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Some truths about guys in relationships

Hey Girls, You wanna know some truths about guys?! I mean who doesn't right? So, you better scroll down and check out these bitter truths.

By Eva KajushiPublished 6 years ago 2 min read

Truth nr.1- "If a guy wants to be with a girl, he will make it happen no matter what"~Greg Behrendt.

If he truly wants to be with you, he will make the time. Nobody is busy for the person who loves. Being busy is just an excuse, please do not let anyone fool you. Because, here is what guys don't do if they can't live without you: They will come after you and never leave you.

I understand everybody can be busy at a certain time, but he will text you or call or meet you right afterwards he is available. Oh, and that is not after 3 days for sure, unless he was kidnapped.

Do not let your feelings for him to fool you. Do not try to come up with excuses about him being busy. Please open your eyes to the truth!

Every woman has a sixth sense and that is instinct. Listen to that voice! It is always right. I am so tired of seeing great women in toxic relationship and nobody deserves that. Nobody!!!

Truth nr.2-"Don't spend your time on and give your heart to any guy who makes you wonder about anything related to his feelings for you"~Greg Behrendt.

Girls, the person you deserve is the one who will desire you as much as you do them. With these kind of guy by your side, believe me you will never wonder about his feelings. He will always make you feel sure and confident in him. He realizes that it is his job to make you feel loved, secured and safe in his arms and presence.

Truth nr.3-We are encouraged to believe that if a guy acts like a total jerk , that means he likes us.

Well, let me tell you this If a guy acts like that, he is a jerk. The right guy will build you up and not break you down. He will not act as a jerk if he cares about you. He will not be afraid to show the world how he feels about you. He will not act different with you around other people.

Even if he is behaving in this manner because he "likes" you, that is no excuse for his awful behaviour. Just try to stay away from him and anyone who thinks the best way to treat a person they care for is by hurting them.

This is a SIGN of immaturity at best and at worst sign of an abusive person, sweetheart.

Truth nr.4- You don't feel like being yourself around him.

First of all, why do you need a guy who judges you about being YOU?

I mean shouldn't you fall in love with one's personality and admire them for who they are? Please correct me if I am wrong.

Just act YOU now before time passes and you find yourself trapped in a person you don't know anymore. What is the point of falling in love when you are not true to who you are?

Go grab yourself your favorite meal and enjoy it till the last bite. Guys love that!

Listen to that song that you love so fucking much, but he doesn't. He has to respect your taste. Wasn't he one of your tastes?!

Girls let me tell you this. You don't need a perfect man. PERFECT DOES NOT EXIST. Wake UP! You just need a man who will make you feel that you are the ONLY ONE.

Comment below and let me know if you would like a part two.

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About the Creator

Eva Kajushi

"Some steps need to be taken alone. It's the only way to really figure out where you need to go and who you need to be." ~ Mandy Hale.

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