Father's love, quiet and silent

How long has it been since you called your father when you were far away from home?

When I saw this sentence, I had mixed feelings inside.

Others may still be thinking about the last time they called their fathers.

I don't even have to think about the last time I called my father.

I rarely call my father when I'm far away from home, and I still can't remember his phone number.

It's not that I don't have a good relationship with my father, or that I have any conflicts.

It's because, for so many years, I've been used to nagging my mother and talking about my heart.

For my father, it seems that there are always only a few topics to talk about.

But this does not mean that my father's love will be less than my mother's.

I remember that every time I called my mother, my father would only indirectly tell me to study hard and to try to find a good job.

After that, he would sit silently and listen to my mother and me talk. Inadvertently, he would again express his opinion on a certain sentence I said.

I knew that my father had been listening very carefully whenever I was on the phone with my mother.

I believe he also has a lot to say to me, but he is not as expressive as my mother.

My father's love is quiet and silent, but it is always found in every moment.

In my memory, my father had two faces.

In front of outsiders, my father was a good-tempered man who didn't talk much.

But at home, my father was always more nagging than my mother, and when things didn't go his way, he would always be cold-faced and lose his temper.

When I was young, I didn't understand my father and even once thought that only incompetent men would lose their temper with their wives and children.

But after growing up, away from home, into society, met many and fathers, in general, should have enjoyed life at an early age but still running around to understand, as a father, not only to bear the burden of the family but also to endure the loneliness of the soul.

Many times they have long been physically and mentally exhausted, but to make the family's life a little better, to keep their children fed and clothed, even if more painful and tired, they will grit their teeth and persist, without half a word of complaint.

And now, I seem to understand why sometimes, in front of outsiders, my father always looks obsequious, but at home inside the performance of the reason for the strong.

Fathers, like most people, are just ordinary people, but the role of a father makes the burden on their shoulders even heavier.

They do not have three heads and six arms, but still, hold up a piece of heaven for their children.

In front of outsiders, fathers will always care about their words and actions, will not be emotional, and will not easily show their most unpleasant side.

But in front of the family, the father does not have to pretend to be strong, the heart of tiredness swarmed, and all the bad emotions will also be in a moment to explode.

Maybe when he loses his temper, we will always feel annoyed and even feel incomprehensible.

But when we stand in the father's perspective will understand, that the father always over and over again tells their hard and tired, are not complaining, nor hoping for understanding and recognition, but hoping that they can try to live the life they want.

If a mother's love is like water, then the father's love is the mountain.

Compared to the mother's tenderness and concern for her children, the father sends more expectations and wishes to his children.

Every father has deeply experienced the bitterness of life and understands the hardships and difficulties of life, they do not want their children to repeat the same mistakes.

Therefore, many times, fathers always put forward various strict requirements for us, hiding their love for us in their harsh words.

Perhaps our father never expressed his love to us in delicate words, but his words and actions always reflected his love for his children.

No matter when and where, fathers are always the greatest people in the world, and their love is heavier than mountains.