Strange Thing Men Desire
How to make A Man crazily in Love With You
Have you ever felt attracted to a guy without knowing why?
Maybe you've even had feelings for someone you'd rather not be attracted to. But why does this happen? How can you fall in love even though your conscious mind resists it?
The Hidden World of Romantic Attraction
Experiences like these hint at the hidden world driving our feelings of romantic attraction. That hidden world is all about emotional reactions. These are emotional reactions we don't consciously control.
The truth is, falling in love is not something we choose to do. It's more like getting thirsty. You don't choose to get thirsty. You just notice it. And the stronger your thirst becomes, the harder it gets to ignore.
A Relationship "Thirst" All Men Experience
What if I told you there is a kind of relationship "thirst" all men experience? A kind of thirst that's impossible for him to quench on his own. Would you like to know what he's so thirsty for?
To skip straight to the answer, check out this 90 seconds video
that reveals how you can trigger his thirst for something he needs and craves.
Plus, I'll show you how to ensure you are the ONLY person he depends on to satisfy this powerful longing.
Why He Can't Tell You What He Craves
Here's why the man in your life can't tell you what he craves most from his relationship with you…
… He's embarrassed to admit the truth.
And that's because admitting to this desire actually moves him farther away from the goal.
The Flower Example
Okay, picture a woman who feels frustrated because her man never does anything romantic.
Fortunately, she finally breaks down and explains her desire to feel romanced and pursued by him.
But he acts like she's being unreasonable, demanding she name one thing that's missing from the relationship. So she gives him an example.
"It would be nice to get flowers once in a while. Just simple things like that."
The next day, he brings her flowers. But the magic of this gesture is missing. Because it doesn't feel special to receive flowers when you had to ask for them.
Men's Secret Longing: Admiration
It's kind of like that with men, only with a completely different sort of relationship need. You see, men have an insatiable thirst for your admiration.
But he can't ask for it. He can't say,
"Julie, I really like you, but here's what's missing in our relationship. You don't admire me enough. You seem to have greater admiration for other men in your life, and that makes it hard for me to picture a future with you."
He can't say that because men believe you have to earn admiration. Asking for it is like trying to become popular by announcing you are a cool person. It doesn't work like that.
He will only feel like your hero when you speak the non-verbal language of admiration.
He has to read it between the lines of what you actually say and do.
Admiration Is Non-Negotiable for Men
Now, you might be thinking, "That's not so crazy. I can understand why a man craves admiration." But if you're thinking that, there's something important I need to tell you.
It's not just that men crave admiration. It's that he can't sustain that "in love" feeling without it.
The Need to Feel Needed
Nothing kills a man's attraction faster than a relationship where he doesn't feel needed. He wants to see himself as a provider. Someone who is admired because of his ability to provide.
You see, if he doesn't feel needed, he feels like less of a man; emasculated. And that turns off his romantic drive.
And the worst part? You can't just give him admiration. It only works if he believes he has earned your trust, admiration, and respect.
Let Him Be Your Hero
But here's the good news. It's both fun and easy to let him earn your admiration once you know how to set him up for success.
Just find ways to let him be your hero.
Now, I should mention there is actually an art to doing that in a way that makes him crazy about you.
But I've seen women wrap a man around her pinky using this simple concept. As a relationship coach, I have seen what works and what doesn't. But what it all comes down to is this…
Trigger His Hero Instinct
You need to trigger his hero instinct.
Accomplish that, and you'll be astonished by what happens next.
He'll become so loving, so attentive, so much more interested in a committed, long-term relationship, that you will never want things to go back to the way they were.
The hero instinct is a subconscious drive to gravitate toward people who make him feel like a hero. But it's amplified in his romantic relationships.
About the Creator
Edward Smith
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