Think You've Met Your Twin Flame?

Think you've met your twin flame? Want to know how to stop them from running? Want to know how to stop the obsessive thinking? Well, the first thing you have to do is to get down to the bones of everything. You've got to get down to the nitty gritty – aka the truth.

First off, it's important to answer exactly what “twin flames” are. It really is an excellent question. But one that has been terribly answered, however. It is far too common to come across the massive misconception that each of the twin beings (persons) has one-half of a soul and they only become whole once they meet each other on earth. Now, that explanation alone is hands down wrong. And when so called “spiritual gurus” go around teaching this, leading a pack of desperate seekers down a road of never ending chaos, it's all one heck of a migraine.

To be answered one and for all: No one and I mean, NO ONE, has a split soul. Think about it: If a soul is the one true singular entity on this plane, how can it ever be anything but whole? God, Source, the Universe – whatever you want to call that which is beyond and the creator of all that is – did not create split souls. That would create an assumption that someone with a split soul wasn't internally whole somehow to begin with. This alone discredits nearly every twin flame teaching/course that claims to reunite twin flames (for a steep price) because they promise to put your souls back together in one piece and then you'll finally known what a happy life is like. Yeah no, we're not buying it.

Simply put, twin flames are two physical beings who each have the exact same WHOLE soul. They share identical souls, hence the “twin” reference. Each of these whole yet identical souls inhabit a separate physical body. The moment you meet your twin flame, is the moment your soul meets itself for the very first time. It's as if your soul stares at a mirror and sees what it's always known – love and peace. It doesn't know anything else. So when that gets emphasized by another, your entire perception of self goes wacko because it's not used to this feeling and it doesn't know what to do about it. More like, the ego mind doesn't know what to do about it. And the ego doesn't like not being in control which means it needs to go into overdrive (obsessive thinking over your twin, for instance). When the ego overtakes the soul again, that's when shit hits the fan: Your twin runs, ghosts, disappears without a trace, etc. While you (if you're reading this, you're most likely the Twin “chaser”) go crazy trying to investigate what's happened, aka your ego goes into extreme overdrive:

“What went wrong?”

“Was I too ugly for him?”

“Why won't they just date me?”

“Why isn't she texting me back?”

And so on and so on…

All those crazy reactions and addictive thinking, my friends, is what feeds the ego and dishonors the soul. All of which, keeps your twin flame running. The wacky thinking and hurt felt is your very soul trying to get the your attention. It is constantly blasting out the SOS signs for you to see. But you don't because you're blind in a sense. All thanks to your ego.

But don't worry, there is hope. There is a way to reunite with your twin flame if you want to and it won't cost you thousands of dollars from a guru and it won't take you years of “running and chasing”. Because it's oh so simple… You just have to realign with your soul. That's it, folks!

How, you ask? Just stop letting your ego mind control you. YOU become the master of your mind. STOP identifying with the labels you've garnered within yourself based on what society has thrown at you (“I'm a doctor, a poor student, an awful singer, a loner, etc”.) Just allow your soul to experience itself again the way it did when you met your twin flame. Most importantly, let your soul experience life. At the end of the day, that is the real you. Your soul is YOU. You are not your body or mind. Your soul is borrowing your physical body in order to experience the world. NOW LET IT!

What happens is…once you do that, peaceful bliss comes into your daily life; you can get a massive utilities bill out of nowhere and still be okay with that. Manifestations come easily; that dream promotion you've struggled to get in the past finally comes out of the blue. Life just flows smoothly. Oh and what do you know? Your twin flame comes back out of nowhere. And what will your reaction be? “Okay, cool.”

You're going to be so at peace with yourself and fully in being YOU every single day that it won't even really matter to you if your twin comes back to be with you or not. Life is so darn good already. If you do take your twin back, it will just be an extra cherry on top because being with them will continue to be zen. Living in zen, love and pure peace is how you're meant to live. This is what it's like to allow your soul to shine. Just think about it: How nice would it be to live your life in total peace every single day? I say, that's a blessing. So if you believe you've met your twin flame, instead of crying over them blocking you and keeping tabs on them by refreshing their instagram feed every hour, just stop for a second and thank them for coming into your life the moment you needed you to remember yourself the most.

Thanks to them, you're reborn again.

Congratulations.