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How to Get a Guy to Notice You: The Simple Guide to Getting the One You Like

Getting a guy to notice you can be challenging if you are shy and unsure of yourself. If you’re too nervous to approach him, getting his attention might seem even more difficult.

By valerie St MarthePublished 3 years ago 4 min read

But there are ways around it. In this article, we will get you ready to win his heart in no time by telling you everything you need to know about getting a guy to notice you.

Make a plan

It’s easy to get caught up in the moment, especially when you like someone. But before you decide how you’re going to make your approach, make a plan. Before you think about leaving a note or sending him a message, make a plan. Before you think about being direct, make a plan. Before you think about wearing a certain outfit, make a plan. Your plan should include what you’re going to say, how you’re going to say it, and when you should execute it. Make sure to consider the following points when making your plan: - Your strengths and weaknesses - How he will react - His strengths and weaknesses - Location

Don’t wait for him to get the hint

If you’re waiting for him to get the hint, you’re going to be waiting a long time. Not everyone is intuitive and they might not be able to read your mind, even if they want to. You might find yourself waiting forever to initiate contact. You might think you’re saving him the trouble of having to ask you out. But in reality, you’re just making him feel like he can’t approach you. As long as you make sure that you aren’t crossing any boundaries and you’re not being too aggressive, you should be confident enough to approach him first.

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Be confident and be yourself

It can be tempting to morph into someone else when you’re trying to get a guy to notice you, but you have to remember to be yourself. If you feel like you have to change who you are just to make him notice you, you’re going to regret it in the long run. Most guys value confidence, but only if it’s genuine. So if you approach him with a ton of confidence but it doesn’t come naturally, he’s going to see straight through you. Instead, you’re going to come across as awkward and try hard, which can be just as bad as being too shy. Don’t be afraid to be yourself and show who you really are. If he really likes you, he’ll like the real you. He won’t want you to be someone else just to impress him.

Look your best

It doesn’t matter if you have a great personality, have a killer sense of humor, and have a ton of interesting things to say if you don’t have anything to back it up. You have to look your best so that you can let your personality shine through. It’s the only way to attract him. That doesn’t mean you should dress in revealing clothing and apply tons of makeup. You don’t want to be too obvious. But you should look polished, clean, and put-together. When it comes to your style, think about what you’re naturally drawn to. Do you gravitate towards edgy clothing or more feminine pieces? Do you prefer darker tones or lighter ones? Focus on building your wardrobe around your preferences so you can show off your best side.

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Don’t be afraid to talk to him initially

Some people are naturally outgoing and confident, and some people are naturally introverted and shy. If you’re more shy, it might be easy for you to tell yourself that you can’t talk to him because you don’t know what to say. But it’s a lot easier than you think. Before you initiate a conversation, make sure you have a few topics in mind that you’re confident enough to talk about. There are tons of topics you can talk about ranging from pop culture to current events, but only choose a few that you’re comfortable with. You don’t want to come off as trying too hard if you’re bringing up everything, and you don’t want to appear boring if you’re only bringing up one thing.

Remember: Guys can be dumb, so don’t take it personally

Getting a guy to notice you can be frustrating, especially when he doesn’t respond the way you want him to. It can be tempting to get angry and want to give up, but don’t let it get to you. This is especially true if you’re trying to get a guy to like you who already has a crush on you or already likes you. There’s a chance that he may not be doing anything because he likes you, but because he’s too dumb to realize it. He may be too nervous to approach you or he may be too shy to make the first move. He might be too caught up in his own thoughts to even notice you. There’s a chance that he’s oblivious to your feelings, too. He may not even realize that you like him, too. Guys can be oblivious to everything sometimes. So don’t take it personally if he doesn’t respond the way you want him to.

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Conclusion

Getting a guy to notice you can be challenging, but it’s not impossible. You just have to be confident, be yourself, and put in a little bit of effort. Approach him first, especially if he’s someone you like. But don’t wait for him to make the first move. And don’t be afraid to talk to him initially, either. Make sure you look your best and remember that guys can be dumb, so don’t take it personally if he doesn’t respond the way you want him to.

Much Love, Val

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