The Barber, the Butcher, and the Bone
Some people help you just enough to keep you dependent, never enough to set you free
One quiet morning in a small old village, the butcher opened his shop as usual. The sun was just coming up, and the smell of fresh cuts filled the air while he sharpened his knives. He had done this for years, and his hands moved with the steady confidence of someone who knew his craft well.
But that morning, as he chopped through a thick bone, something unexpected happened. A tiny, sharp piece of bone snapped off and shot straight into his eye. He dropped the knife instantly as a burning pain sliced through him.
He tried rinsing it with water. He tried blinking hard. Nothing helped.
Back then, there were no clinics, no emergency rooms, and no specialists. If something went wrong with your body, there was only one person you could turn to: the town barber, who was also the village doctor, dentist, and healer.
So the butcher wiped his tears, held his face, and hurried to the barber’s shop, hoping for relief.
When he arrived, he burst through the wooden door and pleaded,
“Please help me. There’s something in my eye—I can’t take the pain.”
The barber, a man with a neatly trimmed moustache and an air of certainty, examined the eye. After a moment, he nodded slowly and said,
“Ah, don’t worry. It’s simple. It just needs to be cleaned and have some ointment.”
He boiled some water, washed the eye carefully, placed a thick ointment around it, and wrapped a clean bandage over it.
“Come back tomorrow,” the barber said. “We must continue the treatment.”
A Daily Visit… and a Daily Payment
The next morning, the butcher came back, feeling grateful and hopeful. In those days, people showed thanks with gifts instead of money. He brought the barber a kilo of fresh meat and a kilo of liver, which was more than generous.
The barber repeated the process: wash the eye, apply ointment, wrap it again.
The pain eased slightly but didn’t disappear.
So the butcher came back again the next day, this time bringing ribs. The day after that, he brought a slab of beef. Each time, the barber treated the symptoms but never tried to remove the bone fragment.
And the butcher trusted him. After all, he was the healer. The expert. The authority.
Days went by, then a week. The butcher had given the barber almost enough meat to feed a small family for a month. But even then, the pain stubbornly remained.
That should have been a sign.
But when you are in pain, you hold on to anyone who promises relief.
A Young Man With No Agenda
One afternoon, the butcher arrived at the shop again, holding another bundle of meat. But this time, he found only the barber’s young son sweeping the floor.
“Is your father around?” the butcher asked.
“No, he went out,” the boy replied. “But he taught me everything. Let me see your eye.”
The butcher sat down hesitantly. The boy leaned in, studying the swollen, irritated eyelid with curiosity and innocence.
“What happened?”
“A bone flew into it days ago,” the butcher explained. “Your father has been treating me, but it still hurts terribly.”
The boy blinked.
“There’s still a bone inside? Oh, that’s easy!”
Before the butcher could respond, the boy gently held his face, tilted his head toward the light, and with a careful motion removed the tiny bone fragment. It was as simple as picking a thorn from a finger.
He cleaned the area thoroughly, placed a small amount of ointment, and stepped back.
The butcher opened his eye slowly.
For the first time in days, the burning pain was gone.
Completely gone.
“You… you’re a good healer,” the butcher said, stunned. “Your father should be proud.”
The boy beamed. He didn’t yet understand what he had done.
A Father’s Anger, A Son’s Confusion
That evening, the barber returned. His son proudly told him,
“A butcher came today. I removed the bone from his eye, and he felt better!”
The barber’s face tightened instantly.
“Why are you angry?” the boy asked, confused. “I helped him.”
The barber looked at his son and said bitterly,
“You don’t understand. That bone brought us meat every single day. As long as it stayed in his eye, he had to keep coming back. But now? He won’t return. You took away our meat.”
It was the first time the boy realised that not everyone helps to heal.
Some help to keep you dependent.
The Real Lesson
This old story still reflects real life.
Some people keep your wounds open because your pain benefits them.
They help… but only enough to keep you coming back.
They care… but only as long as you rely on them.
They support you… but never enough to set you free.
Sometimes the people who truly heal you are the ones with nothing to gain, no hidden agenda, and no strings attached.
In life, it isn’t the bone in your eye, it’s the barber who wants it to stay there.
About the Creator
Lori A. A.
Teacher. Writer. Tech Enthusiast.
I write stories, reflections, and insights from a life lived curiously; sharing the lessons, the chaos, and the light in between.



Comments (1)
Brilliant. It hit me right down to the bone.