On Silence.

The title no longer tries to cater to it and returns to its most simple appearance.

Writing will be just a tool for me to speed up thinking, train my mind, become familiar with human nature and understand the world.

Of course, the desire to accumulate experience for future generations will not disappear.

I've decided to be alone.

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When I took notes,

Inspiration, enlightenment, or modification of old behavior.

Maybe it is or has come into my heart.

one.

The leaves of the south are still full of life in the cold and shy winter.

When spring comes, new life will pour into the tree's body, and those green leaves begin to turn yellow and fall to the ground like the army's steps.

The new will of life is transformed into tender leaves, extending outward one by one along the track left by the old leaves.

They come and go quietly, without the slightest gap in language or understanding, and there is no gap or overlap in their tacit understanding.

As we speak, new contradictions, new consumption, new distortions may be taking place.

Our voice is always interspersed with some mournful voices, or there are always many biases and one-sidedness in it.

The rational, moderate and moderate situation is always difficult to achieve.

I found that dissatisfied I like to comment on people behind their backs, casually talking about the rights and wrongs of others.

There are a lot of inappropriate things.

two.

How to know a person.

Knowing a person, like reading a book, requires pages of material to form a complete understanding.

For example, the first piece of material I heard from others made me begin to judge a person; the second understanding from being able to get along with myself changed my previous judgment; the third statement about my personal past made me form a new judgment; the fourth negative event made me doubt that person again; the fifth one about interpersonal helplessness made me sympathize.

The narration of others may be biased, the personal experience may not be complete, the past may not be the same as the present, and the negative judgment may ignore the real situation.

When we judge according to incomplete materials, we are expressing not only our intelligence, love or hatred, but also our stupidity, ignorance, frivolity and jealousy.

If you don't say it, you will also draw an outline of yourself for others on a blank piece of paper.

Our understanding of a person is established in such a long and long process, and our conversation is sometimes clear and contradictory in this experience.

If there is only such repeated cognition, perhaps we will always be in the end of contradiction and ruthlessness.

We also need higher knowledge and knowledge to reconcile the perception of appearance, so we need to learn to be silent.

three.

I only recently got tired of the uncontrollability of my mouth.

It always despises people's reason and casually evaluates people without obeying orders, and most of the evaluations are unfair.

Among the comments made, some are purely mournful (as above), while others are unnecessary.

Nobody is perfect.

When we understand a person's temperament, we should move on to a new beginning, reduce complaints and comments, adapt to their character, and adjust our pace.

Clinging to the shortcomings of others will only get us into endless troubles.

Often criticize the shortcomings of others, not only to create their own villain image, but also to insult others.

Therefore, although some facts are true, there is no need to talk about them all the time.

There are times when everyone can't do what he wants, for example, I can't control my mouth.

There are some things in this world that can be achieved by personal will and efforts, while others cannot be changed.

At this time, it is important to learn to respect and tolerate each other.

Even if you are dissatisfied, keeping silent is a way to control speech, to prevent harm, and to respect and tolerate others.

four.

We always misunderstand that the words were unintentional and unintentional.

Actually this is not so.

Our hearts are like a soft sphere that vibrates.

When external images enter the brain and unbalanced imagination causes fluctuations, we look for images and materials in our heads that are in line with our own interests. they form emotional thinking and understanding in the brain, and the heart vibrates with it. Finally, it comes out through the mouth.

The more immature your mind is, the more emotions you will have, the more incomplete your knowledge will be, and the more violent your mind will fluctuate.

This is similar in any person's body, and everyone is full of doubts and contradictions.

When doubts and confusion are spoken out, fluctuations can be conveyed to other people's hearts, and then they influence and tremble each other, and the contradictions migrate and deepen.

If we love to think, observe, and listen to the inner workings, we will examine the ideas that arise spontaneously in our heads, imagine whether there are other possibilities, and even think about whether it makes sense to indulge in an idea.

Ideas are sometimes very utilitarian.

) over time, maybe we will keep our talkative mouth shut, and the external contradictions and incomprehension will be reduced.

We will also reap the virtues of maturity and respect and trust in others.

five.

Silence comes from contemplation.

Silence is like a lake in an abyss, which clearly reflects the sky and stars shining on it.

It is silent, but it never stops thinking, observing, mapping others and illuminating itself.

Not being talkative is a character trait, but silence is the way to deepen learning.

Silence enables us to reach a compromise with others, ourselves and the world in our hearts.

It is not to speak, but to rein in the superfluous clutter and not to let them affect the state of affairs; in yourself, act according to your ability, do not flinch, and be responsible to yourself and others.

Silence has something to do with a sharp, strong, persistent and smooth personality.