The Art of Unburdening: Embracing Life's Deeper Dimensions

Rejection isn't merely a no; it's an act of refinement, a step towards lightness, a path to profound insight, and a journey to clarity. It demands more than just courage; it's a bold, unreserved embrace of life itself.

We must wield the power of refusal wisely and bravely, unmoved by material desires, staunchly upholding our inner principles.

Life is rarely a perpetual despair, for in the depths of hopelessness lies our eternal quest for hope. Starting with a flicker, we gradually expand it until our dreams ignite. Though we are but mortals, we must believe that no matter the hardship, with courage, we will always find a way through.

As times change, so do life's priorities. Where once material wealth comparisons reigned, health has emerged as the new pursuit. The introspection in Taiwan and the rise of voluntary simplicity in the West signal an irreversible shift.

A quality life transcends mere "subsistence"; it's no longer just about accumulating riches, but about enriching life's tapestry and finding inner contentment. Happiness, not just affluence, becomes the ultimate goal. Much like the "sleepless emperor" envying the "soundly sleeping beggar," simple, pure joy is life's true essence.

Achieving a quality life requires three pillars of self-reliance: economic, intellectual, and personal independence. Only then can we make discerning choices across work, family, finances, conduct, consumption, time, reading, hobbies, philanthropy, and sustainable development, truly finding our happiness.

In the twilight years, Ronald Reagan's own journey showed us that life can begin at 70, or even later. Though physical strength may wane, the mind can remain vibrant, even capable of new triumphs. This optimistic spirit is a lesson for us all to embody.

The golden rules for aging gracefully: Stay healthy, stay vibrant, and stay current.

While reviewing a book for a local paper, a profound truth struck me: joy is the very essence of life. Greed is the root of human suffering; those content are truly wealthy. Our needs are finite, but desires are endless. Without joy, life feels trapped in a dark poverty. Those bound by greed become slaves to this world. Yet, joy, like life's gold, makes its light shimmer brightly.

To maintain this glow, we must continuously dust off our minds through self-reflection, self-reproach, self-realization, and self-respect. Cleansing the soul is a quest for self-reformation and moral purification, a transcendence of the past. Our minds are like storehouses, holding our every word and deed. Facing the world's scrutiny, we should open our hearts, withstand others' gaze, and live with integrity.

Furthermore, to thrive in this world, we need both foresight and forgiveness. Foresight helps us anticipate risks and losses, while forgiveness prevents us from getting entangled in disputes and arguments. When encountering difficult people, remember that "the woods will always have a few strange birds." Learn to tolerate and understand. After all, getting angry at someone's behavior is as foolish as throwing a fit over a stone in the road.

At the same time, we must embrace the philosophy: "If the mountain won't come to me, I'll go to the mountain." This means if we cannot change others, we must change ourselves to alter our world. This is especially crucial in love and marriage. Love isn't always a lifelong commitment, just as love at first sight doesn't guarantee forever. Even ardent love can cool. Heartbreak can feel like a near-death experience; returning to life, you're a changed person. The despair of love can transform into a powerful drive to strive, allowing a wounded heart to unleash astonishing strength. We should double down on our careers to reclaim what we lost in love, scaling peaks we once dared not approach.

However, excessive restriction stifles love, while excessive indulgence can lead to ruin. Thus, in the pursuit of love, we must find balance, allowing it to be a beautiful force in our lives.

Love in adversity is incredibly precious, yet the true test often comes in times of ease. Sometimes, after hardship, love simply fades away. So, what do we do when a partner in marriage strays? Do we separate, forgive, or seek extramarital affairs ourselves? Our choice often hinges on the balance of love versus resentment for our partner. If love outweighs resentment, perhaps we forgive; if resentment prevails, separation may be inevitable. Of course, sometimes the choice is agonizingly difficult; in such cases, letting love cool and reflecting calmly might be the best approach.

Memory, a psychological concept, is vital for understanding love and life. It's like the rearview mirror on a highway, allowing us to glimpse the past as we drive through life, deepening our understanding of the road we've traveled. Yet, dwelling on memories isn't wise, for the future is our true direction, our hope. So, occasionally reflect, learn from the past, and then keep moving forward.

On life's journey, three pieces of advice are worth remembering: First, never take a convenient but unfamiliar path, for it might lead to ruin. Second, never be curious about things that could be bad, lest you pay the price. Third, never make decisions when in pain, as you might regret them later.

