I Hit My Husband During An Argument (I Lost My Temper With My Husband And Hit Him)
Are you thinking I hit my husband during an argument and you want to fix it as soon as possible? If you love your husband then you truly need to fix your marriage and get it back on track. If you're in a situation where you're saying I lost my temper with my husband and hit him, then you'll want to read every word of this article.
Couples have fights all the time. You argue, disagree, and annoy each other. When you fight, it's never a pleasant scenario and one of you suffers more than the other. Holding on to a grudge or sticking with your ego can be detrimental to your marriage. Often, marriages turn sour when petty arguments lead to big fights. The sooner you fix the problem, the better, so you can enjoy a loving marriage more, rather than a hostile one.
Sometimes, one or both parties are at fault. Be the better person and be the one to apologize first. However, for a lot of people, saying the words "I'm Sorry" can be difficult. So for those of you who want to apologize without having to actually say you're sorry, here are five unique ways to apologize that will surely make your husband forgive you in no time.
1) Write the words "I'm Sorry" on a bright yellow post it and stick it everywhere - on the refrigerator door, on the screen of your husband's laptop, on his car door, inside his bag, on a notebook-absolutely anywhere and everywhere where your husband can see it. It's funny and it shows that you want to be forgiven as soon as possible.
2) Ask a four year old kid-be it your own child or a nephew, or a neighbor, to bring your husband a huge cardboard, saying how sorry you are. No one can resist the charms of a little angel. It's sweet and funny, at the same time.
3) Do the household chores. When you get back from work, clean the house, wash the dishes, mop the floor and wash the laundry. You're telling your husband that you're making sacrifices just so he can forgive you.
4) Buy or bake a cake with the words "I'm Sorry" as frosting and have it delivered to your husband's workplace. His coworkers will surely notice the gesture and this show of love will make him feel how important he is. It shows that you're not embarrassed to show your affection.
5) Leave work early and set up an indoor picnic at home. When your husband opens the door, he will be surprised, knowing that you made a big effort to ask for his forgiveness. You're telling him that he's the most important thing in the world, and that he's your first priority.
Gestures like these may be small, but the effort and the thought you place in executing them is the most important thing. When you take time to show your husband that he is important to you, especially after a fight, those petty arguments and disagreements will surely be an issue that will easily be resolved.
How to Deal With Marriage Issues
Nobody likes to argue or be in conflict with a loved, but you have to face up to the fact that you are two separate individuals, each with your own needs and opinions, and like it or not, sometimes those needs and opinions will clash. So, how to deal with marriage issues? Do you shout and scream and let of steam for a few seconds meaningless gratification which really gets you nowhere? Or do you try a different route.
I guess the first lesson is never to treat conflict as something bad, something to be hidden away and never allowed to surface. If there are issues within the marriage and you are not communicating them with each other then they will fester and could destroy your marriage. An argument, whilst not pleasant at highlights issues that you had been avoiding and forces you to confront them, and deal with them. I wonder just how much emotional pain and turmoil is all due to couples not communicating with each other?
If you are going to deal with marriage issues you need to be rational, O.K so that could be easier said than done but if you are trying to solve a problem, how will that be achieved by ranting and raving. You need to be totally honest with each other, you only hurt yourselves if you are not. Do not just look at things from your personal perspective, try and look at things from your husband's perspective as well, how are you going to understand the problem and resolve it if you do not understand all the sides to it?
I am going to assume that you and your husband are not psychic, that being the case, how are you going to know what your husband is feeling or thinking if you do not communicate? If you do have something that you need to tell your husband then tell him straight, do not come up with an unspecific, vague, hazy thought which could be translated in any number of ways. It is up to both of you to communicate with each other, it should not be difficult, after all, your husband is your best friend as well as your lover and if you are unable to confide in your best friend then who can you turn to? When you are discussing relationship concerns with your husband, do not forget to listen to what he's saying, if there is something that you are not too sure about then clarify it by asking something like, so what I understood you to say was...
You have to become each others unconditional, unswerving pillar of support. You need to be there for your husband, whatever the situation just as he has to be there for you. This commitment is for the both the good times and the bad. If you stick together during the bad times, helping and supporting each other then your marriage is likely to go from strength to strength. If you make a mistake or if you say something hurtful in the heat of the moment then apologize. Sorry is a very powerful word, and so long as it is meant sincerely then it will go a long way to healing any rifts. And it is never a bad thing to show that you are big enough to take responsibility for your actions.
It is unrealistic to expect your husband to do what you want every time making those demands will weaken your marriage. If there is an issue on which you have opposing viewpoints then find a compromise or find a way to work around the issue. There may come a point where it is impossible to reach a compromise, about the only thing that you can do then is to agree to disagree and try to draw a line under it.
As every marriage has its own unique dynamic it is difficult to say, this is how to deal with marriage issues. The basics are simple, never stop communicating with each other, respect the differences in each other and look at how your actions impact, not just on you but your marriage. Whatever your situation, I hope that things work out well for you.
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