Story of Yes or No

Let me start with a word which we do not feel pleasant to listen in whichever phase and relation we are in..

By definition itslef the word is used to describe negative feelings to the person who hears it, but Why saying NO is important for childrens because this is the age where the development of child happens, it comes naturally to few kids by genes but to some it takes a lot effort to say NO.

Expereince what happens to Kids when we Say this magic word …Let me tell you a story..

This is a story of kid 5 years of age . She lived with her parents in a nuclear family.From childhood she has been pampered with toys , games, books , whatever she asks for it hs been given to her. She is the most lovable child of her family.she is playful with parents and siblings but somehere at some age there comes the need to play with age mates where we learn social connects and relationships better.Days goes by they share toys for

Playing, share food items, they exchange small items too for home spent whole day in playing together. Other day her parent tried to speak to her child on the exchnages and time she has been spending on . Child responded to her saying – “Sharing is Caring na Mumma you only have told and you only tell me to play insated of watching TV/ mobile “.

Where have we gone wrong as a parent here, Have we tried to make them understand to Say NO also sometimes , benefits of saying NO and how it will help to be a better person insated of sharing and becoming a people pleaser. YES comes with it’s own problem. Cultivating the boudaries of YES and NO at early stages to be mastered to have healthy and peaceful mind ….and remember it’s always a Work in Progress situation..

Parenting is a journey of discovery, growth, and transformation – a path that leads both parents and children towards greater awakening and consciousness. In this article, we will explore the concept of "Parenting with Awakening" and how it can shape the lives of our children, empowering them to thrive in a world filled with endless possibilities.

As parents, we serve as mirrors to our children, reflecting back the energy and values we embody. By nurturing our own awakening, we become powerful role models for our kids, inspiring them to embrace their true selves and follow their passions.

Just like other awakening parenting awakening also start from inner self. Our children’s are reflections of us so before saying anything to children’s we should first look at our inner Child.

Before reacting to children’s on their behaviors we should look how do we feel about for the same situation. We always speak to our Childrens by saying – Grow Up!! But do WE really grow up till we even be middle aged also. Fundamentally all humans needs love, care, attention, touch and approvals/validations in all that we do. So even as a parent we should become more functional and add these rules in our Parenting.

As a parent we do so much unconsciously that it remains with child and later it becomes their personality and once they grow and experience this world we impose the child to change again which is not realistic.

In today’s fast growing time it is important as a parent to know what we want to pass on to our childrens. Slow down and evaluate the way you respond .Being conscious and Being Inner Awake Parenting will Yield better results.