A wise investor writes off irreversible sunk costs. Similarly, in life, unavoidable mistakes, setbacks, and detours are part of the journey. However, if we can learn from these experiences and adjust our course, our path through life will broaden. So, let's face life's challenges and difficulties with a more positive attitude.

Whether it's a simple, pure love or a passionate, wild one, the essence they seek is the same: the realm of "truth, goodness, and beauty." In this realm, love is an eternal legend, just as actor Gregory Peck exemplified. His life showed us that in this world, one can succeed by being genuine, honest, and sincere, without pretense or deception. Let us, therefore, pursue and cherish love with a higher purpose, filling each day with more love and warmth.

Do a little more each day – that's the secret to success. To stand out in the competitive world, embrace lifelong learning and continually broaden your horizons. Every effort you make will bear unexpected fruit.

"We only come to this world once; the bittersweet, the joy and sorrow – none can be discarded. If we don't find something uplifting, something to console ourselves, wouldn't life be too exhausting?" Indeed, life demands a positive attitude, or it risks endless fatigue.

However, kindness isn't boundless. In some situations, unreserved kindness can embolden malice. The stories of Mr. Dongguo and the farmer and the snake illustrate that against a wolf or a snake, kindness can be self-destructive. Thus, when facing malice, we must remain vigilant and use wisdom and strength to protect ourselves.

Of course, we cannot overlook the power of happiness. The most reliable way to pursue happiness is to have a mindset that transcends others, believing yourself to be superior. At the same time, we must treat our friends with kindness and politeness to reap more joy and happiness.

Furthermore, possessing five key abilities is crucial for a fulfilling life: natural aptitude, technical skills, knowledge, social adaptability, and psychological and physical resilience. These abilities will empower us to better navigate life's challenges, overcome difficulties, and achieve our dreams and goals.

Nine Steps to Happiness

a) Shift your perspective: Cherish children's smiles and find fulfillment in helping others.

b) Master your time: Write two pages daily; consistently, you'll author a book.

c) Cultivate positive emotions: They fuel your continuous progress.

d) Keep smiling: A smile is the symbol of happiness.

e) Cherish your connections: Treat friends and spouse well; they are life's most precious treasures.

f) Stay engaged: Immerse yourself in what you excel at or love.

g) Embrace the outdoors: Connect with nature for mental and physical rejuvenation.

h) Prioritize rest: It's the secret to restoring energy and maintaining health.

i) Embrace faith: Those with belief often find greater happiness, gaining inner peace and strength.

Who is the most important person in our lives? As time passes, parents and children will leave us. The person who truly accompanies us through life is often our spouse. Therefore, choose your life partner with utmost care.

When faced with failure and setbacks, smile through them. This is an optimistic and confident attitude, a display of serenity and tolerance. At the same time, we must learn to release hurt, contempt, and impurity, holding fast to warmth, friendship, and kindness. For friendship, family bonds, and love are priceless treasures, far exceeding monetary value.

The secret to success lies in seizing opportunities, finding the right place, doing what you love, and throwing yourself into it with passion. Simultaneously, master the art of survival; don't expect gratitude from others, but always remain vigilant and driven.

In the midst of life's clamor, maintain inner peace and embrace happiness. Focus on your endeavors, for your work is your true wealth. Furthermore, nurture your inner spirit with optimism, allowing it to empower you in times of misfortune. No matter the difficulties or disappointments, face them with serenity and inner peace. As time flows and youth fades, accept it gracefully, cherishing each day and its beautiful moments.

While we live, we should remember those who extended a hand in distress and offered comfort in pain. At the same time, strive to be someone who avoids burdening others unless absolutely necessary.

Reading is the finest seed-sowing, leading us into a new spiritual realm. Books that touch the soul ignite our noble consciousness, fervent desires, and pure emotions, propelling us forward.

Introspection is an indispensable human responsibility. Through it, we not only review our actions but also discern our true inner intentions. Plato said, "Introspection is the duty of man." Without the capacity for introspection, one can hardly possess virtue and morality.

Following the Golden Rule helps us better understand human relationships: simply put, treat others as you wish to be treated.

Pursuing dreams is a vital aspect of life's value. We should go all out, unleash our potential, and strive to achieve our dreams. Even if failure occurs, giving up on a dream means completely forfeiting the possibility of success.

