Running behind self-satisfaction, sometimes pins down our beloved ones

Self-satisfaction tells the inner relaxation of a person regarding personality. It is very common to prioritize self-satisfaction to calm down inner but every so often when we keep satisfying ourselves, we are starting to forget people and their emotions. Our satisfaction may hurt our dear people emotionally.

The hurting phase of our beloved ones starts when we try to catch our souls rigidly. It's wrong or may be harmful to us as well but due to our rigid behavior and self-satisfying passion, we make our beloved ones drown while making them suffer. Our dear ones start suffering and compromising with this sticky self-satisfaction. Sporadically, when we are satisfying our minds, thinking, and striving to be in a relaxing state its makes our beloved ones be in a depression phase because of our satisfaction.

Well-beloved individuals maybe our very close relations like our parents, friends and maybe husband or wife are the main victims of our torturing nature. We start to take advantage of these relations, while steadily it becomes our habit to play and ignore their feelings. Torturing self-satisfaction not only affect others mind and tolerance level, but it also ends up with the suffering of our rigid self-satisfaction mentality. Every so often we ourselves cannot handle this kind of satisfaction, and it may physically affect our mind as well. We always try to build our own paradise, which makes our personality more self-conscious. Such kind of attitude intentionally or unintentionally hits the base of stairs that he wants to climb to get satisfaction. We could also become psycho patients if we continue this mind-affecting habit.

According to society, the self-satisfaction habit takes in a very positive sense and it is preferred to relax inner-self and mind. Because when the inner-self gets satisfied it automatically makes self-satisfied. But when it becomes a person's habit it chews the other satisfaction stamina and tolerance level. Screwing self- satisfaction removes the inner positive calmness and shows the poor side in front of our beloved ones. The attachment associates with beloved people slowly lessen the effects of affection they have. The charmful feelings they have for people who practice rigid mind thinkings and satisfaction replaces with very charmless and heavy-hearted feelings.

So, the consequences which could be expected from self-satisfaction not only depresses us but also make others suffer. Very dear ones gradually and steadily start ignoring such kind of person and try to maintain a safe distance from such a depressing personality. In the end, the beloved relations standoff themselves with this kind of nature and the person as well, while ending up with drowning soul at the shore.

Keep sticking on self-satisfaction screwing behavior hurts yourself as well as others. Self-satisfaction may cause pain rather than relief yourself but your beloved ones. So, there should be some limits to commit and relax your inner when this limit is exceeded it ruins not only yourself but your dear ones also. So when we start hurting our dear ones it also damages ourselves. People start to show frustration towards us and we cannot heal up ourselves when our beloved ones hurt us. So hurting our beloved ones never allows us also to be in a normal state. Our own screwing self-satisfaction will not allow us to heal our inner when we hurt others. Our relaxation sometimes depends on other inner relaxation and satisfaction also.

It's good to satisfy own self but if this satisfaction becomes the reason for hunting beloved people with their piercing effects on their hearts, then it's better to first satisfy the beloved ones. It will be a real loss if the screwing and torturing satisfaction become the reason for losing them.