Sugar baby allowance, gifts and pay per meet

So one of the main questions about sugar is about money and gifts. It can be confusing because there is a lot of conflicting opinions and information. This will be geared to sugar babies but daddies and mamas should feel free to read this. I want to talk about everything money and gifts. There's a lot to cover so let's get started.

Let's talk about allowances first. An allowance is given weekly or monthly for what you did for him during the week or month. Sugar babies who agree to this want on going help. They may also like the daddy or mama and want more than one night with them. With an allowance you need to look at what you want to do and what you actually do for the sugar daddy. You need to look at time spent texting, on phone calls, getting ready and time spent together.

How would you get the allowance? Cash and apps like paypal, never bank transfers. Also never agree to buy cards for them or anything to do with cards, unless your going to hand over your credit card bill. No checks, you don't want them to know your full name. This is a security thing for most people.

Do not bring up money, trips or gifts before the date unless it is pay per meet. If you bring it up before the date it makes it sound like that's all you want and sugar daddy/mamas don't like feeling like an ATM or Santa Clause. Usually it's a good idea to talk about it when you meet and get to the "well I would like to see you again" point of the date. Just casually say something like "do you want to discuss what an arrangement may look like?" Use that opportunity to talk about everything.

How much should you get? It depends on what you want. Maybe you just want a little extra for fun stuff or clothes. Maybe you just want some gifts and trips. Don't feel cheap for asking for bear minimum. I have seen women who asked for $200 a week and were fine with it. With the $200 they were able to do a little shopping, have some money for bills or maybe have some wiggle room.

There are some daddies who give cash randomly instead of or in addition to an allowance. This may be to help you out with a bill or tuition. This may also be for a shopping trip or a trip. Never feel bed for taking extra cash.

Gifts and trips can be given in addition or instead of cash. Some girls prefer the stuff or the experiences to the cash. If you receiving gifts, trips and money make sure it is clear how gifts and trips will be handled. If you get a trip or gift will it be taken out of your allowance? Will it be given instead of the allowance? Make sure this is discussed prior to anything is given to you.

I can see both sides of the pay per meet conversation but I lean towards being against it most of the time. I will present both sides fairly though. In pay per meet you just get paid for the date. This arrangement is good for those sugar daddies your not sure of or when you are not sure if you want to be a sugar baby. This is also good when you want to have multiple daddies at once or if a daddy wants to have multiple babies at once. It's also good for those who don't really want to go on sugar dates that often.

Pay per meet is debated in part because it can be seen as being an escort or prostitute. This is why if you are going to do this type of arrangement do not have sex with them. To me it's too close to being an escort, I would not recommend it.

If you do pay per meet make sure you follow the same rules as you would if you were getting an allowance. No bank transfer, only cash and apps like cashapp and paypal. Make sure you don't leave till you get your money.

Gifts and trips can be given in addition or instead of cash. Some girls prefer the stuff or the experiences to the cash. If you receiving gifts, trips and money make sure it is clear how gifts and trips will be handled. If you get a trip or gift will it be taken out of your allowance? Will it be given instead of the allowance? Make sure this is discussed prior to anything is given to you.

I hope this answered all your questions. I will always be on team baby. Email me with any questions ([email protected]).