If You Already Know
By the way, this is inspired by true events (with names and dates obscured like always). Please do not harass anyone alluded to, should you manage to uncover them.
I doubt you’ll ever read this. On the small twinge of a chance that you do, I doubt you’ll even figure out it’s related to you, let alone who’s who. However, I still wish to get my thoughts out a bit.
First of all, this only applies to you if you already know the true extent of what that popular friend of yours in your publishing spaces has done to me.
If you don’t, you’re probably better just clicking off right now and enjoying your time doing something more fulfilling for you. I’m not entirely sure what that could be — not that it’s any of my business — but I’m sure you’d much prefer doing it right now than reading about some random girl you hardly know nowadays. For the rest of this article, I will assume you know the truth.
Anyways, I know you’re very successful in the industry right now. Given the quality of your work, I feel like and hope that your success will go up as you desire — especially given the hell you’ve been through for years. Obviously this doesn’t mean wishing you get away with heinous deeds if you ever end up guilty of those, but you don’t really seem like the kind of person to do so.
With that being said, I’m also aware that you owe a good chunk of your success to the support of, well, your sector connections. In particular, your high-ranking ones are definitely not the kinds you would want to lose unless extreme circumstances occurred (and by extreme, I mean criminal or near-criminal). I have reason to suspect they also include the friend I’m talking about.
I mean, he’s in charge of several major productions right now — some of which you either have starred in or are starring in right now. And it’s not just you who’s in them, either, when it comes to those from your division’s upper echelons. Your other friends, at least a few of which also owe part of their recoveries to him, are also major talents in his shows.
Given how long you’ve been in this particular industry, I feel like you already know what happens to people who double-cross the big guys. They get blacklisted. Exiled. Their sources of fortune crumble — which, if they haven’t built up both a solid ego and network elsewhere, could end up being irreplaceable in some of the worst ways possible.
In extreme cases, some of the most unfortunate targets get mocked for years. They fear for their lives and safety, running to and from in hopes of getting away from the circles which resent them. At one point, one of those dart boards was you — a position which you’ve worked hard to escape from. I can’t imagine you wishing for it to happen again.
Honestly, I don’t think you’ll ever go through the same pain you went through all those years ago once more — should this timeline play out with solid logic, of course. You’re noteworthy, your work is valuable to the productions you’re in, and you have the charisma required to survive attempts at tanking you.
It is also a pretty commonly known fact that you’ve been victimized multiple times in the past in some horrendous ways. How else would I have found out about it? This, however, I feel could be a double edged sword.
On one hand, your section of the industry does theoretically consider it especially scummy to go after someone who’s already been traumatized or victimized before. In practice, this typically applies to people who are A: in its high ranks and B: who haven’t done anything too far out there. That friend of yours who went for my name took advantage of that factor and won.
On the other….it’s not like those in power are completely immune from the consequences of their actions, either.
I’ve heard the campfire stories of the notable secretary girl who went mad from her trauma and made her friends and colleagues suffer as a result. It didn’t even take much to convict her at first — although she had surely made her bed by then. She was also once friends with that now prestigious friend of yours, and they fell out pretty badly. I don’t want that to be you.
So please, don’t get yourself into trouble just because you wish to defend someone like me: powerless within the division, poorly connected, and not the greatest at initially helping their case.
Because I know — I know — that if that friend of yours ever wanted to break you…he absolutely could.
Wishing you well.
Sincerely,
SnarkyLisa
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Snarky Lisa
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Comments (4)
Covers so many people that this could be a yo e any where at anytime. Therefore the reverence of this piece will not and should not go away. Congratulations
This is such a raw and reflective piece. I admire your courage in speaking your truth, even in such a nuanced and complicated situation.
Somebody on Vocal liked it enough to give it a Top Story, and that is why I saw it. A lot to think about in this epistle
Medium version, by the way: https://medium.com/@SnarkyLisa/if-you-already-know-3917d857ebe4