Easy Ways To Impress Any Woman

Men, I want you to be successful on your dates. I want you to get what you're looking for. So, I'm going to lay out for you the easiest ways to impress any woman on the first date. We're going to be talking about again, the easiest ways to impress any woman on the first date.

I'm trying to help you succeed to have healthy relationships, healthy, successful dating experiences. I'm trying to make things better in a positive way. So, any manipulation and game-playing, we're not here for that, all right. So, let me lay out for you the easiest ways to impress any woman on the first date.

Number one, plan the date.

Now, listen, I'm not going to lie to you all. I'm a serial non-planner okay, like, it doesn't matter if it's dating if it's my tour events. I'm not the greatest at planning, but though that is a weakness of mine, I can still acknowledge the power of a man willing to plan or at least, the power it has on impressing that woman.

You know many women view your willingness to plan and your ability to execute as good leadership, as effort, as a genuine desire for her. She translates that into a lot of positive attributes. Now, we can make some arguments like, I've heard some people say well, you can't plan a date you can't lead.

Listen, the smart thing to do is create your plan, but you have a plan B or have some alternate routes you can take if let's say this isn't her cup of tea. So, for example, let's say you plan a date to the zoo, just an example, all right. And you find out after you get to the zoo she is terrified of monkeys okay or whatever animals are in that zoo.

Number two dress well.

Now, I know that sounds obvious to dress well, but let's go a little bit deeper into this, all right. I hear many stories from women of men coming to these dates looking a hot mess, all right. Either getting your homeboys opinion or your own opinion that does not know how to dress you up in an effective manner, that's the key here.

We got to go on these dates trying to emphasize or try to bring out our best in the sense of again how we best present ourselves on this first date. As I mentioned in the very beginning I don't want you to be something you're not, but I want you to identify your style and even not a dating uniform so to speak, but understanding what's a right style for you on dates to use.

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Number three on the list of easiest ways to impress any woman on a first date smells good.

So simple like yo, this again, easy just easy now, let's just put it out there right now. Do not drown yourself in cologne, all right. So, many of you all are going to kill her nose, her sense of smell because you're coming on too strong and this is why again, a lot of these things I'm mentioning are things I want you to get a grasp on before you go on a date.

So, what I mean by that with the cologne is if you have a certain cologne test out how much is too much. Go to a friend maybe you spray three times and say okay, how is the scent, the smell right now? Now granted, you know, different people have different senses of smell and what may come off strong as to one may not come off to another.

The number four key to impressing any woman or number four easiest way to impressing any woman on the first date is don't be the one to bring up sex.

Listen, women are already on guard and again, let me throw out there, we're talking about having healthy dating successful serious intentionally minded men trying to make a relationship, a positive, healthy one happen, all right. If you are about just trying to have sex then clearly this won't apply to you, but if you're about trying to take the situation very seriously then yes, do not be the one to bring up sex.

That can be a huge turn off to a woman even when she seems to continue along with the date or not be bothered. It's playing ahead like, dang! We just met, and this guy is already talking about sex. Don't be that guy. Don't be that guy now, if she brings it up that's an entirely different ball game, and I will leave it to you to determine if you want to entertain that conversation but don't be the one to do it.

Number five: Fifth easiest way to impress any woman is to be chivalrous.

Now, I know people will say chivalry is dead and some people say it is dead because women killed it and I'm not even going to argue that right now. However, many women still appreciate it, and it still helps you stand out. Let me give you a quick story. There was one time I'll never forget when I went to go speak in. I forgot the island St John's or something, all right.

This wasn't a date I went there to speak, but I was with the organizer, and we went out to get something to eat. And while we were walking she was walking on the side closest to the street closest to where the cars are coming, and I'm on the inside of the sidewalk, so I politely slid her over to the inside of the sidewalk and put myself on the outside, and it shocked her.

Very healthy practices that will be good not just the date, but for you in general in life so, again, those are the easiest ways to impress any woman on a first date.

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