The hopelessness of life

Many times, even though we have a belly full of sorrow and suffering, no one can tell us about it, we can only press the tiredness and suffering in the bottom of our hearts.

In "The Moon and the Mountains Don't Know What's Under the Heart", In Yip said.

"Our hearts, our flesh grows on our own, and only we understand the sweet, sour, bitter, and spicy taste we taste.

Don't put your hopes on others, don't ask others to understand your feelings, it's a waste of effort to scream louder."

There is no empathy between people, and people are not connected to each other's sorrow and suffering.

And in life, there are always tired people but survive these three kinds of tired, your life, to win.

1, there is a tired, called think too much.

It is often said, "Those who have a heart have tired, no heart does not matter."

Deeply convinced.

We often worry all day because of some trivial things; for the fart of things can be entangled for a whole year; even to think clearly about a thing, willing to take out a lifetime of time to figure out.

But in addition to more and more pain, but also do not see to think through half

The reason why people will feel tired is that they think too much. Those who can not let go of the obsession, the indecisive mind, pressed in the mind, every moment to make you obedient, do not care to do, only consuming their time.

The heavier the burden on your body, the easier it is to make yourself defenseless.

But in fact, many of the burdens in life are unconsciously added to yourself, and your worries are mostly with yourself.

Mr. Yang Jiang in the analysis of a reader's problem, said this incisively: "Your problem is that you read too little, but think too much."

If you want to worry in life, even if you don't eat, sleep or work for the rest of your life, you can't stop thinking about your worries.

You know, people's time is limited.

The heart always thinks too much, carrying a variety of things, over time, naturally also feel exhausted, at its mercy, unable and unwilling to resist.

Why do you have to think too much and have to live with yourself?

2, there is a tired, it is impossible to speak.

As the saying goes.

"The sun rises in the east and falls in the west, sorrow is also a day, joy is also a day; when things do not drill the bull's-eye, people are also comfortable, the heart is also comfortable."

Many times, the sorrow and heart are tired, and it is impossible to rely on words to vent, we can not speak, if you can do it to relieve yourself, do not add to your block, the heart of the sorrow will naturally stretch out.

Ba Swansong wrote in the book "Pain and Happiness".

"There comes a time in a person's life when a person is at war.

This time your heart has been turned upside down, but in the eyes of others you are just a little more silent than usual, no one will find it strange.

This kind of war is destined to go on its own."

The inner heart of the unspeakable bitterness, even if yelling out to people to listen, the other side only feels that you have poor character, low quality, but not at all appreciate your feelings.

Even if the other party is willing to listen to your confession, you just can't express it comfortably. Life is destined to some bitter, some words, only their own life, can only be said to their ears.

3, there is a tired, called no one understands.

Yule Fri once said: "I want to pay the heart to the dulcimer, know the voice less, the string is broken who listen?"

No one understands the sound of your piano, no one understands your character, even if you play the strings, but also can not make each other's hearts stir a little wave, but only to increase the sadness of sorrow.

The people who do not understand their own forced to get along, with the circle is not suitable for their forced to integrate, will only make you feel more and more tired.

The people who understand you, you do not need to say a word, the other party will know how to comfort you; do not understand your people, how to express themselves, he does not know how to treat.

Only with people who know how to get along, your life is easy and pleasant.

As Cozen said.

"Those who understand you will love you in the way you need to be loved.

Someone who doesn't understand you will love you the way he needs to."

A person who understands you is better than all the people who pass through life.

A word that understands you can crush all false consolations.

The road of life is always full of all kinds of incomprehension, intolerance, and disrespect.

But we have to do it, encounter love, feel love, and be grateful for love.

The only way we can tell ourselves what to do is worthwhile, and how to do it is not exhausting.

In a long life, no one will go through to the end with a smooth sailing posture.

When you feel tired, you have to secretly tell yourself that the world is better than yourself, there are many people worse than yourself, and the only way we can live our lives well is to live up to the value and meaning of life.

Life is not easy, who are hard, but boil over, firmly believe in the future, as Roman Rolland said, "There is only one kind of heroism in the world, that is, after recognizing the truth of life, still love life."

Life itself is such that the braver you are to conquer everything in life, the more you will be able to see the scenery you want.

In Mr. Lin Qinghai's "The Most Beautiful Thing in Life is a Pure Heart", he writes.

"Look at the world with a pure heart, live life with a joyful heart, develop a taste of love with a normal heart, and remove hang-ups with a soft heart.

If the heart is simple, people will be happy."

Let everything be light, don't find your troubles.

Let everything be as it is, don't meddle in it.

Treat life, whether good or bad, don't force, don't look back, don't hold on, everything will be fine.

In a lot of things, it is better to look at the heavy than the light, look at the thick than the light. You crossed the low mountain, standing in the high mountains, will thank that dare to fight, dare to boil dare to on their own!