Married 13 years, the husband was his female colleague vexpress, the husband took the other party to the city village small hotel

I am a city girl, her husband is a rural boy, we met in the university campus. The first time I met him was in the school cafeteria, where there were empty seats just across from him. Ask: classmate, can I have dinner with you? The husband blushed and nodded kindly. That day, I had rice covered with shredded meat in fish flavor, and he had rice covered with shredded potatoes with chili peppers. I glanced at my husband several times over dinner, but he didn't even look at me. As a beautiful woman, I'm a little frustrated.

After that, I often eat beside him, never saw him eat meat, asked: why don't you eat meat? He: I like to be a vegetarian. My husband seemed to regard me as a friend, and told me some of his experiences: his family is in the countryside, his parents are farmers, it is not easy for him to go to school, he has to save money; After he went to college, he had no friends. It was not that he did not yearn for friendship, but that many friendships needed money to accumulate. He was at his ease studying and on the basketball court.

Knowing that he loved to play basketball, I was the girl who handed him water at the basketball court. At that time, although we loved each other, but did not break the window. Graduation approaching, ask husband: Where do you plan to work after graduation? Husband: Through campus recruitment, go wherever you can. Me: When the time comes, I will apply with you. Eventually, we stayed in the city where we went to school and worked in the same company.

When we got our first month's salary, my husband came to me and asked for one thing: go shopping with me. I want to buy two dresses. Later, my husband did buy two dresses, one for my mother-in-law and one for me. I wore the dress my husband gave me for three summers. My husband confessed his love to me on my birthday the following year. Me: I've been waiting for this day for a long time. Later, we got married. Our marriage, my parents' advice: as long as you like it, we will support it. Many students' opinions: your husband's family is poor, are you ready to bear hardships with him? Me: I was ready.

Five years into our marriage, my husband quit his job to start his own company, and the year after that, I went to work for him. Now, my husband and I have been married for 13 years, our daughter is 11 years old, we have our own house and car in this city, we still live a relatively loving life.

When I returned from a visit to my mother's home with my daughter some time ago, my husband told me a story about him and a young colleague. One day after work, a young colleague invited my husband to dinner. The husband eventually took the girl to a small, unassuming restaurant and ordered two dishes of rice covered with shredded potatoes and chili peppers. Finally, the woman complained. Then, the husband took the woman to a village hotel in the city, and asked the woman and her husband to stay in a different room for a night. In the early hours of the morning, the woman was too hot and bitten by mosquitoes to leave in advance. The husband later said to the woman, "You want to replace my wife, but no one can suffer, so you'd better die."

Looking back on those hard days with my husband, I really didn't feel bitter at that time. Maybe it was because of love. I am also very glad that my husband through his years of efforts, so that I now live a comfortable life, and found that not married to material but married to love woman can be happy.

There are all kinds of people in the world, and people have different standards when choosing their marriage partners. For most of them, they choose the right marriage partners, while there are still some people who choose the right marriage partners as time goes by. Marriage is originally a big gamble, bet to win, your choice is right; You lose your bet, you have to accept divorce. As people get older, they realize that it's not just about looks and money that determines whether a relationship will last, but also about the person. Even if a person's merits are outstanding, his or her existence can be a torment to a legitimate lover if he or she is not committed to the marriage.

Some people choose to repay kindness in the process of managing marital life, some people deduce ingratitude in the process of managing marital life. Especially married to love women, once in the process of marriage to see the lover's betrayal of the marriage, for these women will be a devastating blow. In this case, there will be some women sigh: the women of the people, finally lost. Marriage, it should be said, is a prudent choice, and that includes the risk of being a bad judge. However, for these women, if they had married a rich man they did not love, at least they would not have lost too much in the divorce.

Your love affair with your husband began in college. The biggest obstacle between you and your husband is the disparity between your families. One detail: When you got married, your parents weren't exactly the perfect couple. It follows that your parents gave you less utilitarian guidance when you were growing up. So that you are not sentimental in the face of love. In the meantime, you and your husband were in an affair for a few years. It was only after you had done your job that you broke the paper. You haven't changed your liking for each other, and it seems like you're just getting married.

After you got married, you lived in a village in the city. This is when you don't feel wronged, you feel that you can be with the person you love, and the pain of life is nothing. During this period, your husband will also think you are a sensible woman, so he has always had this idea in his mind: must through his efforts, let you and your children have a house and a car life. That's why, five years into your marriage, he chose to go into business for himself. In fact, your husband, who resigned from the former unit was his pressure is very big, because his own business would be successful in his heart was not bottom, but he is willing to take a risk to you and your children happiness, and he certainly, even if he try to fail, you will not complain and leave him, at best, he is to find a job, continue to work to others.

Fortunately, your husband has a successful business. At this point, you could be a stay-at-home mom, but he respects your advice and comes to work for his company. Maybe you also have some selfishness at this time: you are worried about your husband's money going bad, and working with your husband can play a supervisory role. In the meantime, you and your husband can still get along happily. Let's be clear: your husband has only eyes for you in the realm of love, except for his career. In fact, in all these years, you didn't catch your husband cheating on you. However, that doesn't mean that a person who keeps his or her nose clean won't be caught by flies, so green tea appears when you take the kids to stay at your mother's house.

To put it bluntly, she likes your husband who is successful in his career. If your husband were just a poor boy, she might not even look at him. In this case, your husband rejected the other side by revisiting the hard days you had in those days, and at the same time, he also let the other side understand some truths: young, do not always want to use the young beauty to exchange for a free ride, because some feelings are not easily replaced. And I believe that that little girl will never think of your husband again. The only reason your husband revealed this to you was to give you a sense of security. Of course, in the future work, you do not need to deliberately suppress the little girl.

These days, there are too many women who don't have the potential to accompany a man to endure hardship, but have the idea of interfering in someone else's happy marriage. Women like this are typically money-hungry. Some of these men are so greedy for the beauty of these women that they develop romantic relationships with them in a greedy state. 1) Things like this won't be discovered by your lover; 2) There is no thought of divorcing a lover. , however, the best in the field of love or less fluky psychology, need to remind: during the original figure only you to her good women in your poor condition is willing to bear days with you, not because she deserved it, but because she loves you, once you have violated the loyalty of love, the other party is likely to change for you.

People must have conscience, no matter what two people saw in their other half when they got married, after marriage, they need to make efforts to the family life and think of the love of the lover. Need to admit that people are fickle animals, couples together for a long time will indeed appear aesthetic fatigue, but do not cross the line, the key is that divorce for children will also form harm. Instead of facing the temptation to repeat what you and your partner have already done, try to create a little romance for your married life when you are tired of your relationship. Once you lose your original happy marriage with your indiscretions, you will have a lifetime of conscience.