The downfall of marriage

Ten ways to tell if your marriage is falling apart

1. He/she doesn't seem to try anymore. (You got a nice new outfit to wear for them and they don't notice or seem to acknowledge your efforts to impress)

2. The only words that you hear are hi, bye, or maybe where's this or that. ( HEY, where are my blue jeans? Where are my keys?) minimal conversation.

3. You are lucky to get a peck on the cheek.

4. They are withdrawn and seem to be hating life. They aren't happy with you or themselves anymore.

5. They blame you for everything that goes wrong.

6. They don't care if you are ill, or unhealthy in anyway. (Stopped going with you to doctor visits.)

7. They don't care but to leave their unnecessary messes around as if you don't have a busy life you have to clean up after their messes too!?

8. They find an excuse to back out of everything you have planned. (No, I can't go with you the ball game will be on later.)

9. Everything they used to do for you now seems like an interruption of their daily life or a chore.

10. They don't care to listen to you, or how your day has been. They don't care about your family. Everything about you or your life is a problem for them and they don't seem to want to be included in anything.

You may have a problem if you are running into any 1 of these issues. My marriage is on a downward spiral. I am doing everything I can do to fix it but nothing seems to be working. It doesn't help he is a narcissist. He is lazy. Everything that drove him before we got married, is all gone now. Nothing is ever his fault. He doesn't care to change or has just given up. Don't take your significant other for granted because it could very well be the end to the beginning. I wish all you newly weds out there the best and the forever you married into. Sometimes it doesn't always turn out to be your forever. I am seeing now that my marriage probably can not be saved. Take it from someone who knows. Who has been through the end and is going through the end. I will take you on my journey of the end of my marriage unless by some miracle things change. Good luck!