How Kiev Women Perceive Foreign Men
Currently, international matchmaking and tourism is booming in Kiev.

The City of Brides is no stranger to visitors from faraway places, and neither are its people.
Historically, there have been foreigners, expats, tourists, travelers - all types of different people going in and out of this land for all kinds of purposes, but one main purpose stands out among the rest, and this is why the region has earned itself the moniker it has today.
The Ukrainian city of Kiev, along with its surrounding regions, has been internationally recognized as being one of the most desirable dating destinations in all of Eastern Europe - if not the whole world. For this very reason, thousands of foreign men flock to these regions in search of a love interest, a life partner, or a soul mate.
Kiev is a beautiful city with sleek, urbanized city planning and a rich cultural history that tells the story of a diverse population’s political past and societal infrastructure - one that defines the city’s unique brand of excellence in the world’s eye.
Aside from this, you probably already know that there’s an extreme abundance of women in Ukraine. In fact, women severely outnumber men with eighty-six males for every one hundred females in the Ukrainian population as of last year - and the gap’s disparity has been even larger in earlier decades.
So there’s a large number of younger women in these cities, and many of them are of marrying or birth-giving age - and on top of that, many of them are extremely attractive in their natural beauty and simply drop-dead gorgeous in full makeup, plus many of them are single and looking for a foreign partner due to the shortage of men in their country.
How can you beat that? You’re not alone if you think it’s too good to be true, but it is.
A complex web of past events, immense societal change, and online dating culture had to happen to give rise to the phenomenon that is the modern City of Brides.
Today, the pursuit of foreign love is among the strongest driving forces of tourism in the nation. The locals are well aware of this dynamic, and they have their own opinions towards it as well. Currently, international matchmaking and tourism is booming in Kiev.
If you’re among the many foreigners in the City of Brides looking for the love of your life, here’s a few things you should know about Kiev women’s perception towards foreign men.
They already have an idea of what you’re looking for before you even ask
It’s never polite to make assumptions, but when a dynamic goes on for so long, it gets culturally ingrained in its population.
Whether you’re in town for a business trip, to meet a family member, or simply on vacation, usually the idea will still be at the back of their minds when you first approach these women - particularly if you’re a foreigner.
It’s comparable to seeing a Jehova’s witness or a girl scout approaching your front door, or being a costumed mascot at Disneyland seeing a kid run up to you. That kid is in Disneyland for a reason (or approaching your door for a reason), and everyone who’s involved knows that.
Similarly, many foreigners are in the City of Brides for a reason, and the women know that.

Lots of these girls have grown up in these cities and have seen the dynamic play out before their very eyes, ever since they were young kids.
However, that’s okay because…
They usually respond well to friendly foreigners approaching them, and many of them tend to want exactly what you want as well
Just because they know what you’re in town for doesn’t mean they don’t want the same thing.
Like we said earlier, it’s not polite to assume, and it would be unwise to assume that every Kiev girl wants to get with you just because you’re a foreigner, but just keep that potential dynamic in mind while meeting new women in Kiev.
Unlike in other Western nations, there’s not that much negative stigma towards striking up friendly conversations in public with a random, attractive stranger (as long as you’re polite and non-sleazy about it).
Sooner or later you’ll realize which women share your sentiments. Be smooth with it - ease into that conversation playfully and gently. Eventually, you’ll hit your mark.
Many of them see foreign men as charming, gentlemanly, and desirable
Unfortunately, some of the local Ukrainian men in the country give the whole group a bad rep, as some Kiev girls tend to refer to their local men as being abusive, alcoholic, misogynistic, unproductive, untidy, or unattractive, which is obviously not true for the entirety, but is a common sentiment among some Ukrainian females towards their own male counterparts - to which we pass no judgement whatsoever.
Conversely, they tend to see Westerners as polite, attractive, and desirable for their ability to fulfill their wants and needs so genuinely.
Again, this does not speak for all of them. But it’s an observable factor that can’t be ignored.
Also...
They tend to see foreign men as attractive providers and worthy fathers to their children
Many Ukrainian women tend to have a preference for foreign men due to the stability they provide, the love and affection they give them, and the opportunities they open up for them to be able to turn a new chapter in their lives and complete the family dynamic that is so important in their culture - overseas with their new lover where the grass is greener.
This is why many Ukrainian women are looking for foreign husbands through international matchmaking agencies and online dating sites that pair them up with potential foreign love interests, and it’s also the reason behind their eagerness to meet and potentially date a Westerner who visits them in person, in their hometown.
This dynamic has given rise to the countless men in the West (and the large number of women in Kiev) gravitating towards online dating to meet each other, as well as the influx of tourism in Ukrainian cities.

We’ll conclude by saying that not all Ukrainian men are as bad as their women say they are, not all foreigners are in town for a love excursion, and not all Ukrainian girls are madly obsessed with Western guys. Not everything is the way it seems.
But when the majority speaks, there’s just some things you can’t deny. And that’s valuable insight right there.
Good luck to everyone and anyone seeking love in the City of Brides!

About the Creator
Vera Tischenko
Dating Coach and Professional Matchmaker for Kiev Women


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