Work is not just a means to an end; it's an expression of attitude and values. How we perceive work determines whether we find joy and satisfaction in it. The same job can hold vastly different meanings and experiences for different people.

Finally, let us remember and appreciate those who have guided and helped us, grateful for their contributions. At the same time, cultivate forgiveness as a precious virtue.

In life's complexities, friction, discomfort, and grievances are inevitable. However, we should not respond with resentment, for resentment is like a balloon that inflates uncontrollably. When faced with resentment, learn to let go of past grievances and new ones; forgive where you can, and give quarter when possible.

Forgiveness is the bridge that replaces hatred, bringing mental serenity and a beautiful life. As a virtue, forgiveness prevents us from punishing ourselves for others' mistakes.

Three Pillars of a Fulfilling Life

Three things to pursue: Country, Honor, Family.

Three things to carefully control: Emotions, Tone, Actions.

Three things to ponder deeply: Life, Death, Eternity.

To maintain a pure and peaceful heart, discard: Evil, Greed, Betrayal.

Avoid: Laziness, Savagery, Mockery.

Strive to embody: Holiness, Peace, Joy.

In interactions, respect: Resilience, Self-respect, Kindness.

Cultivate: Reason, Humility, Eagerness to learn.

The essence of being human lies in honesty, for lying comes with the high cost of maintaining falsehoods. When faced with life's wreckage, no matter how unfavorable fate seems, smile and persist, for turning points often emerge through perseverance. Be grateful to all who help us grow, including those who hurt us, trip us, deceive us, or even despise us, for their presence makes us stronger and wiser.

The secret to happiness is to focus on the present, living wholeheartedly in every "now." Also, learn to be magnanimous, forgiving those who offend you, for holding grudges only robs you of joy and health. Forgiveness is a liberating power; it frees us from the excuses of avoiding reality, allowing us to face our true selves and the world.

What is happiness, exactly? Most people only briefly remember praise but dwell on criticism. They are like garbage collectors, gathering negative comments from 20 years ago. Yet, happiness is simple; it lies in life's beautiful moments and memories.

Pursuing Perfection vs. Enjoying Happiness: Life always has imperfections; perfection is an ideal. We should make the most of our limited lives, seeking more joy and fulfillment. No need to change the world, just adjust yourself. If we don't demand perfection, happiness becomes within reach.

Powell's Wisdom

How to live? Marry a kind wife, raise intelligent children, contemplate simple matters, and savor ordinary days.

My secret to success: Speak slowly when urgent, cautiously when uncertain, don't promise what you can't deliver, and never say anything hurtful. Be careful with words, decisive with actions.

Powell once criticized some White House staff for lacking vitality in their work, enjoying material comfort but neglecting spiritual pursuits.

The Allure of Simple Living

Dress simply yet elegantly. Home life should be comfortable and convenient. Travel seeks tranquility and authenticity. Career should be filled with confidence and passion. Love should remain simple and romantic. The "NONO" lifestyle embraces simplicity, independence, and rationality, focusing on higher values.

Opportunity in Crisis

A crisis isn't an end; it often holds a turning point. Crisis and opportunity coexist. Learn to seize the opportunity within a crisis to open new chapters and move towards a better future.

Staying True to Yourself

Just as unique landscapes attract by staying true to themselves, those who maintain their integrity in adversity are admirable. An American scholar's simple attire and genuine smile at an academic conference earned widespread admiration. No need for elaborate packaging; being authentic is the greatest charm.

Thank those who remain true to their simple selves. Their existence teaches us that in an era where trendiness and packaging are highly valued, we can still choose a modest life, upholding our unique truth. Perhaps by staying true to yourself, you too will attract admiring glances, much like an Austrian castle.

A Daily Act of Kindness

Carlos Gutierrez (Bush's Secretary of Commerce) once said, "A person's destiny is not solely determined by one big action, but more often by small things in daily life." Gutierrez knew that the simple weapon for changing destiny was "a daily act of kindness." This family heirloom helped him transform from a poor child, through diligence, a thirst for knowledge, and good deeds, into a symbol of the "American Dream."

The Most Regret-Free Life

So, how should one live to have no regrets? Americans generally believe that doing what you love and finding a way to make a living from it is the most regret-free way to live.

