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Some things are a knot when they are not talked about, but a scar when they are talked about

Some things

By Campus SusanPublished 4 years ago 6 min read
Some things are a knot when they are not talked about, but a scar when they are talked about
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Those who live muddleheaded are easy to be happy; People who live soberly are easy to worry. This is because sober people see it too seriously. Once they are serious, they will be full of troubles in life; The muddleheaded people care less. Although they live a simple and rough life, they find the great taste of life.

Some people say that life is a kind of enjoyment; Some people say that life is a kind of helplessness. In fact, life has both enjoyment and helplessness, comfort and confusion. Life is like a green fruit. If you slowly taste it in your mouth and chew it carefully, there will be many flavors spreading at the tip of your tongue, sweet, sour, bitter and astringent.

It's nice to smile. Happiness is not difficult. As long as you are open-minded, optimistic and open-minded, you will embrace happiness and live in a happy harbor.

When I was young, it was cool to feel lonely. When I grow up, I feel lonely is a very sad thing. Now, I feel lonely is not a thing. Sometimes what people need is real despair. Real despair has nothing to do with pain and sadness. Real Despair makes people calm.

The most unhappy people in the world are those who care most about what others think. The longer you wait, the more you cherish when you get it. Anything worth having must be worth waiting for. Never explain yourself to anyone. You don't need to.

In my opinion, intellectuals are a group of people. You have a little more knowledge than everyone, but you will devote the more part to everyone. That's called intellectuals. There are few intellectuals. Now knowledge is profitable. If you look at the books in bookstores now, you have to earn 100 million before you are 30. If you have more knowledge than others, you will be more developed than him.

No inferiority, no hyperactivity, calm heart; No dispute, no noise, peace of mind; Do not climb, do not compare, the heart is indifferent; No anger, no anger, easy-going; No AI, no resentment, calm heart. Life has its length; Life is full of bitterness and joy; Life has its ups and downs. Learn to wave your sleeves calmly and smile without sorrow. Happiness is not having more, but caring less; Optimism is not without troubles, but knowing contentment; Life is not perfect, twists and turns are also scenery, open, think through, is perfect.

Money can be taken in a proper way, but it can't be taken by coincidence; Time can race against time, but it can't be wasted; Life can be wonderful and rich, but not boring; Life can be ups and downs, can not start over. I hope friends cherish time, love life and grasp the present.

You don't need to explain your behavior, and others won't care about your explanation. If you are criticized, remember that it is because criticizing you will give him a sense of importance, and it also shows that you are successful and attractive. Many people get satisfaction by blaming people who are more successful than themselves.

Why can we get happiness so easily? Just because you're smart, you're filial, you're beautiful? There are so many people floating in big cities and living in dark and humid basements. They may be more talented than you. Why do we have to live a good life smoothly? There are too many variables and opportunities in life. It's not a simple calculation. We should dare to break through.

Sometimes you don't work hard, but you are too superstitious about the power of interpersonal relationships. If you spend your time in other aspects, you may have made achievements long ago. Many people have only one way to go. That is to rely on one's own strength, skills and self-sufficiency. If you have friends to help you, it's icing on the cake. It won't be too bad if you don't.

The wisdom brought by happiness exists in a clear sense of mind, not confused by worry, not dull by despair and boredom, and not blind spots caused by fear. Leaping happiness - which is not only satisfaction or satisfaction - will come suddenly, just like the spring rain in April or the blooming of flower buds.

When we accept people's imperfections, when we can be grateful for the continued operation of life, we can achieve integrity, while others yearn for integrity. When they are confused about perfection, we are experiencing real life. Life is not perfect, but defects.

Life is not God's trap for catching your mistakes. You won't be unqualified because of a mistake. Life is a ball game. The best team also has a record of losing points, and the worst team also has a brilliant day. Our goal is to enrich our life experience.

If we are afraid of the last time, we can't help worrying. From then on, the speaker's worries will be endless, which is the shackle we are willing to add.

Maybe it is loss that makes us complete. Every perfect person, in a sense, is a poor person. He can never feel the feeling of pursuit and hope. He can never feel the joy that the person who loves him brings him something he has been pursuing and can't get.

You will know that there are many people who are more unfortunate than us. We can't control the world. We might as well do what we can and take those pains as an experience from God. Take forgetting as a kind of kindness to forgive others, and always believe in one sentence: there is no higher mountain than people, no longer road than feet, and the front is always the best.

There is a good side and a dark side in life. You can never imagine how dark you can be. Even the kindest person will wake up when he loses his mind. At that time, the ending will be darker than the reality.

People know many of their weaknesses only after they are familiar with them. Many people are used to not praising their acquaintances behind their backs. It is absolutely harmful for us to speak ill of our acquaintances behind their backs. If someone asks us about our impressions of our acquaintances, try to think about their strengths and praises.

There should be several close friends in life. They don't have to abide by the law and are willing to confide their difficulties to me. Several friends who can talk with me deeply, and respect my hobbies and my opinions at the same time. There should be a good cook who can make clear soup and cook clear dishes.

The more people grow up, the closer they will be to the truth: not everyone likes themselves. How important it is to be liked for self affirmation, but if the other person doesn't respond, or ignores you, or even treats you unfairly, it's not because of what you did wrong. It's not because you're not good enough.

Some things, until you gradually wake up, you will understand that it is a mistake; Some things don't know how heavy they are until you really put them down. When life is unhappy, it is a long holiday given by God. At this time, you should enjoy your holiday.

Life will inevitably suffer some grievances and injuries. It's better to be frank and calm than to be unhappy. Only by withstanding the baptism of storms can we practice calm and calm. No matter how many people you love, no matter how painful or happy you love, in the end, you don't learn how to love, but how to love yourself.

Some things may be better if you hide them in your heart. After a long time, they will become stories. The worst thing in life is not to lose someone you love, but to lose yourself because you love someone too much. Those things that took a long time to figure out will eventually be overturned by a loss of emotion. Once something happens, some people like to find reasons for themselves for peace of mind, while others love analysis. Neither the former nor the latter is an attitude towards life.

You know so many people in this world, so many people are related to you. No matter how you change, it is impossible for everyone to like you, so you might as well be the person you want to be. Life is too short, go crazy, go to love, go to waste, go after dreams, go to regret.

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