Never take advantage of others

Walking around the world, it is inevitable that we will meet some "smart people".

When meeting with people, they are always beating the small abacus in the heart, afraid that they can not take advantage.

As a result, popularity is getting worse and worse, and the road of life is getting narrower.

In fact, the feelings between people are mutual, no one likes to interact with people who love to take advantage.

If you want to make your life easy, don't take advantage of anyone you interact with.

Taking advantage may seem shrewd, but it is inept

Shrewd too much, suffer is their own.

Those who have taken advantage of the small, in the dark bid good price.

The netizen @moon once shared his past story about falling in love with Starlight.

When she first arrived at the company a few years ago, she often worked on projects with her colleague Xiao Liu.

Each time, Liu would give her the most difficult job under various excuses. As a result, he often had to work late into the night when he was her partner.

Moreover, when the project is successfully completed, Liu will be the first to run to the leaders to claim credit.

Once, they went on a business trip to other places, and she was too busy to spare.

Liu said she was not feeling well and would stay at the hotel to rest, but she was actually clocking in at a tourist spot while she was out at work.

In the evening, she was busy preparing the materials for the next day, while Liu was brushing his mobile phone to prepare the travel guide, and complacently calculating which expenses could be reimbursed by the company.

It has become Liu's habit to take advantage of his work and do nothing.

As time went by, no one was willing to work on projects with her, and she cheated on her work, which also led to no improvement in her work ability.

It wasn't long before Liu was eliminated from the competition.

A man who takes advantage may seem shrewd, but it is actually a sign of incompetence.

This kind of people are shortsighted, their eyes only have a small profit, the first reaction is to use an abacus.

If you want to take more advantage, you have to spend more energy.

Everyone's energy is limited, the energy spent on the abacus, there will be no power to grow up.

In the end, you will be trapped in a vicious cycle of "the more you take advantage, the more incompetent you are", making yourself smart and mediocre.

The quickest way to destroy a man is to let him take advantage.

Once he gets a taste of the small pleasures, it's hard to stop.

Where the energy is spent, a person's growth is where. If you don't want your life to go downhill early, you must always remind yourself to take less advantage.

The real smart, not busy to take advantage, but busy to improve themselves, let themselves go to the top to see the beautiful scenery.

He took advantage and burned his Bridges

Do you know anyone who says,

Received a winning message, feel that it is a good fortune to repair their own, holding a cheap can not miss the mentality, full of expectation to operate by steps, the result was cheated out of all the money in the card;

To GET FREE EGG, GO LISTEN TO HEALTH LECTURE, RESULT BE CHEATED, BOUGHT a HEAP "3 WITHOUT" HEALTH CARE PRODUCT.

Where there is a small bargain, there will be their shadow.

As everyone knows, behind every small cheap, there may be a big trap hidden.

In the hit TV show "Go Mom", there is a plot that makes people move with emotion.

Zhao Chunhua heard that his neighbor made an investment and could earn 10,000 yuan a month, so he went to an investment company to learn about it.

She saw the investment company is very big, responsible for the reception of her young man is also very warm, before leaving also sent her a lot of gifts, and did not hesitate to sign a contract with the other side, put their own property certificate to the other side.

During the first few months, she duly received her investment returns, but the later they arrived, the later they arrived.

Did not think, she decided not to do investment, want to take back the real estate card, for her financial boy mobile phone has been turned off, and the investment company is empty.

The so-called investment and financial management is nothing but an elaborate hoax.

Originally, behind the investment contract, there is a housing sales authority of the agent book.

Her house has long been sold by the investment company to the intermediary, millions of houses, she only get a little bit of the so-called investment income.

For a little cheap, even the house built in, she regretted.

There is no free lunch, there is no white cheap, all cheap behind the hole.

People love to take advantage, but because of greed.

Not greedy, there will be no greed; No greed, how can easily fall into the trap.

As the saying goes:

"Greed is the head of a match. It seems so small, but it can destroy the whole world."

Good and bad always depend on each other. What seems to be a great good thing can also be a great disaster.

Life on the road, filled with all kinds of temptation, as long as you do not greed, do not take advantage of the small, will not stumble.

A wise man, often take the initiative to suffer

Walking in the world, everyone has their own troubles, some people's troubles come from the fear of losing.

In fact, the more he is afraid of losing, the more he will lose.

On the contrary, those who take the initiative to lose, can always make themselves more.

Several years ago, an economic crisis brought Harrison Textile Company into an unprecedented period of financial difficulty.

When everyone is busy trying to survive the difficulties, a sudden fire, and almost wiped out the company.

For a while, 3,000 employees didn't know what to do.

While everyone was waiting with dismay for the chairman to declare the business bankrupt, the news came that the company had decided to continue paying its employees for another month.

Employees thanked the chairman, but others felt he was foolish for paying them for nothing at a time when everyone else was in danger.

A month later, the chairman continued to pay the employees for another month, which made the employees even more grateful when they were already anxious about finding jobs and their future income.

The next day, employees voluntarily went to the company to clean up the factory and wipe down the machines.

Even, some people take the initiative to go out to find supplies, some people take the initiative to find customers.

Three months later, the company was back to normal operations, and with the concerted efforts of all the people, it became one of the largest companies.

The chairman of the board gave the staff two months 'salary in vain, which seemed to be a big loss, but in the invisible cohesion of the people, let the staff work harder.

In life, those who take the initiative to lose, are often wise people.

They take a long view and are not confined to the immediate area.

They know that those who love others are always in love with them. Taking the initiative to suffer losses is not only helping others, but also helping themselves.

As the writer Mudd put it:

"It is easy for one to win another, and that is to learn to lose."

Life is fair to everyone, those you have suffered losses, will be in another place to illuminate your light forward.

There is a saying in CAI Gen Tan:

"Don't ask for anything, don't ask for anything."

Should not be your blessing, do not seek; Don't covet things that don't belong to you.

Life is an echo, if you get something that does not belong to you, you must lose something somewhere else in a more disastrous way.

Life is long, less thought to take advantage, there are more heart self progress; Less love, life will be more practical; Take the initiative to suffer more for consideration, the road is naturally more wide.