The Reasons Why Some Men Are Irresistible to the Opposite Sex
Are you irresistible?
What makes men irresistible, what is the secret ingredient of those who seem to get so easily everything they want from the opposite sex? Maybe you've noticed or even met a man like that, who seems to have no problem conquering a woman even when he was pubertal and acne-free! Yes, there are certain types of men who have crazy success with women!
So what makes men irresistible? In general, it is a certain characteristic charm. Okay, you say, so how do I get that charm? Unfortunately, it is a matter of having it or not, it is that je ne sais quoi, which cannot be described or acquired. Either you have it or you don't.
Apart from that, the charm is a subjective characteristic: some women see it in a man, while others may remain indifferent. But there are some more concise characteristics that, with a little work, can be acquired and can help a man to become a conqueror!
Thus, the most important characteristic in becoming one of the irresistible men is self-confidence! You just have to be more discriminating with the help you render toward other people.
A man with strong self-confidence exudes security that attracts women, does not show any weakness in public, and never lets himself be seen going through emotions and doubts. Even when something fails, a self-confident man will not let that bring him down, he just says to himself: "next time I will succeed"! It isn't simple to become such a man, but think that it will help you not only in your relationship with the opposite sex but also in life in general. If you trust yourself, others will perceive it and will trust you too! How to get such quality?
It's mandatory to throw away your doubts, to think that everyone has their weaknesses, but those weaknesses become impediments only when they are given attention, and to learn to control your negative emotions and even positive ones! You can achieve this only after you have truly accepted yourself and decided that if you hate a defect of yours - which stops you from trusting it - then you will get rid of that defect as soon as possible. !
Coming back, what else makes men irresistible? Intelligence! But beware, this does not mean shrugging your shoulders and showing everyone how smart you are, but it does mean saying interesting things at the right time and forming a vast culture!
Even if you can tell that women don't care about your culture, this is not true! Unfortunately, there is only one reason why a woman would be attracted to a man who is less intelligent than she is: to dominate him, to manipulate him in whatever way she wants, and to enjoy such a relationship. which she establishes what and how she enjoys all freedom!
Indeed, some intelligent women are looking for less intelligent partners so that they can manipulate them at will, but even those women, once they meet a man with clearly superior intelligence, get caught in his net and obey him. Women who prefer a free relationship will now like to be dominated by the superior man!
This leads to another ingredient that makes men irresistible: masculinity, emanating strength (not necessarily physical, but this is also important)! Many women keep saying how much they want a sensitive man, who is not afraid to show his emotions, etc.
Then why all these women, the moment a real, domineering, strong, force-emitting male appears, an alpha male full of testosterone, why do those women fall to their knees? Because, despite feminism and the proclaimed equality of the sexes, the man must still be a dominant male to be truly irresistible, and the woman must still be delicate and beautiful to have the same success in the opposite sex! Test it!
Find the most feminist woman in your entourage, who advocates for equality and the sensitivity of the man, and show him a muscular male, who dominates everyone around him: even if he doesn't recognize you, you will easily see how his instincts appear, lusts and desire to be dominated by that male! Remember the essentials: it's also about physical strength, but just because you do a gym for a year and get a muscle pack, that doesn't make you an alpha male - it's all about attitude and self-confidence!
What else makes some men irresistible? Empathy, the ability to listen to a person speaking and respond appropriately, but especially the ability to look at the situation through her eyes! Women always complain that they are not understood: logically, a man has neither the desire nor the real possibilities to enter the woman's mind and soul, and the matter is reciprocal! But a man who can listen and at least try to look and from her perspective will turn her on her back
You may find that this feature clashes with the previous ones! On the contrary: irresistible men show their strength, confidence, and lack of emotion in public, but once in a private setting, they can become human beings! This contrast stuns and conquers any woman: an alpha male who, when he speaks to her, can understand her!
That's it, you can already do almost anything you want from a woman if you succeed in these elements! And it's not so hard to become somewhat empathetic: you just need a few exercises: choose different people - not just women - think about them, their lives and their personality traits, then ask yourself: " what would I do or how would I behave if I were X? " If you practice for a while, it will be much easier for you to "get into the skin" of a person and try to see the world through his eyes!
Not a significant aspect was mentioned in what makes men irresistible: appearance! Yes, it was mentioned that he must have strength. Appearance is also important, but not as much as you might think. If a man does not have sufficiently visible physical problems, then his appearance will not stand in his way, as long as he accepts it.
Think of so many actors who seem irresistible, but hard to analyze are ugly: James Woods, Peter Falk, Sean Connery… It's all about attitude and care and attention to clothing!



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