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【Talking about love】Top 10 love skills

Falling in love is like a plastic art, which is difficult to understand and beautiful. Wandering in the deep sea of falling in love plastic art

By Henry2333Published 4 years ago 8 min read

Falling in love is like a plastic art, which is difficult to understand and beautiful. Wandering in the deep sea of falling in love plastic art, you can really feel the happiness of your feelings. But not every boy and girl in love knows how to fall in love, and [falling in love] knows the skills of falling in love. This plastic art of falling in love is not valuable for everyone. Xiaobian has practiced for a long time and learned 10 methods of infatuation. I hope these pun friends who don't understand the object can be inspired.

Process / method

Indomitable method

Many girls are more or less wary of the opposite sex. They are always worried that they will get lost by mistake due to temporary negligence and impulsivity, and even regret for life. In fact, it is human factors that reduce their social circle. How many people have felt that there are many people or good people after experiencing frustration and vicissitudes. With your daily life experience, you believe or can quickly identify the good and bad of everyone around you. If you want to get the opposite sex, you don't have to make a mountain out of a molehill to harm others or yourself. You must first open your closed heartstrings. Ancient people once reminded everyone, "fire prevention and safety are achieved when you see fire, and theft prevention is achieved when you see people." [falling in love] some people released from this ancient famous saying, "if you meet friends of the opposite sex, you should guard against scoundrels." There are such frightening thoughts in my heart. Then I will look ahead and think hard: "can I talk to him..." In that way, you won't have opposite sex. Didn't ancient people also have the wisdom saying "if you don't go into a tiger's den, you can't get a tiger's son" to persuade everyone to move forward?

Semi suggestive method

The characteristic of "semi concealment method" is that although the suitor does not firmly say "I like you", the content of the message of love is clearer than the "implied" and stipulates that the party who accepts the content of the message should act quickly. For example, at this stage, when the interaction between men and women in China is not very casual, professionals buy movie tickets, concert tickets, etc. and invite the other party to go out and enjoy them together; Inviting the other party to go for a walk, outing, etc. independently with itself can generally represent a show of love to the other party. [falling in love] in daily life, when one party is interested in the other party without knowing whether the other party is also interested in himself, this kind of semi suggestive method should be adopted. It can not only push the boat with the current, but also confess its dependence on the other party first. A pair of thoughtful people who were originally afraid of making statements can step on the track in a relaxed way.

Love each other

In love, men and women, their communication is no longer a special tool to convey information. The content of speech is not important to lovers, but more importantly, the personal behavior of speech itself is a burst of laughter and a look with the romantic words of the couple, all of which give pleasure and joy to the other party. This feature happens to be the unique communication function of romantic words. What it attaches great importance to is not the actual meaning of language expression, but emotion, but heart. [falling in love] for lovers, listening to the beauty and sound of their loved ones slowly reverberate in their ears, which is happiness, happiness and happiness. Everyone likes people who agree with their own suggestions. If you tell the other party about your work experience or ideas together, the other party will naturally look close to you. The topic discussion pulls in the distance between the two people, which makes them more happy. See the truth in conversation

The art of speaking has a key effect in all places, and it is also crucial in the field of marriage and dating. To master the right, you must communicate more. This is the "truth in conversation" method. The love process of young people is sweet and poetic, and once deeply in love, young people often idealize their goals and idolize them, thinking that they are as brilliant as the sun in the sky and as appropriate as the moon on the fifteenth day. It is the "halo" effect that often occurs in the process of love. As everyone knows, falling in love and getting married is a real daily life after all. Nine times out of ten, the marriage life of falling in love at first sight and getting married in a hurry will be unsuccessful. Only in the whole process of falling in love and getting along with each other, can we have a happy daily life.

Love at first sight

Love at first sight, to put it simply, is the feeling immediately caused by the good impression mentioned by feeling. At the moment of "seeing each other" here, the decision-making effect is the brand image and impression of each other, such as appearance, style, speech and behavior. According to ancient Greek mythology, in the past, boys and girls were one, and it was the creator who divided people into men and women. After [falling in love], everyone has his beautiful prototype, and he is looking for different attachments in this myriad world. And this kind of search is usually carried out by the obvious collision of the heart. Therefore, love at first sight usually leads to the most obvious happiness. In fact, the communication of first love is a complicated plastic art. Love at first sight communication is also nothing "specific" to talk about. It's hard to say what to say. Moreover, people with different levels, different positions, different cultural and artistic cultivation, and different temperament and temperament also have different forms of expression.

