How to Have Threesomes with Your Girlfriend

When it comes to women, there are an infinite number of things that go through a man’s head. It’s pretty clear how men adore women and the numerous fantasies that go through their heads are enough proof of that. Some of these fantasies may never come to fruition while some may be within reach.

One of the most erotic ones that almost every man would kill for is having a threesome. The thought of pleasuring two gorgeous women at the same time is enough to drive any man wild with lust. Lucky for you if your girlfriend is open minded enough to even consider it because for it to work, it will require the both of you.

So how exactly do you and your girlfriend get on the same page and add on that extra sauce to your relationship?

Open Communication

Have a sit down and talk it through. It has been said time and again that communication is the key to any lasting relationship. The same goes for any successful threesome. How does she feel about it? It is one of her fantasies too? Does she ever think about other women? Has the thought of a threesome ever crossed her mind? Does she feel comfortable discussing her attraction to other women with you?

No Judgment

Women have a great fear of being judged especially by their loved ones therefore, make sure that you don’t show any form of judgment when she opens up to you about her fantasies. Allow her to be free and express herself as she sees fit. Even if you don’t verbally express your slut-shaming, it can easily be detectable from your non-verbal cues. Be supportive when she is being vulnerable and she will do the same for you.

Solid Relationship

A threesome should never be used as a way to mend a broken relationship. In fact, it will make things even worse because the only thing that will be on your girlfriend’s mind is whether you are going to leave her for the other girl. She will be filled with feelings of inadequacy. Before you decide to introduce a third party in your bed, make sure your relationship is rock-solid. Tell her how much you love her and she is the only one you want to spend your life with. There should be no unresolved issues in your relationship especially if they concern your attraction to other people.

Let Her Choose

The foundation of a successful and satisfactory threesome with your girlfriend is letting her choose a third party she is comfortable with. For a guy it is no problem, as long as it is a beautiful lady then all is good. For your girlfriend, it will be more than that. You are introducing a foreigner into your intimate lives therefore, let her take charge of the selection. It will make her feel included and be more receptive about the ordeal. She will know that you put her feelings first and you are not in any way planning to replace her. It may even strengthen her trust in you.

Remember, no matter how much your want to fulfill your fantasy, your girlfriend and relationship come first. If you sense any sign of discomfort from your better half, you should call it off or at least take a break and find out where the problem is. Don’t go through it at the expense of her feelings.

The main aim of this practice is to spice up and strengthen your relationship. It is not a free pass for you to cheat guilt-free. Even though you will have two beautiful women in your bed, your girlfriend has to feel like the prettiest girl in the world. She always comes first.