Relationships in your 40's & 50's

No one really thinks they would be dating again in there 40's & 50's but it happens.. It could be great especially since now you know a little more than you did when you were 25..

Let's be real we all have insecurities no matter how old we are about dating and starting something new. What if he/she isn't right for me? What if we start something and 3 months later its over. What if our kids don't get along or like the new person. But guess what.. Who cares about all the "What ifs"...

At this point in life you have the ability to live life the way you want. Do what you want whenever you want and with whoever you want. Without having to ask permission or explanations needed. Just do what you want..

Learn to allow yourself to have fun to be free and most importantly be yourself. Take the leap and date that older or younger who cares. If you find someone you click with, gives you that sense of peace, is fun and has qualities you are looking for do it. Always remember you do not know what you can have unless you take the risk. Be careful definitely especially since we have all been hurt or disappointed in some way, or have ended long term relationships. But be willing to take that leap and find that excitement that we all need to keep feeling young and loved. Show compassion, affection and love if you do find that someone. Show them that regardless of their past or yours "Love" is still possible. Understanding and Trust is light of all relationships. So keep that communication open and be mindful.

Men and women in their 40's & 50's want a partner that is emotionally secure and financially stable. We all want that person all the time don't get me wrong but it's most important now at our age. Men in their 50's look for that woman that can still be the girl they need full of fun, excitement, sexiness', full of confidence. But who knows what she wants. Woman in their 40's also want that man who is confident. Who can give her a romantic night out, satisfy in so many ways, gives her the respect she deserves and who shows her she is important. Who will support her in her goals and ambitions. Be there for her if she needs him to but understand that she is independent. Both want someone who is there for them, who listens, supports and understand. Who is willing to say YES I can be present. Because honestly the one thing we have all mostly desired form a partner is for them to be present in the relationship. We also want someone who can be easy going who is not questioning every move you make no one wants that. IT's an uncomfortable feeling regardless. In order to have this though you have to communicate and trust which is upmost important in any relationship. Good Communication is the best reliable source if you ask me.

Now by all means no one said it would be easy on the contrary I can tell you it's rough out there. We aren't at a stage in life for games or wanting to waste time. We all want something substantial. But to get there we have to go through the motions and step and that involves allot of frogs at times ladies. hahaha :) or allot of woman looking for sugar daddy's LOL.. Don't get discourage I promise the opportunities are endless and there is someone out for all of us. Think of this time / chapter of your life as an "Adventure" take it as that and see where it leads you. The paths and trails to your destination are endless and can be filled with different experiences.

Keep the Adventure going until you find your Final Destination...