I Love You Because You Drive Away From My Loneliness

Under these circumstances, a relationship becomes the best and safest way to heal yourself from loneliness. I started a relationship because I was too lonely. If a relationship in which friendship, availability, and a great desire to love can be called a compromise, then we have made a great compromise in front of our person.

I have never thought that love is a feeling that can be understood and dissected to the absolute. Or that among the thousands of reasons why people love, there is one that best explains why people love.

But I think most people love to be loved. And that the biggest mistake people make in a relationship is to look for the other person's key to their happiness. A mistake I fell into too…

I have always believed instead that true love does not fall from the sky or that it is given by who knows what unknown forces. Oh, my bad mouths have often contradicted me.

You just have to be more discriminating with the help you render toward other people. I didn't wait… Doesn't true love come along, does it not get, and is it built ?, I said to myself.

In reality, love between two people is never equal. "One always loves the other more and the other always leaves himself more loved than he loves, and if to the one who loves less would not appear as compensation precisely this joy of constantly looking at the one who loves you, then n- there would still be a balance between them and everything would be ruined ".

If I hadn't lived the words described on my skin, I might not have understood their meaning and depth.

The myth that has been created around today's woman is tiring. The modern woman, the independent woman is a strong woman, able to take care of herself.

Do not let it be knocked down by one or two. She is happy and feels good in her skin. He does not accept half-measures and does not allow himself to compromise. She can't afford to be weak. Not even in love… But loneliness is not good for anyone. When you are pushed back by loneliness, when the nights seem too long and stressful for you to live alone, when you live acutely the feeling that your life is colorless and meaningless, well… then no more don't wait at all.

The strong woman also has her weaknesses. And she sets out on her own in search of happiness, hoping that she will come face to face with love. And she has the right to make mistakes…

Of course, sometimes we need loneliness to understand ourselves. But when we have too much love to share, loneliness ceases to be an excellent opportunity for self-knowledge and investigation of the inner depths.

Under these circumstances, a relationship becomes the best and safest way to heal yourself from loneliness. I started a relationship because I was too lonely. If a relationship in which friendship, availability, and a great desire to love can be called a compromise, then we have made a great compromise in front of our person.

I also knew that such a relationship could only be temporary and that the chances of it turning into true love were almost nil. Such a relationship is like a double-edged sword. It promises solace and self-satisfaction, but it reveals the most primitive and unintegrated emotions.

It promises pleasant company, but it puts you in a position to face seemingly irreconcilable differences. He promises to change your loneliness, but he opens the door to even greater loneliness. Like any medicine that guarantees relief, love born of loneliness also has side effects.

When you truly love, you tend to interpret the other's flaws as virtues. It is easier to get over the other person's mistakes and you are not afraid to make mistakes. He forgives faster. Divergences and conflicts often have a way back. For all, sooner or later, there is a solution. Instead, in a relationship born of loneliness, without realizing it, you try to shape the other.

You want to make it fit the pattern of the man you have always dreamed of and this causes suffering, frustration, and dissatisfaction on both sides. You tend to feel responsible for your partner's sadness, fear, and anger. Sometimes you have the feeling that what you feel for him is love, other times you want something completely different from your whole soul, you dream of another type of love.

Sometimes you miss him and most of the time you feel lost without him. You feel confused because you do not know exactly if you are trapped in true love or a sham of it. You doubt, you tend to victimize yourself and you develop unfounded fantasies about the future. You struggle between yes and no…

You struggle between yes and no… You suffer without knowing exactly why. And you don't know if your life story is about love from loneliness or about loneliness from love …