Journey to the Sea: Embracing Mortality

Life is a journey, and the end is inevitable, but the process is worth cherishing. A cancer patient, following lemmings on their final journey to the sea, had a profound epiphany: no need to fear death, for both life and death are part of existence.

A Peaceful Mind is Golden

In environments of excessive guidance and strict supervision, miracles are rare. A person's best state, where abilities are fully unleashed, comes from mental and physical harmony. Therefore, maintaining a peaceful mind is paramount.

The Rockefeller Family Motto

"Labor is sacred, whether physical or mental." This is a core tenet of the Rockefeller family motto. It also emphasizes frugality, truth and justice, keeping promises, and providing useful service to others. These mottos not only shaped the Rockefeller family's character but also provided invaluable moral guidance for future generations.

Cultivating Discernment

This is about developing insight, a crucial ability that helps us see the essence and truth of things. Through observation, reflection, and practice, we can gradually enhance our discernment to better understand and navigate life's challenges.

Discerning right from wrong is similar to identifying counterfeit currency. When our hearts are sincere, associating only with noble individuals and dedicating ourselves to good deeds, truth, goodness, and beauty become part of us. At that point, falsehood, evil, and ugliness will hardly escape our notice.

Releasing Shadows of the Heart

If we cling to painful memories, our hearts will forever bear a heavy burden, unable to find solace.

Beyond "Trying Your Best"

Everyone's potential is immense. Ordinary people typically tap only 2% to 8% of it; even a great scientist like Einstein only utilized 12%. If we could unlock 50% of our potential, we could effortlessly memorize 400 textbooks, master university courses, and even learn over 20 languages. In other words, over 90% of our potential remains untapped. To achieve extraordinary things, merely "trying your best" is far from enough; you must give your absolute all.

Wise Friendships

Those in power must be extra cautious when making friends with three types of people: first, those with little authority but who can get things done; second, those with modest incomes who spend lavishly; and third, those who are not particularly warm but try hard to get close. The difference between cunning and intelligence lies not in intellect, but in moral standards.

No Need to Worry

Scientists have found that almost all worries are unnecessary. 40% stem from anxieties about future events, 30% from dwelling on past occurrences, and 20% from trivial matters. Happiness and troubles are subjective experiences. A lifetime may seem long, but it's truly composed of only three days—yesterday, today, and tomorrow. Therefore, there's truly nothing worth worrying about.

Cherish Health

Wealth comes in many forms, but health is undoubtedly the most precious. Health is the cornerstone of life; a healthy beggar is far happier than a sick king. Human desires are like a train; if unchecked, they can harm both the individual and others. Those who are never satisfied often end up with nothing.

Smiling Through Failure

We must learn to find success within failure and see happiness within misfortune. Be adept at appreciating failure and extracting lessons from it.

The essence of marriage lies in mutual emotional exchange and spiritual resonance, not just the mundane aspects of daily life. Expressions of affection and praise between spouses are vital ties that sustain a vibrant marriage. However, many mistakenly believe marriage is the finish line, thus neglecting its cultivation. This misconception leads to marriages losing passion and vitality, even seeking excitement outside the marriage, potentially leading to its collapse.

On the path to dreams and happiness, we often fall into the trap of viewing "suffering first" as a necessary precursor to "enjoying later." However, this mindset doesn't always bring true happiness. We should learn to view the process of hardship with optimism, enjoying the pleasure of cultivation rather than merely anticipating the rewards of harvest. After all, most people rarely truly reach the point of "bitterness turning to sweetness."

Happiness is right beside us; it stems from a relaxed mind, fresh air, serene moments under blue skies and white clouds, and sharing joys and sorrows with family. We must learn to cherish these ordinary yet beautiful moments, appreciating every tiny detail of life, only then can we truly experience the taste of happiness.

At the same time, we should understand that any violation of rules can lead to serious consequences. While a first-time transgression might escape punishment by chance, long-term violations inevitably lead to legal retribution. Therefore, we should always remain vigilant and adhere to laws and regulations to avoid falling into the abyss of illegality and crime.

Furthermore, balancing love, career, family, and other aspects is crucial for our pursuit of happiness. Life is like a puzzle, with each piece vital and indispensable. We must learn to cherish and assemble this puzzle to achieve comprehensive happiness and success.

