If You Pay, You Will Be Rewarded

An aunt who has entered the winter of her life tells the journey of her life she has taken.

When I came to earth, I was just a very ordinary girl, no matter my looks, IQ, and emotional intelligence were average, only my kindness, honesty, self-confidence, persistence, and strong personality injected the light of hope and the dream of struggle into my life.

In my youth, in the journey of chasing my dream, I will go all out and disregard everything - to study and learn, I can waste my sleep and forget to eat; to live the value of life, I will keep trying; to think of my true love, I will give everything, even with my life.

Simple, lively, curious, unsuspecting childishness, at any time, will push themselves into a horrible situation, but in the dark, there is always a magical force to push me, to help me turn the crisis into peace.

I graduated from high school that year and was assigned to a factory as a milling machine worker. Once to the mill room to sharpen the knife, due to lively and active, coupled with no sense of security, I pulled the electric switch in a moment, fingers touched the copper blade of the electric switch, "ah" sound, shocked everyone in the house, the original a powerful current like a python, from my arm to the heart and fly back to the 380-volt high-voltage grid. The trembling electric shock almost killed me, all thanks to the feet on the electricity isolated rubber shoes saved me!

Since the brush with death, I understand what is suitable for their work. So, according to my character, hobbies, and strengths, I established the goal of being a civilian employee, and through hard work to achieve it. In the process, I never doubted my ability, relying on perseverance, firm will, and unremitting efforts, I finally got what I wanted and changed my fate.

In interpersonal communication, I treated everyone equally, showing my kind, sincere and warm nature, and thus received friendly responses and help from people.

One Sunday night at 8 o'clock, I bought a pair of sneakers at the mall and was going back to the factory when I ran into the son of a teacher at the factory. He was about the same age as me, and when the young people met by chance, they naturally talked a lot. He took me to a residential house around a few corners, and at that time he aroused my interest to follow me with what topic, I don't remember.

When I entered the house, I saw some young men chatting, and I handed them my newly bought shoes, with a pure and innocent smile on my face, and said I liked the style. They also listened with interest and interjected a word or two from time to time, expressing their approval. I had no sense of precaution at that time, and if something horrible had happened, my life would have been a different version.

Fortunately, a few young people and I chatted for a while, and the teacher's son sent me out. If he hadn't sent me out, I would have gotten lost, because my sense of direction is particularly poor and is my helpless weakness.

The next day at work, I told the story to an engineer aunt, who laughed and said, "You are so bold, fortunately, the dictatorship of the proletariat has a strong fist, those people do not dare to be reckless."

Who knows? Maybe it was my unattractive appearance that did not provoke the evil of human nature; maybe it was my innocence and goodness that gave me a protective label; maybe it was my destiny that the people I met were good.

At the end of the eighties, I worked in the municipal government department, a colleague to study abroad, asked me to the notary to do her guarantee, at that time I did not know the great relationship between the guarantee, though it is not just a signature, to fulfill the good things of others? So I readily agreed. Fortunately, this colleague went back to work in her home country after obtaining her master's degree and did not violate any rules abroad.

It was only much later that I figured out from other people's talk that the guarantor has to assume responsibility for all the activities of the guarantor from the date of the guarantee, and who can predict the variables of this? When I was a guarantor, I was fearless because I was ignorant. Fortunately, God let me meet all the good people.

Looking back on my experience years later, although unresolved, I have learned the truth: do well for yourself and the sky will help you.

In the pursuit of marriage, I do not care about the family, nor do I pay attention to appearance and temperament, but only long for two people of the same mind, and the piano and the music. However, reality has slapped me in the face! Because everyone's way of thinking and personality can not be the same, whether aesthetics, values, or habits, there are great differences. The person you like, he may not like you, and the person who likes you, you may not like him.

What "flowers bloom, butterflies return", this is only the logic of mortal imagination marriage. The butterflies that fly away do not necessarily come back, and the butterflies that fly in, the flowers do not necessarily like. Because some butterflies and flowers' preconceived thoughts are eternal, not to mention that butterflies and flowers have their selection criteria?

Life is very realistic, a person in the choice of marriage object, there are conditions to choose the door to the right, or try to choose the door to the right. Because of the environment and education of the family of origin, the growth of a person's insight, thinking, personality, and temperament is very influential. The marriage of the right family can relatively reduce the conflict in the future relationship between the couple.

Of course, the world is not the same for two people, there is no perfect marriage, if you want to reap the benefits of family happiness, the couple needs emotional communication, mutual tolerance, and attentive management.

An individual, know how to adjust their own emotions, adjust their mindset, face the reality, fearless of sudden changes in the love scene, and step by step walk their life path.

I have not met true love, I have not been able to enjoy the romance of "birdie" regret. I realized that every time I can safely get out of the emotional misunderstanding, is their goodness and truthfulness, the care of the heavens, God does not want to see the weak and heavy love me, in the acquisition of self-righteous true love, lose themselves, hurt themselves. So, he protected the ignorant, infatuated, and persistent me with imperfect bestowal.

I also learned that no matter which husband fate had arranged for me, eventually I would enter the mode of existence without having to depend on others. It's not that I was too willful, but reading and studying taught me to understand myself properly, accept myself, and improve my ability to adapt to changes in my environment and enrich my self-sufficiency.

Looking back, I am finally relieved that I did not meet my true love - once upon a time, once upon a dream, now the journey is enlightened. I look back and smile to continue the journey, no regrets in life dream travel.

Life experience tells me that the road I have traveled, the people I have met, and the taste I have tasted are all just the right arrangements from heaven.

Destiny, destiny, but good deeds, do not ask the future, as long as you pay, there will be a return.