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How to Find Your Soulmate: A Few Tips from the Experts

Your parents have set you up, your friends keep introducing you to people and even dating apps seem to have a new match for you every day. But still, the search for your soulmate continues. Love is tricky and no one knows that better than the experts.

By Jayson EtiennePublished 3 years ago 5 min read
How to Find Your Soulmate: A Few Tips from the Experts
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Your parents have set you up, your friends keep introducing you to people and even dating apps seem to have a new match for you every day. But still, the search for your soulmate continues. Love is tricky and no one knows that better than the experts. If a relationship expert tells us that we need to meet more people and an astrologer tells us about our zodiac sign and compatibility with others, then it’s time to listen to them seriously. If love is a journey which begins with a first sight, then finding your soulmate is like looking for the right exit on this highway of love. It’ll be difficult but definitely worth it when you find someone who complements you perfectly. Here are some tips from the pros on how to find your soulmate:

Meet more people

You’ve been meeting people all your life, so when will you find the right one? It’s just a matter of meeting the right people at the right time. What if you meet an incompatible person and get stuck with them for life? Well, for starters, make sure you meet as many people as you can. Meet friends of your friends, colleagues from other departments and people from different backgrounds. Meeting people from different backgrounds will help you find someone compatible with you in multiple ways. You can also meet people offline. Engaging in activities like sports or social groups help you meet more people. Once you’ve met a few people, you might want to think about how you want to approach finding a relationship. Do you want to find someone immediately or wait for the right person to come along? If you’re looking for something serious, it’s best to wait for the right person to come along. If you want to find a relationship as soon as possible, then you may want to take a more active approach.

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Stay out of your comfort zone

Now you’ve met a bunch of people and even gone on a few dates, it’s time to step out of your comfort zone. You may have fallen for someone after the first date and even have started to imagine a future with them. But is he/she the one for you? You know, the person you’ve been waiting for your whole life? That’s probably true, but you have to step out of your comfort zone to get to that level. You need to go out with more people than just one person. You need to know for yourself whether you really want to be with that person or not. A relationship expert says, “If you find yourself telling someone that you are interested in them because you feel that you should be with them, then you are probably dating the wrong person.” Being in a relationship is like going to school. You want to learn as much as you can. Dating different people will give you a chance to understand yourself better as well as your compatibility with others. Dating multiple people is a great way to practice and get closer to finding the right person. And once you do find that special person, you’ll know it because you’ll have a feeling like nothing else.

Go on dates with everyone you’re interested in

This may sound a bit extreme but it could be worth it. While it’s important to stay in your comfort zone, it’s also important to push yourself out of that zone and see how you deal with new situations. Dating different people will help you understand what you want in a relationship and what you don’t want. It won’t just help you find your soulmate, but it will help you understand yourself and your likes and dislikes better. Dating multiple people will give you a better idea of what you’re looking for in a relationship. For example, if you date two people who you really like, but they’re not interested in you, that’s going to tell you something. You may want to date more people or keep dating the person you’ve been seeing because you know they’re interested in you. Dating multiple people can help you make a better decision.

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Stop judging by appearances

You think you’ve found the right person only to find that he or she is not good-looking. The only thing you have to say about this is that love is blind. While physical attraction is important in a relationship, it is not everything. Physical attraction is a combination of many different factors and only a few of them have to do with the way someone looks. Physical attraction is based on things like the pheromones we give off, the scents we smell, and our body language. There are also things like sociocultural factors that play a part in attraction like the way someone dresses and their level of education. You may want to find a person who is intelligent, has a good sense of humor, and communicates well. Those are all things that have nothing to do with physical attraction. So don’t let the appearance of a person limit your search for a soulmate.

Don’t be afraid to show your real self

You’ve met a bunch of people, you’ve stayed out of your comfort zone, and you’ve stopped judging by appearances. You feel like you’ve found the right person, but he/she doesn’t seem interested in you. It’s not always easy to find the right person and sometimes you may have to settle for someone who doesn’t fully appreciate you. But don’t settle for someone who doesn’t appreciate you for who you are. Being yourself from the very beginning is key to finding your soulmate. If you try to be someone you’re not, you’re not giving the other person a chance to really get to know you. And if they don’t get to know you, they may never appreciate you for who you really are. Being yourself from the beginning will not only help you find your soulmate, but it will also help you with self-esteem and confidence. You can’t expect someone to like you if you don’t even like yourself. You have to be comfortable with yourself before you can be comfortable with someone else.

Conclusion

Finding your soulmate is a difficult journey, but it is definitely worth it once you find that special someone. Meeting more people, staying out of your comfort zone, dating multiple people, and not being afraid to show your real self will help you find the right person for you.

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