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The Stranger Who Knew Too Much About Me

It started with a simple follow request — but what she knew about my life wasn’t public.

By Malaika PioletPublished 3 months ago 3 min read

It began on a Tuesday night — the kind of quiet evening when scrolling through social media feels like background noise. I was half-asleep, thumbing through Instagram stories when a new follow request popped up: @lifebylena.

Her profile picture was soft and ordinary — a smiling girl, sunlight on her hair. Her bio read, “Just sharing moments 🌸.” Nothing suspicious. She had a few hundred followers, some mutuals, and her feed was full of travel photos, coffee shots, and sunsets.

I accepted.

The next day, she liked six of my photos — the usual ones people go through when they’re new. But her comments were different.

Under a picture of my dog, she wrote, “He’s gotten bigger since your last post.”

I frowned. That picture was from two months ago — and I hadn’t posted anything new about him since.

Maybe she remembered from somewhere else, I thought. Maybe I’d mentioned it in a story.

But then she commented on a photo of my late grandmother’s ring:

“It’s nice that you still wear it. She’d be proud.”

The problem? I had never written that it belonged to my grandmother.

I clicked through her page again. Everything looked normal — too normal. Perfect lighting, perfect captions, generic enough to seem real but not personal enough to be traceable. I checked mutuals — a few distant acquaintances, some I barely remembered from college.

Still, something about her page felt constructed.

Over the next week, she began replying to my stories — every single one. If I posted a coffee, she’d say “You always drink it with one sugar, right?”

If I shared a book I was reading, she’d message, “Didn’t you finish that one last week?”

I had never mentioned how I take my coffee. I had never posted finishing that book.

Something was off.

I told my best friend, Sana, about it. She brushed it off at first.

“Probably someone from your city who’s just observant,” she said.

But even she admitted it was strange when I showed her screenshots.

So we dug deeper.

Sana suggested I reverse-image search Lena’s photos. The first few came up blank — until one did. The same photo appeared on Pinterest under a completely different name — Sophie G. from Canada.

That’s when my stomach dropped.

This wasn’t a real person.

But if it wasn’t, how did she know so much about me?

That night, I went through all my social media. I realized how much of myself I’d unknowingly shared over the years. My posts formed a trail — my job, my favorite café, my daily walk with my dog, my cousin’s wedding. Even small things like reflections in mirrors, name tags, or street signs in the background told stories I didn’t mean to tell.

Maybe she pieced it all together. Maybe that’s all it took.

Or maybe it was worse.

The next morning, I woke up to a DM.

“I saw you at the bookstore yesterday. That green jacket looks good on you.”

My heart stopped. I hadn’t seen anyone I recognized at the bookstore.

I called Sana immediately.

“She’s nearby,” I whispered. “She’s watching me.”

We went to the police, but they said without a direct threat, there wasn’t much they could do. “Block her,” the officer said flatly.

So I did.

But hours later, a new account appeared — @bylenareal — same posts, same captions, same bio. Her first message read:

“Blocking doesn’t erase what’s already shared.”

For days, I barely slept. I deleted half my posts, changed my passwords, turned off location services. Still, I couldn’t shake the feeling of being watched.

One evening, I received a message from a different account — no profile picture, no followers:

“You think deleting pictures hides your truth? People remember what they see.”

That was the breaking point. I deleted my entire social media presence — every account I had since high school.

It felt like tearing pages out of a diary I’d left open too long.

Months passed. Slowly, I started living offline again. Real conversations. Real laughter. Real privacy. I realized how easy it had been for me — for all of us — to mistake exposure for connection.

One day, while walking my dog, I saw a girl across the street. Blonde hair. Familiar smile. She looked like the woman from the fake profile picture.

Our eyes met. She didn’t say anything — just smiled faintly and kept walking.

Was it her? Was it coincidence? I’ll never know.

But that night, I didn’t check. I didn’t search her name. I didn’t reopen Instagram.

I just locked my door, put my phone away, and whispered to myself,

“Some stories are better untold.”

💬 Ending Message :

We live in a world where oversharing feels natural — where every coffee, heartbreak, and dream becomes a post. But sometimes, the price of being seen is being watched.

Protect your privacy. Because not everyone who likes your post, likes you.

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