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She deserves More!

Her condition was formed by Her Experiences

By Jay LeTron DobbinsPublished 2 years ago Updated 2 years ago 3 min read

Saw a post the other day of a beautiful woman. Makeup was flawless and hair was set in the most attractive formation.

Nothing negative about the way she moves because her moves are calculated based on her past. I’m sure she heard all of the nice words and received all of the nicest gift. Somehow, the giver may have led her down to an avenue of disappointment.

To understand women in this state, is to never completely understand them because no one can experience the personal pain that the disappointing moment gave them.

It’s almost like giving the world your best and making yourself available, but in return not having the same effort reciprocated.

So as her response may come across as cold and quick to dismiss a compliment, she has heard it all before and it’s a natural defense to turn those away who doesn’t mean her well!

Now disturbing this woman’s groove is so far off the charts, but who do we have to thank for this? Is it the previous men she gave a chance or the lack of poor vetting? Maybe both! However, that is not the subject of debate!

How we choose to live our lives is completely left for our own individual handling! Life is a chance we all take when we get up and leave our homes in the morning!

So what is my point? What is the message to women similar to her “guarded” approach in life and the common social setting?

My observation may be completely off the charts and I have been accused of knowing absolutely nothing in the world. I get that!

I also understand that when I see beauty in a person ways, I feel the need to tell them about it and seeing them in their best version is my only desire!

No, not here to tell women what they need to do or could be doing. I’m just here to say when the light is correctly adjusted on her, by the right person, she can shine in the most magnificent way!

I believe that we are here to edify others, yet in some careless way, we destroy them with our selfishness. I see this wonderful woman and not knowing her at all, I just know that her better version has so much more to offer. Unfortunately access to her is limited.

So my super power is writing about national treasures! Someone who has no value, priceless, but well worth knowing presented value and the potential gains that are within.

Not a mind reader and will not ever pretend to be. So all the fans that you have and the man that you may currently have do not understand who you could completely be because they don’t connect to you as the way you would like to be felt.

I’m not an Alpha-male (I hate that term) but I do know and understand to have a woman of sound character and high intelligence with a fine mix of humbleness is a great thing to have and men of all ages truly desire.

So my hat goes off to you! I see my sisters when I see you! I see my mother when I see you. Knowing that you deserve so much more and it has nothing to do with material or possessions.

I felt compelled to say this and you may not fully receive this now. Read it later and whenever you come to a full understanding, know that my only goal communicating to you is for you to know that you are special.

There’s plenty of men who say it, but not enough to mean it!

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About the Creator

Jay LeTron Dobbins

Casual writer! Love to express in print! Tell people how you feel and love life to the fullest with no regrets. Try to say something good about a person when they can hear it, and not when they are gone! Love like no tomorrow.

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