Three performance to see through the married man

As a young man of literature, you have to admit the fact that you are noble, proud, and a little narcissistic. Milan Kundera once said: the one you love is not him, the one you love is yourself when you love him.

　　This is a perfect quote for young people in literature. Subconsciously, young literary people always seek dramatic love and different results. They do not mean to be different, but they are just too willing to make their lives full of drama, even if it hurts them physically and mentally.

　　So, young literary people may often be attracted to married men, such men are undoubtedly mature and can bring her a different feeling. Each of them is a battle-hardened veteran of the love scene, to business attitude to play with feelings, especially the feelings of young people in literature, naturally handy.

　　The inability to look at their peers around them is another major weakness of young women in literature. From the subconscious, they like stronger than their men, like the feeling of being tolerated and cared for by men, which is not what the hairy boys can provide. Men need to be cultivated, men are also growing, rather than choose a gradually aging, can not bring you any commitment to the married man, why not in that you can grow up with you, said that can be a long time unmarried boy to gamble on?

　　Compared to married men, young men do have some disadvantages that cannot be ignored: they may not have such a solid financial base - but do not forget that wealth can be accumulated gradually with experience and age; they have not learned to be polite and gentlemanly for the time being - but remember, married men are so attractive, half of the credit goes to his wife's tutelage, rather than to share the fruits of others results, why not create the results yourself! Why not try to coach the brat?

　　I was told by my friend Anna, who is a counselor in Australia, that her friend John was dating a girl who told him on the first date that she had slept with an older married man, and John went home and deleted the girl's cell phone number, saying, "A girl who dates a married man has no self-respect, no self-love, and why should I love a woman I don't even love?

　　These words more or less gave me some inspiration, the hairy boy does have a narrow temperament, calculating fault, but the reason why the old man is forgiving to you is that he can not give you any commitment. If you read the above and decide to give your peers around you a chance, then be sure to remember my words: don't tell your new boyfriend about what happened between you and your married man until the relationship is fully mature!

　1. see through where he places his phone

　　Casual type his cell phone may be randomly placed in the pocket may be thrown in the briefcase, may often not find the phone ...... this means that he is a rough and tumble man, even if he stole the wild fruit outside, but also likely to talk in his sleep through the truth. Be careful oh, if one day this man's married wife suddenly finds the door, the unlucky will be you!

　　He likes to put the phone in a delicate high-grade leather bag, he is accustomed to the feeling that the phone does not leave his hand, even with dinner, but also to put the bag containing the phone on the side of the table. There is no doubt that this man is exquisite, whether it is for marriage, or their lustful encounters, he has strict requirements and romantic aspirations. Maybe with him, it will make you feel like you're really in love, but it's precisely this kind of love affairs veteran that hurts the most in the end!

　　A careful type is a cautious man, always careful to put the phone in the waist, a shock, rushed to the bathroom to answer the phone. Not to mention you, even his wife also rarely has the opportunity to move his phone. He is a natural spy embryo, every time before coming home, will not forget to clear the call records and text messages clean. This kind of man will be the most disguised, but also the most scheming and city, do not easily believe his words, and do not just let him promise. Because once things go bad, he is the first person to evaporate!

　　2. see through his sex habits

　　The control type he likes to manipulate you in bed, control you, and let you make love according to his preferences and ideas. This means that in the family, he does not get the appropriate sexual satisfaction, sex is the main reason he is with you. Or be careful, because such a man will not only find a lover outside, if the lady takes the initiative, they may not refuse it.

　　Controlled type although he is much older than you, still likes to let you do the initiative in bed, he may especially like the male under the woman on top position. This is not a bad thing, at least that in his heart he trusts you, otherwise it will not give you the initiative. But don't be too happy, know that in his mind, sexual trust does not mean emotional truth!

　　The violent type is just like Mr. Yi in "Sex, Caution", he likes to vent his desire on you, and he especially likes to see your frightened expression. This kind of man is mostly insecure in his heart, he doubts life, doubts marriage and even doubts your feelings for him. He is extremely macho, with him, you can do, the best way to please him is to give, give again, sacrifice, sacrifice again.

　　3. see through his dating clothes

　　Wear a suit and your date, he always wears a straight suit, the cuffs ironed flat and neat. This shows that he attaches great importance to his image in your mind and wants you to look up to him. This kind of man often has a lot of seemingly reasonable theories, such as "I love you very much, but I do not want the children to suffer" and so on. As a woman, you should listen to the words of this sentence, that is: I do not want the child to suffer, you are an adult, and you will suffer a little bit better.

　　Wearing casual clothes he dresses casually when dating you, either in jeans or a jacket. This shows that he does not treat the affair as a particularly grand affair. The company's main goal is to provide a good service to its customers. Most of these men are not too difficult to deal with and like to tell you the truth in a straightforward manner. Sometimes it is a cruel thing to talk to him because he will tell you clearly that he cannot get a divorce. But this is also a good thing, at least you can have fewer dreams and more reality in your life.

　　Wearing fashion When dating you, he always deliberately wears cool, young people only wear fashion. This shows that he has an inferiority complex in his heart. On the one hand, he desires to possess your youth, and on the other hand, he is jealous of your youth. He knows that as his lover, you will one day leave him. With such a man, you must think about the matter after the breakup, they often have a strong vengeance, so that you can not resume normal life long after the end of this difficult relationship.