Love needs tolerance and understanding

Emotion is the greatest wealth God has given us to human beings. It makes us cry and laugh, appreciate the warmth and warmth of the world in joy, anger, sorrow and joy, and let us know, know and love each other, and chew the taste of life in love and hatred. But in real life, we will often get into the alley of paranoia in the request of love.

I don’t know when, people seem to be more accustomed to accepting the purity, romance and praise of love. Don’t know that there is no absolute purity in the human world, and romance never lasts, no matter how good praise it is, it will become years. lie. As a result, people become hesitant and confused, and even doubt the existence of true love.

In fact, love always exists, but most of the time our love is too idealized. Out of the pursuit of perfection, love is unconsciously locked in a narrow cage by us, and this kind of love is mostly incomplete and can only Continue in a vacuum.

If you love someone, you should love everything about him. While admiring her beautiful hair, you must be willing to tidy up her long hair that is scattered all over the ground at any time; you must feel her gentleness and kindness, and be ready to accept her teary eyes at any time. ; While intoxicating his handsome and handsome, he is willing to wash his messy clothes and stockings; while admiring his talents, he has to get used to the smoke of his work...

This is definitely not accommodation and arrogance, it is a kind of tolerance, a kind of tolerance that is willing to pay for it when the love reaches its extreme.

The ultimate of love is tolerance. Tolerance allows our love to continue in reality and setbacks, and it also allows us to share weal and woe, and never give up.

There is a saying: love Yoyo, hate Yoyo, you will stop after you love it. True love should tolerate all ugliness between each other, and can forgive each other's mistakes, unless the love is no longer.

My wife once asked me, why every time I quarrel, no matter who is right or wrong, I go to coax her first? I just smiled and did not answer, but I believe she must have read tolerance from my smile, and more from my tolerance I understand how deeply I love her.

In fact, love is not just a pale language. It should be reflected in the details of each other. I know that my wife will lose her temper from time to time to vent some of the bad emotions in her heart. She also loses her temper to me. It was definitely not because I was a little bit dissatisfied with me, but because as her dearest and loved one, I became her only choice for her vent.

Although I sometimes feel wronged by this, or even quarrel with her, every time I meditate and reflect on it, I feel that it is my duty to share her worries. Thinking of this, all my grievances will disappear in an instant.

Perhaps, in daily life, we really can’t love a person to the extreme, but as long as we love him, we should be more tolerant of him, and inject the warm current of love into his body from forgiveness to tolerance, so that he is warm, spacious and comfortable. Enjoy our love in freedom, because the ultimate love is tolerance, and the ultimate love begins with tolerance.