Finally, through reading, we can broaden our horizons and gain knowledge, avoiding gullibility and blind conformity. For many things have happened in the past, many problems have been pondered by our predecessors, and many solutions have been tried. By understanding history and others' experiences and lessons, we can face life's challenges and choices more wisely.

The Joy of Work

John Franklin, a 70-year-old retired Professor Smith, couldn't give up school and student life. So, he chose a cleaning job, accompanying mops, brooms, rags, and buckets. He worked diligently for 15 years until he retired again at 55. When a reporter asked which job he preferred, he confessed that whether as a professor or a cleaner, as long as he was working, it was a source of happiness. This was indeed his wise way of slowing down aging and finding joy in life.

The Essence of "Humanity"

Liang Xiaosheng explains that "humanity" isn't abstruse; it's an inherent quality, a conscious freedom, a kindness that allows one to put oneself in another's shoes. It concerns a nation's fairness and justice, and it manifests in every detail of our daily lives. Lung Ying-tai once said, "Humanity" is evident in a person's every gesture, reflecting their overall character.

The Value of Life

If, as we pass through life, we can help others, encourage them with words or song, or guide them when they err, then our lives hold meaning. As a philosopher said, "I have not lived in vain."

Healing the Soul

A woman, ashamed of her scars, through self-awakening and relentless effort, eventually overcame her emotional wounds. She knew that external beauty might fade, but inner beauty endures. After years of cultivating character and intellect, she became knowledgeable, eloquent, and graceful. Her surgeon praised her: "Your true beauty comes from within." She successfully healed the scars of her soul.

Words of Wisdom

Knowing oneself is the hardest challenge, and even harder is recognizing one's shortcomings. Life is undoubtedly the most precious treasure, holding infinite possibilities. As for joyful work, that is undoubtedly labor that yields economic benefits.

What is eternal morality? The moral principles we uphold should never be exchanged for others' wealth. For morality is eternal, while wealth changes hands daily. Morality accompanies us throughout life, while wealth is transient. Those who acquire riches through illicit means are empty inside, and their wealth rarely lasts.

What makes an ideal home? It has no lavish decorations but lacks no necessities. Luxuries are for display, while necessities are for living.

What are the benefits of apologizing? Apology is not only a virtue but can also resolve many conflicts, bringing ease and joy to both parties.

Famous Figures on "Concise and Impactful"

Yu Dafu explained the essence of literary creation as "快短命" (kuài duǎn mìng) – "quick, short, impactful." Quick refers to rapid ideation; short means concise writing; impactful (命) means staying true to the core theme. Speeches and essays follow the same principle; avoid rambling and going off-topic.

Views on Criticism and Praise

Those who criticize you today may become close friends tomorrow; those who praise you today might become enemies tomorrow.

Hugo on Masks

He who has his mask torn off is exposed, but he who removes his own mask displays courage.

Understanding Your Own Insignificance and Greatness

The ability to find one's greatness is a precious attitude in life. Those who live only for themselves have a low spiritual realm; those who merely follow others' opinions seem insignificant; those who live for the happiness of others are noble.

The 80% Rule of Love

When loving someone, 80% is ideal. Reserve 20% for yourself, and keep expectations and hopes at 70-80%. Loving too deeply can burden the other person, robbing love of its joy.

How to Love

It requires understanding, resolving misunderstandings, apologizing, thanking, admitting mistakes, correcting errors, being thoughtful, considerate, and learning to tolerate rather than indulge. In love, confide, don't account for everything; pray silently, don't demand too much. Seek romance but avoid waste; cherish each other, don't easily hold on or let go.

Be Your Own Friend

In love, we should first be our own loyal friends.

For our inner self to flourish, we must nourish it generously. Through reading good books, deep contemplation, and appreciating art, we can enrich our spiritual world, sensing the presence of a higher self that will be our faithful companion on life's journey.

True love is incredibly precious. It's not just a promise for this life, but an anticipation for the next. With love, life's arduous journey gains a happy anchor, steadfast momentum, and countless beautiful expectations. Love is the attraction of souls, and more so, the companionship of souls. Walking hand-in-hand through storms is love's highest realm. The power of true love is unparalleled, for the subject of true love is ourselves. Without true love, we feel helpless, lost, even searching the world for that lost love.

