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They Said I’d Fail – But I Made It!

From the silence of Afghan mountains to the spotlight of the world

By Irfan stanikzai Published 7 months ago 4 min read

🟩 The Beginning of Nowhere

I was born in a forgotten valley of Afghanistan — where the mornings began with dusty winds, and nights ended in silence. My childhood was filled with dreams too big for the village I came from.

We didn’t have electricity most days. My father worked the land with his bare hands, and my mother stitched clothes until her eyes gave up. Our meals were often tea with dry bread, but our hearts were full of resilience.

My classroom had no desks — just a chalkboard on the wall and a teacher who believed in books more than anything. That belief rubbed off on me.

But when I said I wanted to study abroad one day, the boys in my village laughed.

“You? You’re poor. You don’t even speak English.”

And maybe they were right.

But something inside me whispered:

“They don’t know who you really are.”

🟨 Studying by Moonlight

At age 12, I got my first book in English. I didn’t understand a single word — but I kept it under my pillow like a treasure. Every night, I would light a candle and try to make sense of it. The candle was borrowed from our neighbor. Sometimes, when we couldn’t afford even that, I would study by the moonlight that poured through a crack in our roof.

I was not the smartest in school. But I was the most determined.

At 14, I walked three hours to the nearest town just to ask someone how to apply for an online scholarship. The man laughed, but he showed me anyway.

I didn’t have internet, so I wrote my application letters on paper, traveled to town to type them, and submitted them from someone else’s computer.

Rejection followed rejection.

🟥 My First YES

At 18, I received an email I almost deleted — thinking it was spam.

“Congratulations, you’ve been selected for a full scholarship exchange program to the USA.”

I screamed so loud, the whole village thought something terrible had happened.

My father cried for the first time in front of me.

My mother didn’t believe it was real until she saw the printed letter.

Leaving Afghanistan felt like leaving a part of my soul behind. The mountains, the dust, the silence — they were my home. But I knew I had to fly… if not for myself, then for every kid in my village who would never get this chance.

🟦 The Culture Shock

When I landed in New York, I thought I was dreaming.

The lights. The noise. The sky-high buildings. The endless roads. I was terrified.

At university, I was the only one with an accent.

I didn’t know how to use the subway. I didn’t understand the fast-talking professors.

But I smiled. I listened. I worked twice as hard.

I washed dishes in the evenings, studied till 2 AM, and wrote short stories online to improve my English.

I remember the first time someone commented on one of my stories:

“Your words touched me deeply.”

That one line gave me the strength to keep going.

🟧 Going Viral by Accident

One day, I wrote a short blog about my journey — a poor boy from the mountains of Afghanistan who made it to America. I published it on Vocal Media, just to get it off my chest.

To my surprise, it went viral.

Within 24 hours, it had over 80,000 views.

People from around the world wrote to me:

– “Your story gave me hope.”

– “You reminded me why I shouldn’t give up.”

– “If you did it, I can too.”

That was the day I realized: my words had power.

My pain had a purpose.

My journey wasn’t just mine — it was for everyone who needed light in darkness.

🟩 Becoming a Voice

I began writing more — stories of resilience, failure, heartbreak, hope.

Soon, I was invited to speak at youth conferences.

I published my first short book.

I started mentoring refugee students.

People stopped calling me “the boy who came from nothing.”

They started calling me: “the boy who gave everything.”

Today, I work with an international NGO that helps kids from conflict zones find their voices.

I send money back to my village every month.

I built a community center with internet access and a small library — the first of its kind in our area.

🟨 When I Returned Home

Four years after leaving, I returned to Afghanistan.

I walked through the same dusty roads — but this time, people looked at me with admiration.

One old man who used to mock my “big dreams” came up to me and said:

“You were right. Dreams do matter.”

That moment… was worth every sleepless night.

🟦 If You’re Reading This…

Maybe you’re someone like me —

Born with more struggles than chances.

Laughed at. Looked down on. Forgotten.

Or maybe you’ve just had a bad week.

Let me tell you:

You are not alone.

Your pain has a purpose.

Your voice matters.

They said I would fail.

But I made it.

Not because I was lucky —

But because I never gave up.

And you shouldn’t either.

✍️ Author’s Note:

This story is based on many real lives — mine and others who came from nothing but gave everything to become something.

If this inspired you, leave a comment or share it. You never know who needs this story today.

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About the Creator

Irfan stanikzai

“Bold heart, calm mind. A voice from Afghanistan — rooted in culture, driven by dreams, and shaped by stories untold.”

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