The love of men and women can never be converted into affection

But in fact, is it so? Can the best interpretation of commitment be said to be a personal act of settling for an affection that is not affection? In the inherent notion of logical thinking, many people believe that two people who used to love each other, living together for a long time, will replace the former passion with affection! Or, it is said that two people will convert the love of men and women into affection because they have been together for a long time.

The love of a man and a woman can never be converted into affection. Two people can become better acquainted with each other, habitual, as if they were relatives, but never become relatives.

Moreover, in today's society, even if they are real relatives, how many of them can live together in harmony and love each other until they grow old? Men and women do not need to shout the name of affection, tired of operating male and female love, or negligent management of the marriage relationship.

Once you face the relationship in the name of affection, the relationship must be suffering from several diseases as shown below.

1: Some people betrayed.

2: Some people are the family in my way.

3: Some people never think differently because of themselves.

4: Some people are giving themselves some obligations, looking for reasons! When your marriage relationship is sick.

Remember: never play the affection card! What you have to do is to heal the marital relationship immediately!

Especially once a person reaches middle age, the marital relationship is a high incidence of various sudden conditions, advice you not to take the pillow, as a relative! Bad influence is terrible, do not be benevolent! Once a person reaches middle age, treat the person on the pillow as a relative.

Foolish and ignorant thing! After reading these reasons you will know: First: if your significant other betrayed you have many betrayers, will shout the name of kinship, not finish the relationship, but also not be faithful to the other half.

When the other half is vocal or peripheral people are saying that even if you do not love, then choose the end of the marriage relationship, the betrayer to say: I am not going to leave ta, after so many years, we have long been relatives! If you believe the words spoken in the mouth of the person who betrayed your pillow, but is also very touched, and feels that you still have a love for it, it is very wrong! The real sense of the middle of the relatives, either harmonious coexistence, or distance, or like strangers.

The marriage relationship between men and women, whether it is harmonious coexistence or contradictions, is not a reason for betrayal!

Remember, betrayal 2 words, never exist in the middle of affection 2 words! Pillow man betrayed you, but also when playing the affection card, only because of the most important point of reason: your existence, for the betrayer, also has the value of existence!

Otherwise, you think the people inside the ordinary years, long ago because of the loss of the old passion to make betrayal behavior, because of what will not give you up? Don't be blinded by the feelings of the betrayer's relatives, but this is ta to meet their impulse to betray, and can't let go of personal gains and losses and stalk your trick!

Second: If, your significant other is everywhere perfunctory you men and women combined, have been in favor of people who understand you. Many people will say: in the past, we are very much in love, is recently so many years to change! The main reason is not clear to me!

When a relationship, from what you think to the love period changes, there are only 2 reasons.

1: We cannot manage our relationship, but as long as we open our hearts to talk about expressing our demands and meeting them, we will repair the minimum harmony.

2: Your other half, is not the right person at all! People who understand you, are a lifetime even if there are differences will not affect the love, heartache, or understanding of non-you do not love the white head together.

Once you get to middle age, the two of you have been living together for a long time, if you are tired of operating, the days between each other will be extremely mediocre.

However, bland does not mean perfunctory. When your significant other perfunctory you, but also do not cooperate with you to leave. At the same time, also shouting the flag of affection, to attract you when, please you must firmly believe: ta Daquan is to your love, has long been almost zero.

However, because of the value of your existence and many years of good habits, so that ta now and then feel still can not be without you. Don't listen to ta say: old married couple, only affection left, don't play young love trick again! ta so to speak, just not willing to put your heart in you, but also not willing to consider your feelings.

Therefore, the use of affection to escape from their responsibilities to a clean slate!

Third: among the relatives, without the grinding period the real sense of kinship relationship is not needed to grind period! The life of the innate group, triggered by the mutual from the subconscious on the human set this layer of relationship.

Even if there are differences will no longer interact, but, the relationship will continue to last in another way. But the relationship between men and women in marriage, in any case, is not easy to show an affectionate relationship.

First of all, in a marriage relationship man or woman must know, master, love, after the love period, operation! Such a complicated whole process, with affection a pass, is only to deal with the current relationship, the following psychological state as shown below.

1: Some people cope with the helplessness of the current relationship and can only use affection to mean lamentation.

2: Some people cope with the current relationship, irrelevant emotions only focus on personal interests gain, and loss, to prevent people know their inner specific thoughts intentionally use affection to play sloppy eyes.

Marriage between men and women has almost nothing to do with affection! Therefore, in contrast to affection, the marriage relationship highlights too many levels of needs and expectations.

Marital relationships between men and women are based on material conditions, emotional basis, the sexual basic premise, to reproduce people heavy-duty to the people-based combination.

Thus, the marital relationships between men and women, but also produce a completely different from the affectionate relationship dependence, habitual, requirements, etc., and thus achieve a sense of inner security and trust! Therefore, once a person but to middle age, never with their significant other, with the affection bad influence on the positive rapid development of the marriage relationship.

Once the person in the relationship, treats their significant other as a relative, the results are often not able to bear and face.

Advise all adults: never confuse the concept of a marital relationship with kinship for selfish reasons! And don't be moved by the affection of the other side of the mouth, invariably let the other half of the recklessness.