Everyone possesses unique and irreplaceable value and meaning. While external things like wealth and knowledge can be pursued, true life's value lies in how we live out our distinctiveness and meaning. This uniqueness requires not only self-exploration and understanding but also steadfast preservation and cherishment.

The Power of Control

Control is a crucial life lesson. By controlling money, we accumulate wealth; by controlling diet, we maintain health; by controlling emotions, we enjoy happiness; by controlling feelings, we reap joy. Control is an indispensable force in life that empowers us to better navigate our own journey.

The Beauty of Shyness

Shyness is a beautiful emotional phenomenon, representing the purest human feelings. Although shyness might stem from inappropriate words or actions, this emotional phenomenon highlights a precious quality deep within us – the sense of shame. A person without shyness often lacks self-restraint and moral sense; their behavior may be more selfish and crude.

Finally, "The Love That Sustains My Life" is the best interpretation of life's true meaning. This love not only sustains our lives but also empowers us to pursue higher realms and a more beautiful future. Nourished by love, we can continuously grow, progress, and realize our dreams and values.

The Power of Action

Action is the starting point of success; only by taking the first step can we open the door to victory. Human potential is limitless; many seemingly insurmountable obstacles become insignificant in the face of action. Of course, action isn't just talk; it requires concrete execution. Otherwise, it's like a locomotive stalled on tracks, unable to move forward.

Passion and Perseverance

Passion is a genuine emotion for work and life, stemming from within, unmoved by fame or fortune. True passion is a relentless pursuit and a burning dream; it ignites human potential, allowing one to go further in their career.

Life Attitude

In ordinary life, maintain humility and sincerity; on the path to dreams, dare to take risks and try new things. Also, maintain calm reflection and tenacious perseverance to achieve higher goals. Furthermore, treating others sincerely and learning humbly are indispensable qualities in life.

Seeing Through Illusion

Today, fabricating falsehoods and creating illusions have become a societal phenomenon. However, the ability to distinguish truth from falsehood and see through illusions is crucial. For only genuine things can withstand the test of time and public scrutiny.

Pursuing Excellence

The meaning of life lies in continuously pursuing excellence and progress. We should cherish every opportunity and fully develop our potential to achieve greater accomplishments and value. At the same time, we must learn to remain strong and optimistic in the face of setbacks, for only then can we go further and steadier on life's journey.

Simple Living

The essence of existence lies in simplicity and authenticity. We must learn to refuse degradation and negativity, maintaining a positive outlook on life; at the same time, have the courage to face difficulties and challenges, without shrinking back or giving up. Furthermore, freeing ourselves from the constraints of success models and maintaining inner peace and strength are important aspects of simple living. Through these efforts, we can better enjoy life and experience happiness.

Life, this complex word, holds endless colors and emotions. Sometimes it's filled with laughter, sometimes inevitably with sadness; it can be a stage for grand ideals, or a microcosm of ordinary life. On life's stage, we play various roles, sometimes in the dock, sometimes as the protagonist. However, no matter how life changes, we have the power to shape it, making beauty its main theme.

When faced with difficulties and challenges, we should not dwell in worry, but courageously throw ourselves into work, improving our situation little by little each day. We should be grateful for every experience in life, for they empower us with strength and confidence, making us believe we are stronger than we imagine. At the same time, we must learn to accept the inevitable, preventing past shadows from affecting the present and future.

On life's journey, we will encounter many dark nights and difficulties. But remember, even in darkness, don't forget to give yourself a ray of light. It's a ray of hope, of confidence, and of smiling at life. Though faint, it can illuminate our path forward and save our entire life.

Furthermore, we must learn to cherish the present; don't wait until it's lost to regret it. Whether it's love, friendship, or career, we should invest and cherish them promptly. Don't wait until your deathbed to realize you never truly loved life; by then, it's too late.

Marriage is a form of love, but it's not love's endpoint. Good love often continues and elevates within marriage. The essence of marriage lies in simplicity and authenticity; only partners who can return to life's true state can find true happiness. Therefore, let's cherish every emotion and diligently cultivate the precious treasures of marriage and love in our lives!

Life's Enigmatic Charm

What remains incomprehensible to anyone is precisely life's allure. Life is often full of surprises; things you meticulously planned and eagerly anticipated often turn out differently. This phenomenon is common in our lives, as if life's outcomes are always shrouded in uncertainty and change. Yet, it is this very unpredictability that endows life with endless charm and challenges.

