wang Yong often exclaims during the meeting that he has a good brother like Fang Zi is very rare.

And in the eyes of Fang Zi, Wang Yong is an especially good enough friend, every time good food and drink things are thought about him.

But a good amount of alcohol Fangzi, there are always times to drink down. One time after drinking, Fang Zi was hospitalized due to gastric perforation. Wang Yong learned that he was only on the phone to comfort him for a few words, and then went to busy socializing.

It was then that Fang Zi felt regret.

In the drinking game, Wang Yong negotiated a lot of business, a few single down incomes is not large. And his disregard for his family's discouragement, the beauty of running to follow the social entertainment, but ultimately only lying in a hospital bed, alone with the pain of illness.

The book "Please stop ineffective social" has a sentence: "You are busy socializing, tired of coping, chicken and duck embarrassment everywhere. You run around for the laughter of others, and sacrifice yourself for the affirmation of others, as if your life is not yours. You are not socializing at all, but needlessly wasting time."

Giving up ineffective socializing and doing what's best for you is what smart people should do.

After all, good friends don't come from a glass of wine but are met while running on their respective paths.

True networking resources are based on the three views and strengths that are built up.

Everyone's time and energy are very valuable, instead of aimlessly socializing, it is better to quietly improve your ability.

When you are good enough, there are naturally people who are willing to accompany you.

03

Shield other people's lives and refuse to blindly compare

There is a saying that makes perfect sense.

"When people pursue not happiness, but more happiness than others, happiness is going to be far away from us."

I read a story that Qiu Qiu had a class group with "fierce competition".

When they first graduated, the students in the group who studied abroad always complained that the food abroad was not good while showing pictures of their travels; the students who worked showed high salaries and good benefits while complaining about their bosses and not enough income.

Over time, the class group has become an arena for students to "show off".

Qiuqiu was also a popular figure when she was a student. But their development after work is not as smooth as their classmate's, but she is not willing to be left behind, afraid to lose face, so they began to disguise themselves, climbing.

Once Qiuqiu fought for face, even the unit's welfare to 5 times blows, which was "win".

In this case, IUD IUD is also very depressed, they did not love to lie and show off, but in that environment, in order not to lose face, but involuntarily began to climb up.

To create their own "success persona", Qiuqiu now and then dressed up, go to a high-end rd durant, adid photoshoots, and then powder installed their "circle of friends".

Over time, Qiuqiu felt physically and mentally exhausted, and she felt that the camaraderie between her classmates had become tasteless.

In front of others, we often show our bright side and hide our bad side.

Qiuqiu does not know the full picture of other people's real lives, and wishfully uses their shortcomings to compare others' strengths, feeling one-sided and that she is inferior to others.

Little did he know that this would only make him more annoyed.

To save face, you have to lie to create the illusion of being buried in the hidden danger of being dismantled, so that you are distressed and upset, is this nothing to do?

Other people's lives, in the end, have nothing to do with you. And your life also has nothing to do with others.

You don't have to live by focusing on other people's lives, you have to learn to properly shield other people's lives.

A smart person will not blindly compare, let alone be dragged down by vanity in their own lives. The only way to live an ideal life is to keep your feet on the ground and improve yourself step by step.

04

Shield the outside world's views and find your rhythm

Schopenhauer said, "The most extraordinary weakness in human nature is to care about how others see you."

Li Xueqin, who stood out for "Talk Show Conference", shared an experience of her own.

After graduating from Beijing University, Li Xueqin, like many of her classmates, chose to stay in Beijing for development.

When she went back home to visit her relatives in the northeast, her aunts and uncles took turns to persuade her that Beijing was not a good place to live and that the pressure was too great, so she asked Li Xueqin to go abroad and stay in school.

So, Li Xueqin went to New York for graduate school.

When she returned home to visit her relatives, her aunts and uncles took turns to educate her, saying how good Beijing was and how many opportunities there were, and blaming her for not staying.

Finally, Li Equinox saw through it: "The only purpose of those people living is to tell me: born as a human being, you are sorry."

