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Whether a couple or a lover, the only test of true love, look at this

Is it true that husband and wife are birds of the same forest, that they fly separately in the face of disaster

By Brandy R AshbaughPublished 3 years ago 4 min read

In this world, there are many people who say they love you, but few who really give consideration to you.

Most people are used to saying love in the mouth, encounter things are more consider themselves, weigh the pros and cons.

I have to say, now people are very realistic, say love you when the hype, but a problem can see a person's true appearance.

It has been said that relationships are the most insecure, and so are couples.

There is such a saying, all say that husband and wife are the same forest birds, the disaster of their own fly, although very realistic, but it seems that life is like this, can really consider you are rare, you are lucky to meet.

Now most of the feelings, are able to enjoy a good, not bitter, also have to accompany you to endure hardship, such as enjoy the time to abandon you.

Therefore, the true test of a relationship, is to see each other can share ups and downs, can eat the bitter, enjoy the blessing of the feelings, is the most beautiful.

Love is not poverty alleviation, but two people struggle together

In real life, there are a lot of people are holding such an idea that as long as you find a rich man, you don't have to endure hardships in the second half of your life.

So a lot of people, trying to break their heads to get into that kind of rich circle, high circle.

But look at yourself, why do you let others to help you, you don't work hard is not excellent, meet no one.

In this world, men are not stupid, he will also want their partner to be independent and excellent, have their own ability, even can help themselves.

And excellent woman, also won't go to poverty alleviation a man without ability.

In fact, a good relationship is not one party to adhere to the other party, but two people work hard together, together become better, only such feelings and marriage can stand the test of time.

Most people are realistic and think about practical things.

You are not good enough, do not work hard, want to depend on a person's life, then others are not a fool, he will have their own certain ability to judge.

Therefore, do not at any time think of relying on the other party to cling to his power, to change yourself to improve yourself.

Life is to rely on their own to be right, stepping on others, and eventually don't others pull down.

Only by their own ability, two people work together toward a goal, such feelings are the most beautiful and harmonious, each other have their own confidence, who also do not have to rely on who, look down on who, and good feelings is that two people should become good together, rather than poverty alleviation.

True feelings, is to be able to eat bitter, enjoy a blessing

I always think that a good relationship is always created by two people together.

Two people from scratch, together metamorphosis, experience together, this can withstand any test of the feelings, it is difficult to separate.

Because along the way, only each other more understand each other's experience, what to bear, good abnormal treasure.

In this world, when adversity can see a person's true appearance, and have achievements, also can see a person's true attitude.

Can withstand adversity, bear hardships of husband and wife is not what, can only say that your heart is consistent with each other, but can enjoy the blessing of feeling, is true love.

This society, some men are very realistic, may be a woman to accompany him to eat bitter, his own developed achievements, will want to meet a better person.

At this time will be around the dregs of the wife is full of disgust, some heart may give a woman a sum of money, so that she live a quality life, not suffering.

And some men are more realistic, give nothing, just throw each other away.

Therefore, the test of feelings is more to see a person's highest and lowest, a person at the highest and lowest can cherish you, such a person is worth to entrust to love.

Between feelings, everyone is very realistic, but no matter how can not be at least the conscience of life. Between husband and wife lovers can eat the bitter, enjoy the blessing, such feelings are true feelings.

Conclusion:

In this world, there are many ways to test a relationship, but adversity and happiness are the most able to see a person.

A person in the highest and lowest point of life, still have you in his heart, then his love for you is true.

For those who only eat the bitter, can not enjoy the feelings of happiness, more is a kind of consumption of the self, to recognize as early as possible, timely stop loss.

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About the Creator

Brandy R Ashbaugh

I have many stories to tell as I navigate the seas of spiritual awakening and my journey of self-realization. I just want to dedicate my life to writing, so I'm going to submit stories to as many communities as possible.

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