The Body Count Matters

The numbers game will never stop! Women are concerned with how much money does he make, how tall is he, what is his measurements and so on. Men in general care about one thing, and one thing only! How many men you have been with! Yes, the body count number and let's take a dive into what men are really thinking and why we men think it.

No matter how competitive men may appear to be, we all know that competing with another man is totally out of the question when it comes to winning a woman's heart. Of course you have the common fool who thinks that buying things of no value and trying to impress her can only go so far, but it is the heart of a woman that will give the man access to her life.

So let's pretend that STDs do not exists and we are going to focus on emotions as a point of debate. The reason why it is so important for a man to understand the body count of a woman is to understand the possible mental connections that a woman had or currently has with a man. It is a known fact that once a man has a woman's mind, she becomes very attached to that man and it is mentally difficult to let go.

Now most women are connected mentally with a man if a need of security is met in some form. This could be related to a sexual event, being supportive in a time of need during a family event or crisis. Whatever the situation or event, if there is a mental connection established, the process to break that mental connection is very difficult. So in when men ask that painful question of "what is your body count" they could care less of how many men a woman has been with; they are concerned if there are any mental connections a woman may have that could hinder the possibilities of relationship with them.

Most guys do not care about a body count. Trust me! If guys cared about body counts, then I would of had some of my so-called friends make attempts to sleep with the women I had relationships with in the past, when I was currently dating them. Now think about the same guy that will go on a getaway trip with the boys and how many women they run into and not turn down sexual opportunities. Men are sexual predators and that is the last thing on their mind. They care about mental connections and nothing about body counts.

Men who ask this question are men who probe the possible thought if a woman can sustain a committed relationship. We don't have to check phones, and we don't have to check a woman's schedule. The only thing we are looking for is that one guy who she is mentally connected with and if how he is mentally connected to her. This is one of the reasons why men think that having a relationship with a women who have a family bound with their fathers is a good choice.

One a man understands that he has a mental connection with a woman, there is no need to ask a question of how many men where physically in a woman's past. In most cases, women cannot disconnect themselves mentally from a man that has sexually connected with her during an important time, place or a specific event in their lives. This is what men fear most than a actual number. Once a woman displays to a man that she is mentally available to connect with a man and no other, that question will not even come up. Who the mental connection is with is the most important question in the book. Men often don't ask this question, they observe it over time.