There Are 5 Stages of a Couple’s Relationship That Lead to Starting a Family
Which stage are you at?
No human being was born to live alone. We all want to have someone put their head in the evening when we get home after a long and tiring day. But it often happens that we find the house empty.
We begin to wonder why we are alone. Sometimes we destroy our relationships without even knowing it. In general, people misunderstand each other.
The man begins to believe that the person he is getting along with is just another woman who would suffocate him, who would restrict his freedom. And the woman in turn understands that the man cannot engage in a relationship. All these misinterpretations lead to a loss of interest in a relationship between the two.
Sincerity in a relationship is not enough if the partner misinterprets what we say or do. Correctness does not make sense when we do not think about how we want to be understood. Very often it is advisable not to let ourselves be guided by intuition and to measure our answers, just to make ourselves understood.
If we manage to understand the opposite sex we will be able to benefit from the freedom to decide and respectively to get what we want in the most pleasant way possible.
A healthy and long-lasting relationship that can lead to marriage has several stages. All these stages of a relationship have the role of interpreting most correctly the behavior of the partner.
Whether we are just starting to date someone or just trying to get over an unpleasant emotional experience, the first outings are awkward, sometimes even causing discomfort.
The best way to get rid of nervousness, emotions, is to leave with optimistic, positive ideas. Finding the right person should not be difficult and unpleasant.
Over time, several couples have shown that there are five stages to a relationship that leads to a family. First of all, each one must know his own needs and then understand the other's, because most of the time what one of them wants is not necessarily the desire of his partner.
In the first stage of a relationship, we are challenged. This is a very strong attraction to the other person. We start looking for the opportunity to show this attraction and we try to know as much as possible about the other and as soon as possible.
After passing this first stage, characterized by a strong and seemingly uncontrollable attraction, the feeling of insecurity appears. We often start to wonder if the person we started dating is the right person for us. This feeling is extremely normal.
We can also feel influenced by this person. But that doesn't necessarily mean it's inappropriate. It is logical to ask whether it makes sense to continue or not.
Without understanding and being aware of what is happening at this stage of a relationship. Men begin to move from one relationship to another with great ease. And in the case of women, they tend to cling to and offer much more than men.
If we manage to get over the second stage of a relationship, we get to the point where we want to spend more and more time with that person. All our previous questions seem to be coming to an end. We are beginning to build a romantic relationship. Here the danger of becoming too confident in the relationship can appear, which leads to convenience. We give up doing those little things that make the other person around us feel at ease.
Many men instinctively know that they need to be reassured by women's feelings drives them away, which is wrong. The same applies to women: once reinsured, the feeling of freedom in the relationship appears, relieving her of the question "if things are not going well?"
We begin to let our guard down only in the fourth stage of a relationship when we come to feel exclusivity. This is where intimacy appears, more feelings come to light, we begin to open our souls. Now is the time when we face both the good and the bad of our partner.
The fifth stage of a relationship would be the one in which we realize that we are with the right person and we move on to the engagement. Many couples skip one of the above-mentioned steps and get married very quickly. It is very important to overcome that well-known storm beforehand.
Each stage of a relationship leads to building the foundation. Jumping on any of them, the foundation will miss the pillars and will collapse.



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