There's no need to meticulously calculate and arrange for the future, for most of the time, these efforts are futile. Perhaps we should learn to embrace this uncertainty and face life with a more composed attitude. Living each day well, cherishing every moment, is the lifestyle we should truly pursue.

Life is like a grand feast; we come into this world to fully enjoy every moment of this feast. Whether it's delicious food, beautiful scenery, or joyous gatherings with loved ones, these are precious treasures in our lives. Therefore, we should learn to be grateful for life and cherish every moment.

In pursuing a healthy lifestyle, we should center on health, maintaining an open-minded attitude. Forget the constraints of age, release grudges, and enjoy warm moments with partners, family, and friends. At the same time, focus on accumulating material wealth, preparing adequately for future life.

Love is an indispensable part of human life. It's like a bank deposit; we need to continuously appreciate the other person's strengths to increase our "income," and also learn to tolerate their weaknesses to manage our "expenditures." Only then can our love, like a precious asset, continuously grow in value and accompany us for a long time.

Principles for Success

In career and life, we should adhere to the principle of acting with impact, and living with humility. When working, aim for high starting points, high standards, and high efficiency; when living, be grounded and humble. No matter how great our achievements, we should never become arrogant or conceited, or we may lose support and ultimately fail.

Finally, I want to share my "Success 4+1" theory: Success requires the perfect combination of effort, wisdom, opportunity, and mindset, plus a little bit of luck.

The "Success 4+1" theory reveals the key elements for university students transitioning into society: Wisdom, Opportunity, Diligence, Passion, and a Good Character. Wisdom is about applying knowledge, while opportunity favors the prepared. Diligence is crucial in your career, influencing your entire destiny. Passion enriches your work and life. Furthermore, traits like enthusiasm, care, integrity, and frankness will help you seize opportunities and achieve success.

The Power of Unconditional Giving

Unconditional giving is a profound form of dedication, reflecting pure sincerity and selflessness. Such giving often evokes deep emotion and leaves a strong impression because it embodies love, devotion, sincerity, and greatness. And this kind of giving often brings unexpected rewards and miracles.

Success requires self-respect, self-confidence, and self-reliance. Self-respect ensures we honor ourselves, self-confidence makes us believe in ourselves, and self-reliance is the drive to work hard and improve. The combination of these qualities is the formula for success. At the same time, we must learn to be magnanimous in our perception of others, treating them with tolerance and understanding, for everyone is a unique book worth reading closely.

In human interactions, we often encounter people of various personalities and in different situations. Some present one face and act differently behind your back; their words and deeds are like a river of clear and murky waters intertwined, making them hard to decipher. Faced with such individuals, we need not resent them, but rather understand their circumstances and difficulties, hoping for their awakening and self-reflection.

At the same time, we must understand that a person's true value lies not solely in their wealth or status, but more importantly in their knowledge, character, and demeanor. These inner qualities are the key determinants of a person's life value. Therefore, in interacting with others, we must learn to appreciate their truth, goodness, and beauty, while also being wary of those who appear virtuous but are inwardly hypocritical.

Reading people is about becoming a better, truer person. In this process, we must learn tolerance and magnanimity to draw beneficial insights from others, reading out nobility, joy, and happiness. As inscribed on a cedar plaque about "Eight Degrees of Happiness," changing yourself changes everything around you, thereby changing your life.

Furthermore, we must understand that good things often arrive suddenly, requiring little preparation; just enjoy the moment. Bad things, however, are often unpredictable, demanding thorough preparation to face potential challenges. Therefore, when approaching life and work, maintain a humble and cautious attitude, continuously improving your abilities and wisdom. Only then can you stand firm in this complex and ever-changing world.

The Strength of the Benevolent and the Mighty

Kindness is the unwavering support of the benevolent. The kindness of the benevolent is so expansive it embraces baseless harm and shallow arrogance; their humility is deeply embedded in patience, and their open-mindedness merges with compassion.

Profound empathy (情大) is the wellspring of the strong. The deep affection of the mighty can win over rivals, making them willingly support and spontaneously admire. With a humble demeanor, they see through the world's myriad forms, thus remaining free from arrogance; they walk the righteous path, thus fearing nothing. Such individuals alone can be called truly humble.