How Loss of My Son Has Changed Perspective on Life – Francis Duru

Last year, Nollywood actor Francis Duru suffered the heartbreaking loss of his son who was only 15 years old at the time of his death. It is an unimaginable loss for any parent, and at the time, friends and fans alike sent condolences to the beloved actor. Now, during a new interview with Punch, Francis Duru is speaking about how the loss of his son has completely changed his perspective on life. Here is what the actor had to say about that amongst other things.

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Speaking first about what he believes is the secret to his marriage lasting for over 20 years, Francis Duru opened up saying:

FRANCIS DURU: I met my wife in school. She was a fresher (100 level student) while I was graduating from Uniport. We were friends till we got married; there was no pressure. Marriage comes with a grace, and when a man feels he is ready, he should pray for that grace.

However, people are not taking into cognisance that there so many celebrity marriages that are flourishing. They only see the ones that are breaking, and that is a disservice to the creative industry. We need a balance.

Then when asked "You lost your son last year. How did that moment shape your outlook on life?" Francis responded saying:

FRANCIS DURU: It has deepened my perspective and outlook on life. It made me understand that I am just a mere custodian and caretaker for my family. They all belong to God. But in the midst of the loss, my faith in God and my love for Him never dropped. Rather, it was amplified. On the next day after he was buried, I conducted a service in church because I needed to prove to God that He remains the creator.

The next week, we had youth’s week in church, and I tried to look for him among the audience, then I remembered he was in a better place. It was a grieving time for my family, but we have taken it one step at a time, knowing that we serve a God who comforts us.

Finally, he was asked after such a tragedy, "How do you keep the spark alive in your family?" to which Francis Duru said:

FRANCIS DURU: I strive to make sure everyone is on course by giving my best time and effort. As the head of the family, one is a priest, caretaker and provider. One has to live up to the responsibilities, knowing that each time one is not there, things could go wrong.

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