SoulMates

If you believe that within your whole entire lifetime you only get one soul mate, it is probably because that is all you required in this lifetime. However, within a lifetime, there are several versions of ourselves that are developed. Each version requiring a different version of self. We become different versions of ourselves through the experiences that we have. That is why the ugly guy in high school, suddenly becomes handsome after twenty-five years or you could have met your soulmate at twenty-five years old and but because you were not where you wanted to be in life, you did not recognize what was in front of you. Whatever the circumstance, time changes perception, and with all the growth that comes with human evolution, why not have more than one soulmate?

Soulmates are people who come into our lives for a season and for a reason. We can feel quite connected to this person. An uncontrollable desire to be in their presence. Sometimes, it is extremely difficult to break off the relationship, even after the lesson. Soulmates are meant to wake us up to ourselves. Good or bad, if there are things we need to change, it will come from a soulmate. It must take a person who can make you vulnerable and open in order to teach you the hardest lessons regarding yourself. Not all soulmates are meant to be with each other forever. Some soulmates prepare us for our ultimate love. They lead us to the one that we do spend the best years of our life with. But in order to get there, we must learn a few lessons, and experience a few heartbreaks. How many times have you heard of someone getting their heart broke and moving on to the love of their life? And the person that broke your heart gets to move on into a new relationship in which his heart will be broken. It creates the balance of life, your experience reflects your actions. Never worry about the heartbreakers and the deceivers, they all get their justice. You can not get passed the cycle because we are all connected, and all our actions influences all of us.

There was a time when I was involved in a whirlwind relationship. The trips, the sex, the money the everything, the recipe that distracts you from the reality of who and what you are with. I believe people can be drawn to each other for whatever reason, so I went with it. What I did not realize at the time was people will say and do anything to get what they want. Although everything just felt so right, it was all a game. The play on my emotions was done with precision and tact. My lesson: Take your time, in all matters of the heart, no matter how good it feels. There’s always the chance that someone can surprise you with the unexpected. There’s always the chance that the person you love may have different intentions than you. And there’s also the chance that once you unload most of your baggage, there is someone waiting to love and accept you as you are. No changes needed.

When the journey of life presents itself, it is important that you stay the course. There will be events, circumstances and even people that come to teach you to love yourself. There will moments when the pain is so deep that you feel as if you will not survive, but you will. You will dust yourself off and prepare yourself for the next adventure. An adventure that will be welcomed by the wiser you.

Our relationships help to define who we are and who we become. Soulmates can come in all forms, not just as lovers but as lessons. Lessons if otherwise, we may not have learned. Even if you meet what feels like your soulmate today, you will still be held accountable for the choice that you make. Along with the lesson you need to learn and the love you need to give or receive, it could all be masked in what we may believe is a soulmate.

Lavidus, Author