The highest level of life, on these two words

　　The first word: "degree"

　　1. generosity of mind

　　As the saying goes, the prime minister can hold a boat in his belly, a big belly can accommodate the world's difficult things. That is to say that people have to have a measure, broad-minded.

　　The mountain does not say since high, water does not say since deep. Everything does not have to be calculating, step back, the sea is wide. Do not be overly concerned about personal gains and losses, generous treatment of people or things that have hurt you it.

　　2. to speak in moderation

　　Some people think that to be true, so talk straight. In fact, a big mistake.

　　The Chinese write the word "true", is "straight" two points below. In other words, some truth, straight talk, but also to retain two points.

　　Knowing others, you are wise; knowing yourself, this is brilliant. When you gradually restrain, simple, no complaints, no questions, no memories, you will be able to experience the grandness of life.

　　3. Reading has thickness

　　Reading has thickness, where the thickness is not only the height of the ruler, but also includes the quality of the book content.

　　If you find yourself not reading for a long time, you should know that you have fallen. Not that books are so great, but reading means you are not fully identified with reality, you still have the pursuit, still struggling, still looking for another possibility.

　　4. Have width of vision

　　Stand high, see far. Think a lot, see not far. The so-called vision, that is, in your perspective should be a vast field, whether doing or being, should look into the distance, should not just see the point, and did not see the meeting.

　　Life is destined to suffer many aggravations. And the more successful a person is, the more aggravation he suffers. To make their lives gain value and dazzle, learn to broaden their horizons and be wise and benevolent.

　　5. Work with strength

　　In the work must be strong, pioneering, open and wide.

　　People have goals, either big or small, and the way to achieve the goal is to work, work harder, improve performance, there will be the possibility of achieving the goal.

　　6. career with height

　　People want to achieve something in life and have a high career.

　　Life in the forward epiphany, the years in the accumulation of fragrance. No matter what kind of career, you have to accumulate day by day, and you have to work hard at ordinary work and keep improving every day.

　　7. Life has length

　　We can't choose our fate, but we can choose the way to walk through life.

　　Do choose to be tolerant and generous, a few points of indifference, the breeze and rain, the same rhyme and poetry, do something to have a few points of calm, between the top and bottom, still spontaneous.

　　Not deliberate, not hypocritical, feel the simplicity of the simple years, can be nourished, the most is the spoiled frankness.

　　The second word: "give"

　　Give applause: some people have never given applause to others in their lives.

　　01. everyone needs applause from others.

　　02. it is everyone's responsibility to applaud others

　　03. a life that does not know how to applaud is too narrow.

　　04. a compliment is worth a thousand dollars.

　　Give face: not giving face is the greatest rudeness.

　　01. the Chinese people are most concerned about face.

　　02. to give each other a decent step.

　　03. to see through and not to say through, face is good.

　　04. what to hurt, do not hurt people's face.

　　05. never reveal people.

　　Give trust: people who are suspicious by nature can not have true friends.

　　01. it is a blessing to be trusted.

　　02. How much trust there is, how much chance of success there is.

　　Give convenience: It is convenient for you to be convenient with others.

　　01. to give a gentle hand to others when they need it most.

　　02. think of the other person and plan for yourself.

　　Give etiquette: have "etiquette" to go around the world.

　　01. polite and courteous, in order to be charming.

　　02. to be courteous to many people.

　　To humility: the sharpest people everywhere make enemies.

　　01. lower yourself, lower yourself.

　　02. do not talk about your triumphs in front of the disillusioned.

　　03. Do not be arrogant in front of people; treat others with lowliness.

　　Give understanding: everyone desires the approval of others.

　　01. to understand, is to give convenience.

　　02. understand first what the average person does not understand.

　　Give respect: Put respect for others first.

　　01. striving to make a person feel his dignity.

　　02. to give respect to the weak is more valuable.

　　03. the higher the status, the less one should despise others.

　　04. to put others in mind.

　　Give help: Who does not want someone to give a hand in critical moments.

　　01. selflessness is better than selfishness.

　　02. your good, others will remember.

　　Give honesty: No trust is impossible, and those who are cunning have no friends.

　　01. honesty is the basis, the promise is kept.

　　02. honesty is deeply rooted in people's hearts, success follows.

　　03. lose integrity, a hundred things can not be done.

　　Give benefit: blank check, never open.

　　01. promise to benefit, to reason.

　　02. not to benefit the size of friends close or distant.

　　Give modesty: make people seem superior.

　　01. a little more subtlety, a little more humility.

　　02. to be modest that all things can be accomplished, complacent that nine out of ten things are empty.

　　03. Be humble and seek advice to achieve great things.

　　Give appreciation: make people have a sense of superiority.

　　01. the desire to be appreciated is common to all.

　　02. Recognize the strengths of others in time.

　　Give gratitude: If you are not grateful, don't expect to have another time.

　　01. to gratitude, a way of singing about life.

　　02. to be grateful in time, and not to wait until the flowers are gone.

　　03. be grateful for your opponents.

　　Give a mouthful of virtue: be forgiving.

　　01. straight words, to be said with a twist.

　　02. cold words, to be heated up to say.

　　03. to take into account the self-respect of others.

　　04. leave a line of human kindness, good to meet later.