My Ex Avoids Me When She Sees Me (My Ex Avoids Me At All Costs)

A few weeks have passed since your girlfriend broke off with you. You have been racking your brains as to what course of action you should take to get your ex back. Your ex has been trying to avoid you! Just a few days ago, you accidentally bumped into your ex at the mall and you saw how your ex's reaction of wanting to get away from you. How do you get your ex back when she is trying to avoid you?

Tell your ex - that you are not running after her so ask your ex why the avoidance? Let your ex know (even if it's not true) that you have moved on and that you have no intention whatsoever of patching up your relationship. Your ex would probably be surprised by what you said. If the plan works, expect a call.

Get into the groove - of activities that your ex enjoys. If your ex plays badminton, get some friends and play the sports at the same courts your ex uses. If your ex hits the gym regularly, pay for a membership at the same gym and start pumping iron too. If your ex attends midweek Bible Studies at the local church, join the study group. Surely your ex will not shoo you away during a Bible study session.

Be friends with your ex's family and friends - This is one sure way of being invited to the same parties and gatherings that your ex is invited too. Being in a talking relationship with your ex's family means the family approves of you. That's one big plus for you. Your ex's friends are current so you can actually spy on your ex.

Don't mind your ex - If you bumped into your ex, act as if you don't care. Just smile and walk away. I bet your ex can't wait to talk to you and ask you what the real score is.

How to Win Your Girlfriend Back: Automatic Confidence

According to a recent survey I read about (conducted online) 35% of Americans say they have been through a break-up at least once in the past 10 years. That seems low to me, but still that's one in every 3 people.

51% in the same survey said they initiated the split. While only 32 percent of men say their partner dumped them.

Who's telling lies?

I guess it doesn't matter too much. But it does seem that women initiate most break-ups. And from what I've seen, that is about right, too.

What this means is, that it's the guys who are more likely to be left with their heart bleeding in the gutter, wondering what went wrong. And wondering how to get back the girl.

So what did go wrong?

I don't pretend to know the exact reason for every break-up. But I do know this. In the vast majority (if I had to guess I'd say 85%) of relationships where the girl breaks up with the guy, the real reason (not always the excuse she gives) is always the same...

The real reason for these break-ups is that the guy loses the respect of the woman.

She feels that you are completely 'won-over', there is no challenge left. In a word you've become desperate.

Here's a common picture of the desperate guy:

*Gives the woman all the attention, all of the time

*Puts her needs first (even above his own interests)

*Is always available

*Is not willing to walk away from the relationship

When a guy acts this way (whether they are in a relationship, or are just dating) the thing that runs through the woman's mind is always the same:

"No one else must want him"

By acting this way, you're demonstrating neediness, a clingy type of pressure that will literally drive away any woman that is worth being with.

A woman wants to you to live in your own world

And to share that world with you. She does not want to be your world.

So how do you get rid of this desperation? It's simple really, you need to change your mind. Change your mind first, and everything else will fall naturally into place.

The mindset of the desperate (low confidence) guy:

The low-confidence guy sees the woman as the prize to be won. She is to be adored and pleased. Losing her would be a great blow. And he is lucky to have got her.

The mindset of the magnetically attractive Man (high confidence):

This guy does not see any woman as a prize. In his mind (and his world) HE is the great catch. Any woman would be lucky to have him, and they need to work to win HIM over.

Notice the difference?

If you want to get back your ex girlfriend. You can't just go running back with the same mindset if you want to have any type of success. Instead, change who you are and have her (and many other women) come running back for you.

The biggest difference between the desperate guy and the magnetically attractive Man? The Man is willing to walk away from the relationship at any time.

Right now, you can't physically 'walk away' from the relationship. But you can walk away emotionally. Because you know you actually are the great guy, right? I'll tell you right now, you definitely are. Or at least, you can turn yourself into that guy.

But you have to be willing to walk away first.

Become this guy, and your ex will notice the difference. I promise. And once she sees the transformation, she'll fight to get you back.

Because once she sees that you are that great guy, that great catch, her biggest fear will be losing you.

Patience IS confidence - you know she'll be back, so you're not worried about it

So what can you do, right now.

*Have things to do. Make her (and other women) win your attention

*Stop calling her all the time. Because you have (or will have) plenty of options to choose from.

*Don't swallow any disrespect from a woman. Be willing to walk away if she shows a lack of respect.

*Never treat the woman as if she is the most important thing in your life.

And take care of yourself. Take pride in how you look and present yourself. Remember, you are the prize.

Interesting side note: Another survey (also online) mentioned that after a break-up, men are more likely to turn to drinking and dating someone else, while women usually find shopping and cleaning to be the therapy of choice.

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