Calligraphy of the swan goose

Confession letter is a way to communicate and exchange emotions, and a way to express love. It can be said that it is "the wild goose of emotion" and "the angel of emotion". Although couples may express their love letters with many words or phrases, not everyone's confession letters can communicate and exchange feelings, deepen understanding and build an emotional bridge. People who are not good at expressing love letters, write them at the beginning of writing, and even full of kisses and kisses, sometimes will scare away lovers. To express your letter, focus on emotional sincerity, and don't hide it in vain. To express one's feelings and write a letter, one needs to move people with feelings. "Those who move people's hearts, don't start with love". A collection of novels may be enough to read once, but a love letter can be read forever, and its focus is "emotional in".

Send by material information

If true love is the most beautiful flower in the world, then the continuous romance of young men and women in love is a string of small dewdrops on this beautiful flower of love. The language expression of feelings, like the colorful love history of young people, is full of countless beautiful and moving demeanor. Yes, continuous romantic words are elegant and endless. As everyone knows, sometimes lovers feel a deep pain, and they can't find suitable language to express their feelings for their lovers. They feel that, compared with the colorful experience swept in their hearts, the sentences are too scarce and limited. At this moment, lovers will find another language to express, another way to pour out their enthusiasm.

This kind of expression of feelings is especially applicable to these introverted and shy couples. Although affectionate, but afraid to show courage, at this time, you can use your brain to find a unique way, not only to say "I like you" such passionate words, but also to let the other party understand your intentions in a relaxed atmosphere. May I have a try?

Snap method

The name is often the transmitter of two people's emotions. Every couple expects to hear their intimate address, nickname or other slapping names from the other side. A simple term, it is a ruler to measure the distance of interpersonal communication. The emotional connection between heterosexual friends is the most natural and close connection among people. [falling in love] the name between lovers can reflect the subtle relationship between the two worlds. First of all, the change of name means the change of "emotional concentration value". Young boys and girls have a natural development trend from meeting to acquaintance, and then to blind date.

The whole process of this kind of development trend can not only be seen from the hint of each other's flying eyes, but also the change of each other's name will reveal the secret of love But some young people didn't pay attention to this. He called his lover more and more succinctly. When he first made friends, he was called "Wang Xiaoli friend", when he became a relative and friend, he was called "Wang Xiaoli", when he became a friend, he was called "Xiaomin", and when he was in love, he was called "Li". But once he got married, he simply avoided this word. "Hey, you go", "Hey,......" It's really uncomfortable to hear it. Obviously, it will harm the relationship between the two people.

Empty handed white "Lang"

Although there are wolves everywhere, strong wolves look around everywhere. But it's really not easy for young female wolves to get a good wolf king. Once they have a good overall goal, the competition is by no means a fake move, and they can win at ordinary times. Take care of your eyes first. You don't have to work hard to charge and discharge when you see the one you like. Be careful when it's over. "Falling flowers are deliberately ruthless" falls jokes and destroys popularity. Then, watch his heart. A woman's mind is more detailed. If she is good or bad, she will always feel it.

Boys are also timid, and boys are also injured. A sentence "boys should be active" has harmed many good girlfriends. Be positive and make it clear to him first. But: don't show your teeth. Don't care too much about him. If you care too much about him, you will be less calm; If you care too much about him, you will have no self-confidence; Too concerned about him, shy. People are always like that. The more anxious some people are, the more arrogant they are. You can't believe it when you say it. Boys try their best to catch up with girls; Girls chase boys, tender hearted. Once I pierce that piece of paper one day, I will be burning with ambition 3, sad and depressed, which is unexpected.

Praise your lover

"Praise" is very useful in relationships. It is likely to be a praise speech, which will make your beloved have a good impression on you, from unrequited love to overt love. If you have already taken photos and often praise your lover, your emotions will soar, which is really a good method. But praise should be given in a way, otherwise it will backfire, and you are afraid of praising objects that others think are defective. For example, if the other party is obese, you will say that the other party is in good shape; If the words written by the other party are difficult to reach the peak of life, you can say that the other party writes good words. When the other party hears it, he always thinks that you have been ridiculing him. Therefore, before praising someone, you should be clear and based on objective facts.

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