Harrumph Murasaki said in Norwegian Wood: "No matter what everyone in the world says, your feelings are the right ones. No matter what everyone in the world thinks, you shouldn't disrupt yourself because of it."

When you can't see through, the outside world's opinion is a chain that affects your rhythm and direction.

After seeing through, the outside world's opinion is just a paragraph, just laugh and pass.

In the book "The Road Less Traveled" says: "The road that suits you, not by others pointing out, but by their walk out."

Everyone has his or her path, and we can walk along others' paths, but we must ponder along the way what path we are best suited for, and lacking this exploration process, we cannot live the best version of ourselves.

Is it worth it to ignore your own heart to cater to the views of others, to change your ideals to meet the expectations of others?

We are all adults who know how to listen to good advice and accept true guidance but also learn to discard the noise out of jealousy and the noise of those who brush up on their existence.

May you and I can properly shield the outside world's voice, towards their direction, step in their rhythm, to do the most authentic self.

Adjust your life to "shield mode"

If you don't want to get involved in a chicken feather, then quickly adjust your life to "shield mode".

The more you are in a busy world, the more you know how to shield yourself from chaos and noise.

The world is noisy and complicated, may you have a clear goal, lightly loaded, innocent, and unharmed.

In the Talmud, there is a law that the Jews call - the eternal law, and that is the law of 22:78.

In nature, the ratio of nitrogen to oxygen is 22:78.

In the human body, the ratio of water to the weight of other components is 22:78.

in society as a whole, the ratio of the number of affluent to the number of ordinary people is 22:78.

And the ratio of the wealth they possess is 78:22.

That is why the Jews practiced a proverb in business.

Expensive goods are for the wealthy.

To put it plainly, money is in the hands of the rich, so it is best to do business to earn money from the rich.

In the United States on Manhattan's Fifth Avenue, every Christmas shopping climax, most stores are crowded with customers, but there is a store, the door is locked, only one customer inside, the store is the famous [Bijian].

Here is a set of clothes to sell for more than 2,000 U.S. dollars, a bottle of perfume for 1,500 U.S. dollars, so each time just entertaining a customer is enough.

Former U.S. President Reagan, King Carlos of Spain, King Hussein of Jordan, as well as some famous entertainers, have patronized [Bijian], [Bijian] to all customers to be confidential, "luxury" brand image, mysterious business system, luxury goods prices, more enhanced the status and image of [Bijian].

Careful attention will find that more and more intelligent people and companies are targeting 22% of rich people.

Course consultants of training institutions will spend more energy and release more enthusiasm to attack single "diamond customers".

I previously operated a company a bird's nest food, at first wanted to sell for the c-end users, but found that the volume is very slow, so I changed my thinking, looking for the bend distributors, with the distributors have laid channels to sell goods, and soon opened the sales.

Ordinary people want to achieve the circle leap, to understand the truth.

Those who make cars are more profitable than those who make bicycles.

Doing finance is more profitable than selling rice in the supermarket.

In the same profession, the sky is the difference in income, the root of the customer we serve is the rich or ordinary people ~

Your area is a "high-value area" or a "low-value area".

What kind of person do you want to be, first of all, you have to get closer to such people.

It is more important to occupy a position than to work hard.

Enter the "22%" highway, where elites stand and gold is everywhere.

You can accumulate wealth faster and leapfrog to the next level.

All of this comes from the Talmud and is the way of thinking of the rich.

There is also a lot of Jewish wisdom that is included in the Talmud. This book borrows a very interesting Jewish story that reflects the philosophy of getting rich and living and is a boon for contemporary working people, entrepreneurs, and also students.

The Talmud has a lot to do with the fact that Jews are so smart. The Talmud is a collection of 2,000 Jewish wise men and women, whose success stories are told through interesting stories, in which a business idea may be able to make you rich and poor.

For example, one of the sections that impressed me the most was a piece of advice given by a Jewish businessman to young people: making money by physical strength can only solve the problem of food and clothing, but never make a lot of money, much less become rich.