The highest level of wisdom

Occasionally confused, appropriate to forget, but will live a happier life.

The really smart people have learned "selective amnesia".

A moment of anger, do not take it to heart

The people get along with each other, there are inevitably bumps and bruises at times.

The words of those who are angry when arguing, do not take to heart.

If you take it too seriously, you lose.

In a family of three, the husband is working at home, the child is crying, and the husband impatiently said to his wife: "You do not care about it."

The wife said, "I'm not already coaxing, you only talk, never come over to give a hand."

The husband also did not like it, and said back: "I'm not busy with work?"

The wife retorted, "Busy with work, the family does not care about the big and small things, with a hands-off like."

The more the two quarrels, the angrier, and finally the husband slammed the door and left.

When people quarrel, they are most likely to say angry words.

People who put their angry words on their minds will be very angry, and the more they think about it, the angrier they will be; while those who learn to put their minds at ease will not be annoyed or angry, and will be happy with themselves.

In "Zilch Tongan", there is an interesting story.

There was a famous general named Geo Zippy, Geo Ziggy's son, Geo ambiguous, was a famous general, brave and good at war.

The son of Geo Zippy was a famous general who was brave and good at fighting. At that time, Princess Shipping, the daughter of Emperor Tailoring of the Tang Dynasty, was well educated and generous.

The two were in love and soon entered the marriage hall hand in hand.

However, after the marriage of the two people, one is a general tiger son, and one is a golden girl, every time they encounter problems and quarrels, each has its argument, and no one is willing to let who.

The most serious one was when Geo Hui, after getting drunk, said negatively to Princess Shipping, "Don't think that just because your father is the Son of Heaven, you can belittle our family, my father doesn't care to be the Son of Heaven yet!"

Hearing this, Princess Shipping was so angry that she ran straight back to the palace and complained to Emperor Tailoring of Tang.

When Geo Zippy found out about this, he hastily called Geo an ambiguous home and imprisoned him, fearing that he would talk nonsense again. He immediately went to the court and asked the Tang emperor not to blame Geo.

When he heard about this, Emperor Tang just laughed and said, "Why should I take the angry words of my daughter in her boudoir to heart?"

Yes, a moment of anger, why bother to put on the heart?

When people are angry, they often speak out of turn.

If you take your angry words seriously, you will only get angrier the more you think about them.

Put the angry words out of your mind, put the good words in your heart, and life will naturally give you happiness and joy.

Don't take past losses to heart

Life is long, always have to experience some hardships, and face some losses.

Some people choose to degrade themselves and stop moving forward.

And some choose to see the sunrise and start again from scratch.

Dong Hui, the famous anchor of Oriental Selection, was on the Weirdo hot search some time ago with his humorous and interesting style and won the love of countless citizens.

But what few people know is that before becoming famous overnight, Dong Hui received a lot of insults

Some people said he was ugly and unworthy of being an anchor.

Others said he was a good teacher and used to point out others.

Some even said outright that he was selling things for a living and advised viewers not to buy things.

The worst time during the live broadcast was when Dong Hui did not sell a single item from 1 a.m. to 7 a.m.

But no matter what kind of abuse and sell the dilemma of not shipping, Dong Hui never gave up.

Day after day, he continued to work hard to refine their live skills, trying to spread the most valuable content to the audience.

His dedication has been rewarded. The online insults are becoming less and less frequent, and with more than 100,000 people on the air, netizens are praising Mr. Dong for speaking well and leaving comments about how they like his live broadcasts.

Faced with the trials and tribulations of life, cowardly people either give up on themselves or wallow in the past. They are unwilling to face reality, and even more unable to accept their losses.

And brave people are more and more courageous, they will turn all the aggression, are turned into nutrients for growth.

Throw away the baggage of success or failure, to lighten up and create a bright life.

The old account, do not put in the heart

Mo Yuan once said in "Life and death fatigue": "The world is like a book, page after page is turned over. People have to look forward, less old accounts of history."

Every time you turn over old accounts, you will have more worries.

Regularly empty your heart to harvest a happy life.

Monetize @Amy has shared his story.

When Ali first graduated, he worked as an intern in an IT company.

Unfortunately, he met a boss who lacked commitment and was narrow-minded.

Once, in a project, he easily finished the design of the case, with only one piece of data left to be added by his boss.

Ali sent the case to his supervisor, explaining what needed to be added, and made a special phone call to communicate with his supervisor to avoid making mistakes.

As a result, when the project was presented, there was a serious error in the data added by the supervisor, which led to the failure of the project.

The supervisor, who had no responsibility, put all the blame on Ali, who lost his job as a result.

Years later, Ali worked hard and owned his own company.

In cooperation, he found out that the partner was the original company. And the person in charge of the cooperation project happens to be that former boss.

Someone proposed to Ali to change the counterpart directly, or change the cooperation partner.

However, Ali did not do so. He said, those years of old debts, have long been not put in the heart.

Heard this saying: "To rush down the mountain before, empty all the unpleasant."

All human hearts are limited, if we put unhappiness and resentment in, then happiness and joy have nowhere to rest.

Learn to clear out old scores, so that life can be lived with joy.

The really smart people have learned selective amnesia

There is a good saying: "Selective amnesia patients, only remember all the happiness."

Life is long, remember what you want to remember, and forget what you should forget.

A moment of anger, do not worry about it, live with pleasure.

The past losses, do not remember the heart, live light and happy.

The old accounts, not in the heart, live quietly and peacefully.

For the rest of your life, may you learn to selective amnesia, memory only cherishes the good, and life keeps happy.