Good People Give You Happiness, Bad People, Lessons

Not all social relationships in life are perfect. Knowing how to differentiate between positive and negative ones is essential to move forward. We help you with it.

I wish there was a thermometer of goodness and another of evil. I wish we could detect egoism at the moment it begins to be present. And I wish we could use these measurements to make good decisions about the people around us and always choose good people.

However, as this is not possible, we must always stay with the happiness and teachings that good people bring us, and the lessons that those who at some point have behaved in bad ways bring us.

Because if there is one thing that is clear, it is that no one is bad or good in its entirety, but that we all sometimes make mistakes when choosing how to behave or what feeling we prioritize in our relationships.

"However, every incident and every person who comes into our lives will have the ability to teach us what we need to know, even if it is not what we expect."

To those who make us grow: smiles

Good people are those who smell of nobility, humility and sincere looks. They are those people who recompose us with their smiles. They do not abound, but with their beautiful heart, they flood everything.

To good people, we must offer reciprocity, attention and affection, because thanks to their winks we fill our lives and our day to day with frankness and empathy, indispensable pillars to be happy or feel good.

"There are people, some people, very few, who when they smile their faces are filled with an absence of malice that is not adult. Of an expression of kindness that disarms. To the people who happen to that, who when they smile leads you to misstep, well-being and immediate attachment, you give them the soul because they can with you".

To those who cause us discomfort: farewells

There are also those people who have dyed the relationships we had with them with selfishness and, sometimes, evil (interests, offences, criticism, disappointments, etc.). These are the people who teach us the importance of going through life leaving a mark and not scars.

Be that as it may, bad experiences are a reality with which we have to try to coexist and from which we have to try to extract life lessons that help us to travel our journey.

There is no point in writing in pain, ruminating endlessly on what we could have predicted but did not see or did not want to believe. Therefore, when a situation that derives from a relationship or a negative exchange generates discomfort, instead of dramatizing it is better that we take it as learning.

"In this sense, we must explore a little the idea that facing the good that comes is usually an easy task. However, accepting what is going or we have to make go is really complicated."

Each situation, each person and, therefore, each feel are full of intense nuances that lead our learning at one or another pace, asserting those teachings that purify our emotional maturity.

"The fact that we meet positive and unpleasant connections throughout our lives makes the act of forming a friendship all the more significant, mature, and introspective."

Thus, thanks to this same fact, we are increasingly concerned about quality than the number of friends and people we have by our side, because we will be linked to those who are more related to our life experiences.

Kindness and reciprocity are based on respect for others and the construction of one's own kindness. This is the background of sincere looks, architects of these feelings that are born from the heart and that help us to form a first division team before life.

Let's not forget to consider precisely what we mentioned at the beginning, that we are not black or white, but that we are made of different shades. While there are people who do not always behave well, it will be because at that time or in another previous one they have not made a good decision.