Marriage and love, has always been two whole, do not discuss

When many people talk about marriage, love and family, they tend to lump them together.

In fact, marriage and love cannot be confused. Marriage is life, is to pay, is dedication, is the responsibility......

Love? Love can be vigorous, can be sweet romantic, can be passionate, can be happy warm heart......

Marriage means holding your hand and growing old with you. Love can only be a day away, like three years apart.

If you have to think of marriage and love as beautiful, then you will be disappointed in marriage. Especially for women, in marriage, it is important that you don't lose yourself in the marriage, and that you don't become too dependent on your spouse. This is especially important when it comes to financial independence. If for any reason you need to give up your job to be a stay-at-home wife, you have to make it clear that your partner makes half as much as you.

Isn't that a little too realistic? Will it affect the relationship between the two? These questions are natural, but you need to be clear that this will be the basic source of your future security. In a marriage, no one knows what will happen tomorrow.

Nowadays, many women concentrate on being a stay-at-home wife after marriage for the sake of family and children. There's nothing wrong with doing what you can for your family and your children, but also for your own future. In the beginning, your partner may be apologetic that you had to give up work for the family and children. But as time goes by, he'll take you for granted.

You take care of everything around the house, and he'll take it for granted that you're not at work.

Do the same thing every day. No one cares about what you put into your life. No one pays you for your hard work. Well, is it too much to ask him for half his earnings? I hope women can love themselves in marriage, have a good mood every day, can be financially independent, do not lose themselves, do not give up their hobbies, do not forget their ideals.

Love is the element of marriage, and marriage is the continuation of love. I hope you can always keep a rational attitude in your marriage and let yourself be yourself instead of hiding in the shadow of your family. Love is the essence of marriage, which is the main sign of the progress of modern marriage. Love, as a moral consciousness, plays an important role in enriching the relationship between men and women. At the same time, husband and wife moral norms are the requirements of harmonious relationship between husband and wife in family life, which is based on love. Although marriage is born from love, more or less contradictions will inevitably occur between husband and wife in daily marriage life. Therefore, adjusting the marital relationship based on moral norms is helpful to consolidate the marital relationship and deepen the relationship between husband and wife. Furthermore, the love between husband and wife should have a certain exclusion of outsiders in essence, so the marriage relationship of monogamy is also based on love in essence. There are three possible relationships between love and marriage: first, they complement each other and are harmonious, that is, love and marriage are compatible; Second, love makes marriage deteriorate or even end, that is, love and marriage are mutually exclusive; Third, there is no definite connection between the two, which is reflected in the disconnection between love and marriage. Therefore, love does not exist only in monogamy, and monogamy does not imply the fidelity of love.