family
Family unites us; but it's also a challenge. All about fighting to stay together, and loving every moment of it.
She's Autistic...
"She's autistic...she has adhd too." They whisper behind her back as if she isn't standing but a foot away and as if autism somehow makes her deaf as well. She takes a deep breath and keeps walking. It would do no good to confront them. Their small ignorant minds couldn't handle the truth anyway. But still...she carries their words with her. Like a backpack that has too much weight to bear it's just one more thing she adds to her pack of things that float around in her head and that's just the tip of the iceburg. Most people don't know she has these what they call learning disabilities because she doesn't want people to know. Her mother made a large enough deal out of it by taking her to all those doctors. She knows that her mother just wanted to find out why she couldn't understand her studies the way she did when she was young. Why she was so stupid? Oh she'd never say that out loud...her mother didn't have to. That much was implied. Smart people didn't make C's, D's and F's like she did. On top of that she saw the way people looked at her since the diagnoses. These pills didn't help either. And that doctor literally told her mother that he could tell she had asperger's because she wouldn't make eye contact with him. After that, she was sure to look at him directly in his eye the duration of the visit. Idiot...as if just by not looking at a person you can identify what "disabilities" one may or may not have. "What's wrong with you?" That was a good one too. She'd heard that one on more than one occasion. "I'm not sure. What is wrong with me?" She'd think. "Is my brain broken and unfixable?" So she took to hiding it. She wouldn't tell a soul about her dual diagnoses unless she was forced to. That way she would appear "normal". She could blend in and at least out in a public of her peers be seen as just one of them. That was what she hoped for at least but she was different...in several ways. She did show signs of social awkwardness just because the "normal" ways of doing things in this world of social hierarchy made no sense at all to her. Humans are fascinating creatures but they were viewed as more of a science experiment to her rather than something to truly want to fit in with...of course she wanted friends and had a sense of not wanting to be alone but the general way people carried out life was baffling to her. It made no sense. So therefore she stood out. She had certain sensitivities that others did not. And the anxiety and depression was a real beast. She also as previously mentioned did not learn the way others did. Her brain was most certainly unique in many ways but unfortunately she saw it as a curse. Eventually, a nice young man taught her that her mind was stronger than she knew and that she could overcome her own faults and not need her medication and so she stopped. Throwing that medication down the drain was so very satisfying. For the first time she was doing something on her own and taking control and no one was any wiser. Things were hard though, harder still...her brain was a relentless bucking bull that she had to learn how to tame. The verbal assaults from everyone around her minus a scarce few were not easy to take either. Words were constantly thrown about like stones as if they didn't matter. Once she was told, "Do you think since you took all that medication as a kid that that could be what's wrong with you?" "No, no, I don't think that has anything to do with it at all." was all she managed to say after incredulously staring at this man she thought loved her for a full minute before responding. Now, I'm proudly proclaiming to have Asperger's and ADHD and am a stronger person because of it. Today, however, I was told my beautiful, perfect baby girl needs to be tested for a possible learning disability and my heart sank. I'm not going to lie...I cried. I worry for her, no mother wants their child to go through what they did and I like many of us have went through Hell. However, she is not me and she will be taught to be loud and proud of who she is no matter the outcome. Children and life can be harsh but she will and we will outshine them all!!!
By Lindsey Altom3 years ago in Humans
Survival Kits: The Ultimate Guide to Being Prepared for Anything!
Survival kits are an essential item that everyone should have. Whether you are planning a hiking trip, camping adventure, or just preparing for an emergency, survival kits can provide you with the necessary tools and supplies to help you survive in difficult situations. Here are some reasons why you should consider investing in a survival kit.
By Kağan Akdoğan3 years ago in Humans
"Peace of Mind at Your Fingertips: Reliable and Easy-to-Use Security Camera"
Security cameras have become an increasingly popular tool for home and business owners who want to protect their property and assets. These cameras can be used to monitor activity both inside and outside a building, providing a valuable layer of security that can help prevent theft, vandalism, and other crimes. In this article, we'll explore the benefits of using a security camera system.
By Your Guy Neighbor3 years ago in Humans
Brother
The term "brother" typically refers to a male sibling, someone who shares the same parents or one parent with another person. However, the word "brother" can also have broader meanings, such as a close male friend, a fellow member of a religious or fraternal organization, or even a term used colloquially to refer to someone as a brotherly figure. Here are some points about brothers:
By Fathima Azha3 years ago in Humans
Finding joy in mundane life
Life can be a rollercoaster ride, and we all know the struggles that come with it. Whether it's dealing with family issues, battling depression, or facing the everyday challenges of life, there are moments when it feels like the weight of the world is on our shoulders.
By Iqra Jehangir3 years ago in Humans
Life on the Farm
As the sun began to dip below the horizon, casting long shadows across the fields, Lucy trudged wearily back to the farmhouse. Her calloused hands ached, her back protested with every step, but she knew there was still work to be done before the day was done.
By cruddymoose3 years ago in Humans
