Three kinds of women are the hardest to chase

In the eyes of men, these three kinds of women are the hardest to chase. 　　 Those hard-to-follow girls are not unwilling to believe in love, not unwilling to love seriously, maybe it's just that I'm afraid of love, tired of love, and I'm used to loving myself. In the eyes of men, these three kinds of women are the most difficult to chase 　

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Women with independent thoughts are the hardest to chase. Yu Feihong is an actor I like very much. She has portrayed many classic screen images. Now in her forties, she is still single. She said that marriage and non-marriage are just formalities. She believes that "Many people get married for others. I am not so anxious to choose to say that I must have an actual marriage at what age I am. She said: I have never played myself, nor do I need to play myself. , I am who I am, what I am like. Her grace and calmness in her gestures is admirable. She encourages younger generations to have their own way of life and their own independent thinking and personality. Don’t just sit in one place and watch the sky, don’t be caught Be controlled by others, let alone put yourself in chains, and don’t become a copy of anyone. Before that, Peng Yuyan and Shu Qi had a movie called "The Winner Is King" Shu Qi played a 35-year-old leftover girl in the play. What other people commented on her? All are good, but not married. Faced with her parents’ urge to marry, she said that she has always felt that everything can be achieved. Only feelings can’t work hard. 　　 In a big world, there is a huge crowd. Who can you find to fight with you? Many The gold leftover women are either financially independent or spiritually independent. They will not force it with or without love. And this kind of woman is the most difficult to pursue.

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Women who have been injured and have stories are the hardest to chase. Jin Yong said that love does not start and deepens, hate does not end, and smiles. A person will always meet someone who can't love him in his life, and then you will die. For girls, how terrible is it to love the wrong person? The person you have loved by mistake can make your faith collapse and doubt your life. In a variety show, He Jie once said frankly with tears: I will never get married again. She said that when two people are together because of love, they have been happy and happy. This is all true.

But after breaking up at the end, it became a life-and-death state. This feeling is terrifying, and it has deviated from the original intention of love. There is a kind of girl, they don't be hypocritical, they don't drink and smoke. I am willing to give for the other half, and treat each other as everything in love. The cruel thing is that when they experience betrayal, they will no longer believe in love. It's not that I don't love, it's that I dare not love. It's easy to start a relationship. It only takes two people to like each other, but to end a relationship, you will use up all your internal strength and your whole heart will be emptied. Every time you break up after a strong love, it will become a reason to break your heart. Sometimes, a song, a movie, or a street you walked will remind you of that sad past inadvertently.　　 I've loved, hurt, and hurt. This kind of taste, I really don't want to try it a second time. Do you still think she is easy to chase?

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Women who are not confident and insecure are the most difficult to pursue. The novel "Queen Joan" says that insecurity is the most common gynecological disease in the world. You yearn for a beautiful love, but you are afraid that you are not worthy of such a beautiful emotion. Even if you don’t like yourself so much, how can others like it? In life, I often encounter such girls. The opposite sex is very good, but only Stop here. Girls are inherently insecure, especially when boys cannot solve problems in time.　　 It is easy for girls to bias their thoughts in the direction of "he doesn't love me anymore" and "he doesn't really like me". The end result is nothing more than "we are not suitable". Sentimental girls, we can say that they are "Lin Daiyu" type girls. It is not that their bodies resemble Lin Daiyu, but that they think too much about love matters. For example, will falling in love hurt yourself, whether this person is worthy of love, and so on. Such girls are typically insecure, and it is very difficult for them to really accept the arrival of love. Yu Feihong once said: As long as one's spiritual world is rich enough, everything is not a problem. If you get together in order to live a life, the kind of speechlessness between two people is more sad than the loneliness of one person. May everyone understand the pain of every girl, and hope that you can catch up with the person in your dreams as soon as possible!