Hate a person, there is no need to fall out

In life, we will more or less meet some of their hate or look at the wrong people.

In the face of these people, most of the time we will choose to turn a blind eye and try to do not to cross paths with each other.

As the saying goes: "not bothered by the eye", for their dislike of people, keeping the appropriate distance, do not bother not to contact is the best way to get along.

But there are always some people you do not want to provoke, but he wants to provoke you, you do not want to get too close to him, he pretends to be a very good relationship with you.

Recently, a friend also sent a message to ask me: hate a person how to do, do not want to cross paths with each other, but can not avoid the head to see.

The friend said that the person she hates is one of her roommates. The roommate is a special love to take advantage of the small, selfish, self-interested, will only value their interests, never consider the feelings of others.

A dormitory of eight people, is already very crowded, plus the girls have more things, many of the areas that we share are occupied by her, and others are only a few complaints behind the scenes.

But what is annoying is that she occupies the common area alone, even if she sees that other people's lockers are empty, she will take the opportunity to put their things in, without any regard for the feelings of others.

In addition, this roommate of a friend's monthly living expenses are mostly used to love to dress up, in terms of food to save, this is originally her business, and friends and other roommates do not want to care.

But the annoying thing is that she does not want to spend money on food, every day is to deal with a little, and then see the other roommates buy food to dawdle.

The other roommates who bought food will more or less share with others, but this roommate every time eating alone, and never share with other roommates.

The company's main goal is to provide the best possible service to its customers.

In time, not only did her friends deliberately distance themselves from her, but other roommates were also reluctant to interact with her.

I have to say, such people can be found everywhere around us.

It's not a good idea to ask and suggest to others, but never to think differently. Ask others to respect her, but never respect others.

Imagine, how can a person like this not let people hate it? Perhaps many people will say, hate a person to turn the other cheek, without regard for the emotions.

But in fact, the experience of more will understand, no matter where you are, no matter what kind of people you get along with, you will always meet some annoying people.

If you meet someone you hate, you have to tear your face off, then you have to spend how much time and energy?

Seriously, hate a person, there is no need to fall out.

As the old saying goes, "Different paths, not for each other."

When you meet someone you hate, you don't need to be tit-for-tat everywhere, perhaps to show off for a while, so that you feel good, but after thinking about it, the loss is still their own, not only ruined mood, but also gas bad body.

When you meet someone you hate, learn to get along with them in a way that is not too far away, and don't tear your face off until you have to, lest you get annoyed with them.

The actual people who encounter the nasty people, look at it lightly, not to be calculating, trying to make their emotions not swayed, the mood is not affected.

When you meet someone you hate, you can do it, you can't do it, and try not to fall out, each goes their way, and each lives their own life.

Haruki Murakami once said, "Not all the fish, will live in the same sea."

The same is true between people, only those who see eye to eye with each other can continue to interact, and for those who do not get along, there is no need to force.